In the special program "Workplace is a Skilled Work", Yan Rujing said that after living in Beijing for seven years, she has her own partner and has made the big city her hometown. But I think what big cities bring me is just a sense of drift. People often say that a foreign country can't hold the soul, but the hometown can't hold the body. It is nothing more than saying that big cities are too lonely without families and people have no sense of belonging. ?

Big cities are always unattainable, with flowers everywhere, and the beauty of food is overwhelming, as if it were our paradise and everyone's goal. Many people who come to big cities from rural areas want to live here, or make money here and realize their dreams. However, many people have lost themselves here, cried, hurt and loved here. Lonely, hard and struggling, some people finally returned to their hometown, and some people moved to other places to continue their search. ?

Wandering is a spiritual thing, which has a lot to do with whether you settle in a big city or not. If you are alone in a big city, you don't have a satisfactory salary at work, or you can't see room for improvement, then you have been drifting like duckweed. A sense of belonging is the feeling of returning home, safe, secure, relaxed, loving, identifying, tolerant, harmonious and warm. Home can regulate our body and mind, without any sense of escape, temporary residence and dependence. It is normal to leave home for a strange city, so we must face it squarely. Because we are in a foreign land, in a bustling big city, fighting hard for a few silver dollars, we hope to survive, be recognized, be respected, take root, get married and get married in a big city. In this process, we haven't realized that our hearts are often full of melancholy and hesitation.

I think where my parents are, I feel a sense of belonging and home. I think many people support this view. Parents left, duckweed, walking dead. What if there is no one you like in a big city, even if you have a house and a car? How happy can a person drink, eat and live in a villa? If a person is happy, maybe you are suitable for dying alone. I think people are social animals, and a person is always lonely, although we all like to be alone, quiet, thinking and working alone. However, you still need someone to chat and talk at ordinary times.

We think whether you have a sense of belonging in a big city depends on whether you have money. If you have a house and a car in a big city and go home to live in your own place at night, you may have a sense of belonging. But if you don't buy a house, maybe your sense of belonging doesn't know where to start. If a city has lights shining for you, that's your warm home, and that's where you belong. If there is no such light, then you are wandering alone in the big city, and you are also alone in the wind and rain.