1. Do housework together regardless of each other.

The attitude of husband and wife towards housework is the temperature of marriage. The biggest sadness in feelings is to take personal contribution to family for granted. Love is a verb, the action of love comes first, and the feeling of love comes last, so you must love each other before you can feel love for each other.

2. Occasionally show weakness and leave it to the other party to carry out.

The essence of weakness is actually an advanced "emotional value", which can make the other party feel "needed and appreciated".

Small things are given to lovers, and marriage is gentler.

Love is a need, and occasional weakness is the most direct expression of the other person's needs.

Hug each other every day

Pam Spall said: "Hugs and kisses before going to work in the morning will make people remember the whole day." Hugs can enhance relationships. Research shows that hugging between partners is more important than sex.

4. Continue to share.

The happiness of life is not that you have nothing to say, but that you want to experience it with your lover every time you feel moved.

When I went out in the morning, I saw green trees and red flowers. I took photos of them casually, and then sent them to my partner's workshop for a cup of milk tea. When I was happy, I talked with my partner about surfing the Internet and saw an interesting joke. I sent it to my partner to make her smile happily. Contact at any time, and love will become stronger.

5. Don't dig up old scores

Someone said, "90% of breakups in the world can be redeemed."

Most irreparable things are because they like to dig up old scores and endlessly salvage sunk costs.

If you can't let go of your obsession, you can't win happiness. If you can't let go of the past, you can't open the future.

Praise each other more

Many people will think that "the more I praise the other half, the more he floats." In fact, the real high praise is not to praise him to the sky, but to take him home.

Remember this praise formula: specific events+praise of advantages+your own feelings.

"Husband ~ The red number you sent me today is really nice. Your eyes are really good. I like it! I love you more today! "

7. Support hobbies and sincerely encourage them

If I like sports, it will support me to have my own exercise time;

You like movies, and I'll watch them with you.

I like traveling, and you will take time to go out with me to see the world.

You like delicious food. Although I am clamoring to lose weight, I will accompany you to find delicious food everywhere.

True love is not to prevent you from meeting a better self, but to move towards a common future together.

8. Be kind to parents and attach importance to family.

In small family affairs, the elderly on both sides are not allowed to intervene, but they know how to care and filial their parents in life.

Take them to physical examination and travel regularly, go home and see them more often when you have time, and accompany them to educate their children to be filial to their parents.

9. Talk before going to bed

How do you sleep with your lover after marriage?

Will you wait for him to fall asleep? Or back to back, sleeping together?

Or have you already slept in separate rooms?

Life is not the wedding smoke of two people. Don't live a lonely life. Snuggle up with your lover. When you are going to sleep, talk about interesting things that happened during the day and discuss their troubles.

10. Smile every day

Laughing more will bring you good luck. If you always keep a straight face, your weekly use pressure is very low.

Wake up, wake each other up with the brightest smile and spend a wonderful day together. When you come back from work, greet each other with a smile to eliminate the fatigue of the day.

1 1. Give life more freshness.

The secret of keeping love fresh is to add some freshness to the gloomy life. I was promoted and invited my lover to the cinema: I was praised and had a romantic candlelight dinner; On the anniversary, send a gift to your lover.

When you feel that the relationship between husband and wife is dull, you might as well seize the node of life and add some freshness.

12. Think from the other side's standpoint

Feelings are mutual, warm your heart with your heart. When we get along, we can't be too dry. Consider everything from the other side's standpoint.

A beautiful wedding begins with putting the other person in your heart. Start by thinking from the other side's standpoint.

final result

Jiang Yang said:

"Life is half daily necessities and half stars and seas.

Put some salt in it. It's made, put a little essence, it's sweet, and it's up to you to decide its taste. "

Marriage is not a ready-made thing in life, and it needs the joint investment of both husband and wife.

In profound terms, the long road is slow: leaving people to middle age, although youth has passed. But my heart is still warm, and I can still feel that happiness.

Manage carefully, stick to these 12 habits, and make your home a nest where you can laugh, cry and have a sense of belonging.