I've never thought about the way L Jun and I really quarreled.

because in the past, it was mostly me who lost my temper, while Mr. L stayed by my side and took pains to find ways to ease the atmosphere.

On Saturday, we had a quarrel. In retrospect, the cause was a little vague, and naturally it was not a major cause. I only remember that Mr. L coaxed me for a long time, but my mood was good and bad. Later, because of his careless words, my anger was ignited again. I broke free from his arms on the sofa like a cat with a stress reaction and got into the bathroom, intending to wash my face and calm down.

Mr. L followed me into the bathroom, looked at me for a while, turned around and went out again. I thought he was going out for a walk to avoid this silent battlefield, but he turned back abnormally and walked into the bathroom again. So, I met Mr. L, who has been in the most intense mood for more than three years, and listed my evil deeds loudly and justifiably.

The first time I heard Mr. L talking to me so loudly, I felt aggrieved, so I stared at him strangely with tears rolling in my eyes.

"What are you staring at me for!" L jun said loudly again, "you are too far away from me, I can only speak so loudly, or you are closer to me ..."

at this time, we are both standing in a small bathroom, only one meter away.

Some people may think that how can he quarrel with you too loudly? It's too unkind. In fact, my first reaction was the same. I felt that the gentle image of L Jun in my heart for more than three years seemed to be a little more violent. But when I think about it, I also found a little surprise.

Does this mean that, from the caution in the love relationship, Mr. L has gradually regarded me as the most trusted person in his married life, and he can reveal his true inner thoughts, face up to my shortcomings, and tell me when necessary: your actions will affect our relationship.

in the end, the starting point of our quarrel is just to manage this marriage well. Since the original intentions are the same, every quarrel in this marriage will eventually end in sweetness and give us new growth.

"quarreling is really tiring. I'm sweating all over. I really don't know why you like such hard work." L Jun and I walked the dog in the community and started to vomit fancy.

"It's the first time I've seen you so car-scrapping. You dare to yell at me. Is this the rhythm of turning over serfs to sing? Do you still want to be the master? " I'm teasing.

"That's necessary. You must show the courage of the head of the family."

"What shall we eat in the evening?"

"Whatever you say, you can eat whatever you want."

"You have to listen to the head of the family ~"

"Don't bother the head of the family with such trifles ~"

In life, there are many such small details that I want to record, but they are too trivial, so I have to accumulate them for a period of time and pieced together a written article. Perhaps, love in marriage is really different from love in love. It lasts all day and all night. It is easy to get hot-headed and over-consume, and it becomes bills and savings cards with different uses; From the A side that is carefully dressed and displayed every time we meet, to the B side that dares to reveal the unbearable life; From reporting good news to not reporting worries, to becoming the same body of fate.

the only constant is the casual heartbeat.

One night last week, when I woke up, I found that Mr. L was not around and the bedroom door was tightly closed. I thought he was going to the bathroom at night. It was not until the next morning that I realized that tea had been having diarrhea last night. Mr. L, who usually slept well, actually heard the puppy's cry for help, got up and opened the cage door, and kept it for most of the night.

"Why don't you wake me up to cover for you?" Knowing this in the morning, I put my pillow on his arm and asked softly.

"You slept soundly, so there's no need for both of us to make trouble."

a lot of what l jun gave me was hidden in these details that he didn't care about and thought were common, but for me, it was deeply moved.

At the end of May, we went to Hangzhou, and took the annual convalescence leave of Mr. L, which was also the first time for me to take a plane with a free ticket. I thought that the complicated operation process was so smooth under the leadership of Mr. L, and all round-trip flights had suitable seats for us to take.

"what's the name of that widget on the wing? What's the use? Are you still climbing? When do you put the wheels? " Finally, I didn't sit in the cockpit, so I seized the opportunity and started my "1, Why".

Mr. L patiently explained one by one, telling me the function of the flaps, the different postures of the plane, and the fact that when he works, the thunderstorm weather is almost alternate, there will be a lot of small air currents at Daxing Airport, and so on ........

I love Mr. L's serious appearance very much, just like when he is not serious.

during a few days in Hangzhou, Mr. L actively took photos for me, looked up the raiders and took me to walk in this extremely comfortable city. Like two free fish, we broke into a new pond, but we were able to swim quickly and comfortably.

Before leaving, my colleagues reminded me many times that I must eat a certain restaurant, which is the most authentic hangzhou dishes. After eating hangzhou dishes for one day, L Jun and I decided to take out the beer crayfish with garlic flavor and thirteen flavors the next day. The beer should be chilled, and the lobster soup should be served with potatoes and potato powder.

"Do you think most of the dishes here are too gentle?" I asked l jun.

"Crayfish and beer are really a perfect match," L Jun burped. "It's not easy to find someone to eat with."

"We are good friends!" Even if two people eat, remember to drink occasionally!

Later, Mr. L and I returned to work. When we came home and washed, Mr. L said to me, "I will take a look at the photos of our outing when I am free. It's really beautiful. In the future, I will definitely take you out to play. "

Although this is the first long-distance trip since we fell in love, for various reasons, I am already satisfied, because I have a lover who can walk with me, not only to give me a trip that I can walk away, but also to walk side by side with me on the repetitive road, such as our fixed dog walking route in the community. As long as Mr. L is at home, we will walk together, day after day, spring, summer, autumn and winter, every day in our life.

Travel is just a kind of peers. Love is also a kind of peers. May we all have the person we can travel with, and may we all have a "we".