1, water meter dialogue
Man: Are you there?
Woman: Yes.
M: What year are you from?
Female: 90 years old.
Man: How tall is it?
Female: 163.
Summary: This kind of chat gives people the feeling that they are straight, and people are not rigid machines. A dry conversation is easily blacked out by the other party.
Step 2 evaluate each other at will
Man: You are so beautiful, there should be a lot of people chasing you, right?
Woman: No.
M: How many times have you been in love?
W: I haven't talked about it.
M: Then you won't have any problems, will you?
Summary: People who like to judge others at will are either typical flattering personalities or typical megalomaniacs, both of which are very unpopular with women.
Step 3 confess
M: My name is xXX. I am XX years old today and work in xXX. I haven't bought a house yet, because my injured savings are not enough. I want to find a marriage partner as soon as possible. What do you think of me?
Woman: That's all right.
M: Then tell me more about your interest in Three Views, and I'll see if we are suitable.
Woman: No.
Conclusion: Blind date is a process of mutual understanding. You take the initiative to explain everything to each other. On the surface, you are real, but in the eyes of girls, you have no mystery and no motivation to continue to get along with you.
Second, how to chat with blind date
1 Establish a tacit understanding
When you meet a blind date for the first time, girls will be psychologically alert to you. If you chat too much, care or comment casually, girls will only label you as "poor impression". Therefore, if you want to get the other side off their guard quickly, you can establish a tacit understanding through humorous information exchange. You should know that once two people have established a tacit understanding, they will also establish an emotional connection.
For example:
Man: By the way, I don't know your name yet.
Woman: Just call me Xinxin. What about you?
Man: Zhao XX, call me little brother shy.
W: What do you do, brother?
M: As an Internet company, I work overtime until I vomit blood every day.
W: We have been working overtime recently. By the end of the year, there will be many customers.
M: Then this is our first tacit handshake.
Step 2 be humorous
If the blind date always likes to perfunctory your chat, it means that your chat topic is not nutritious and girls can't enjoy chatting with you. Therefore, it's best to change your way of chatting and express plain topics in a humorous way. Girls' emotions will be satisfied after pleasure, and they will naturally like to get along with you.
For example:
M: Looking at your photos, I think you are very cute.
W: I don't think I'm cute.
M: Then you are in charge of teasing and I am in charge of cuteness.
Woman: Haha, what's so cute about you?
M: Every cell in my head is full of pure green and lovely.
W: Haha, what you said reminds me of green plants and meaty.
M: Whatever, as long as you like.
Step 3 flirt passionately
The purpose of blind date is to fall in love and get married If chatting with girls stays at the stage of being friends, they will eventually fall into the situation of friendship zone. The so-called friendship zone means that the other party only treats you as a friend and doesn't feel the feeling of love at all. So we should seize the window period and take the initiative to attack. From the initial superficial expression of interest, we can talk about intimate topics step by step. Intimate topics include: shopping hand in hand, hugging, kissing and so on. The terms of intimacy are: baby, baby, cute and so on.
For example:
Man: How tall are you?
Female: 165. What about you?
M: 177 We are the cutest people with height difference.
Woman: Isn't the cutest height difference 15?
Man: It means to stand on tiptoe, stand on tiptoe and lift the skirt.
W: You really know how to add drama to yourself.
M: Yes, I am the leading role and supporting role in this play.
Your routine of picking up girls is too deep.
Man: No, strange babies are so cute. (warm taste title)
Woman: Gee, where do you work? (Girls take the initiative to ask questions to show that there is a window)
Third, prepare common topics.
If you want to chat happily with the blind date, you must determine the chat topic database in advance and choose the topic that the other person is most interested in. When you establish a common topic, the next chat will become much easier. The topics suitable for chatting with girls are: pets, stars, gossip, cosmetics, brand-name fashion, games, food, travel, TV movies, variety shows, music, childhood, future, ideals …