Dopamine is a chemical substance that controls euphoria and pleasure. Dopamine is secreted in the striatum and nucleus accumbens of the brain. Its discovery comes from the medical field, but it is widely known because it is inseparable from love. The constant secretion of dopamine in dating will activate the reward system of the brain and produce euphoria. Our brains are used to finding corresponding reasons or excuses for every feeling and change, so in this case, the secretion of dopamine is associated with this person and some of his behaviors. Even if your sweetheart is not in front of you, your brain will automatically produce dopamine when you see his picture and hear his news. Intimate contact, as an unconditional stimulus, causes this unconditional reflex of dopamine release, such as sending messages, making phone calls and relying on intimate contact, which is often linked with unconditional stimulus as a conditional stimulus. Conditional stimulation can cause conditioned reflex (that is, the release of dopamine). So, what happened when you were lovelorn? In reality, I have become a stranger, but my brain changes much more slowly. So when I received the text message, I was still very sad, because the brain stubbornly thought that this would be the beginning of another intimate contact, but it was followed by the failure of hope. The subsequent dopamine can't continue to be secreted, and the nerves have adapted to the excitement and pleasure brought by drug love. Once stopped, it will bring unpleasant withdrawal symptoms. Falling in love is because it makes people happy and forgets everything, but it is difficult to pull away from it, so as to avoid unbearable withdrawal symptoms. From the pursuit of fast to escape pain, love is addictive like drugs. Through brain imaging technology, the researchers found that showing lovelorn people photos of the opposite sex will lead to brain activity related to drug addiction, which means that the pain caused by lovelorn love probably comes from the same brain mechanism as the pain of drug withdrawal. Moreover, the activity in this area will basically disappear after the lovelorn 18 months. In other words, it takes 18 months for the brain to get out of lovelorn, which is longer than the time required for detoxification. Dopamine makes you fall in love with a person's specific situation in two ways. Dopamine withdrawal reaction correspondingly, lovelorn needs the brain to cut off this connection and endure the painful withdrawal reaction. To get out of lovelorn, we should not only get used to the vacant positions around us, but also change and reorganize the neural pathways. It may only take a month to establish reflex and nerve connection to connect him with dopamine release, but the learning regression and nerve change are much longer. Especially in the process of fading, there is irregular reinforcement, then this fading will be slower, and the contact after breaking up may become an obstacle to fading. Isolation and cooling down may be better for you before IQ regains the highlands. It is normal for you and your brain to forget him and the happiness and pleasure he brings. In the process of recovery, family, friends and teachers are the objects you can rely on and talk to. Please get rid of the person who made you miserable and the traces and scenes of the past for a while. Time will erase everything, and the beauty of the past is worth cherishing, but what is more important than the past is the present and the bright future you perceive. It's hard to be lovelorn because of what the brain secretes. Scientists have done experiments and found that the brains of lovelorn people are related to love. The ventral tegmental area will remain active, just as the lovelorn has not happened yet. However, lovelorn people already feel that they are lovelorn. This contrast with the brain will not only bring great pain, but also make the related systems in the brain active. This feeling is like the kind of desire that has never been able to get what you want. As we all know, the wonderful moments in love are basically the result of the body's endocrine dopamine, and dopamine will not decrease after lovelorn. Our brain will measure the gains and losses, analyze the risk areas, and then make the cells in the A 10 area run quickly, thus making the brain release dopamine crazily. Excessive release of dopamine will make some people with some addictive behaviors lose control of their emotions and behaviors, and then do some stupid things. The signals released by the brain are expected to get feedback. If you don't get feedback for a long time, there will be corresponding activities in the frontal cortex of the brain, which is to suppress impulses and change behavior. After the crazy release of dopamine, the brain began to sort out its chaotic emotions, and then began to weaken the activity of the love area, so that the lovelorn gradually returned to calm. This is to explain the brain activity process of a lovelorn person from the perspective of the brain. The specific pain brought to the lovelorn depends on how much this feeling accounts for their feelings. It's hard to be lovelorn because of what the brain secretes. 3. The emotional fluctuation experienced by women after breaking up with the man they love will change their brains, and this change can be seen in the instrument scan. This is also the real reason why women are more painful than men on the issue of lovelorn. We believe that mental disorders, such as depression, are likely to lurk in a normal brain system very early, and once stimulated by excessive social pressure, the blow of breaking up or the pain of losing relatives, this disease will begin to appear. Being abandoned by someone you love or the death of someone you love is a very common cause of female depression. It is believed that intense sadness will cause serious damage to those brain regions that control people's emotions, life motivation and attention. If we have a deeper understanding of the causes of brain sadness, then we can finally help those who fall into sadness and have a deeper understanding of the process of depression. What is dopamine? What is the reward mechanism? Dopamine is a neurotransmitter, a chemical used to help cells transmit pulses. This kind of brain endocrine is mainly responsible for the lust, feeling and information transmission of excitement and happiness in the brain. Reward mechanism is a neural reward pathway of dopamine production, and dopamine is the fundamental source of all human intrinsic motives. Human nature pursues happiness and avoids pain. No matter what people like to do, whether they eat delicious food, wear new clothes, live in a big house, drive a good car or fall in love, they all make people feel happy through the mechanism of reward effect. What happened after being lovelorn? Falling in love is because the secretion of neurotransmitters such as hormones and dopamine makes people feel happy, and breaking up is because of the unbearable withdrawal reaction after the hormone secretion is reduced. From the pursuit of excitement to pain, from love to lovelorn, just like from drug abuse to detoxification. After lovelorn, the dopamine level of lovelorn people is low, and the dopamine level in VTA area is lower than that of addicts when they don't take drugs. The continuous decrease of dopamine level will bring depression, emotional instability, attention, memory and even cognitive impairment. At this time, the body will remind itself that it needs some stimulation to stimulate itself, restore dopamine level, get pleasure and maintain normal physiological level. This is the psychological craving mechanism of drugs. For lovelorn, there has always been a fixed object as a source of stimulation, which keeps people happy and excited. After lovelorn, this stimulus no longer feeds back the information that can make you happy normally, and the dopamine level of the human body will continue to be at a low level, showing a state of listlessness, emotional instability and unhappiness. At this time, the body will constantly remind you of the need for stimulation to recover, and the lovelorn will unconsciously recall the beautiful scene (once stimulation) to find short-term happiness. ................................................................................................................................