People form a generalized and fixed view of a certain thing or object, and extend this view to believe that the thing or the whole has such characteristics. We call this a "stereotype."

For example, people usually think that obese people are gluttons, and thin people have diseases; smoking tattoos are social figures; women who wear heavy makeup, fashionable clothes, and luxury goods are gold diggers.

People also have stereotypes about people from different regions, such as "Cantonese people eat everything", "all Sichuan people love spicy food", "Northeastern women all love mink, and men all love big gold chains" and so on.

The same is true for appearance. People tend to think that good-looking people will have beautiful qualities such as integrity, kindness, sincerity, and love.

Coupled with the first impression effect, good-looking people can easily leave a good first impression on others and form and occupy a dominant position in the other person's mind.

Some people will say, "If I don't have a good-looking face, wouldn't it be a disadvantage in social and work life?"

Although it is said that good-looking people are more likely to be popular, but in society, it is not just about the face, but the overall image.

The so-called image does not mean how a person's facial features are, but whether he is dressed appropriately, whether his behavior is generous, whether he is full of energy, etc.

And appearance comes from the heart, and people with good qualities will not look bad.

Only when you cultivate yourself both internally and externally will you have more temperament.

——Author of the time management book "Do It Now", a working mother of two, whose official account is "Angry Strawberry" to help you live an efficient life