A few days ago, I heard from a friend that she was busy with work for a while and ate in the canteen of the unit at night. Once when I was eating at work, a male colleague at work asked my friend, "Why do you eat in the canteen every day?"? You don't go home to cook at night. Do you want your husband to starve to death? " My friend was shocked when he heard this sentence. After a while, my friend smiled and said, since you care so much about him, why don't you cook for him?

After listening, I was angry and called my friend back. This is really interesting and cool. For such a self-righteous man with low emotional intelligence, he should directly ask for it.

My friend met many excellent men. After all, many men still lived in the Qing Dynasty.

Many men get married just to find a nanny to take care of themselves.

A person who lived in the Qing Dynasty believed in his bones that women should serve men exclusively, and women were men's accessories and private property. Accessories have no independent attributes, so they should naturally serve the owner, pay all the hard work, and take it for granted, and never have holidays and rest days.

So many men get married to find a nanny in their hearts. In the future, I don't have to worry about housework A wife will give birth at home, take care of her parents, and then serve herself. Therefore, many men automatically degenerate after marriage and become third-degree disabled. They wait for their clothes to stick out, and their wives don't cook, so they will starve to death. They can't wash underwear, so they have to be washed by their wives. Even they need their wives to wait on them every day. I really don't know how these men have come over these years. The point is that other people also tell them what to do. Women eat in the canteen every day, and people tell you not to go home to cook. What should you do if your husband is hungry? Men eat in the canteen every day. Many people question why your wife doesn't cook for you when you eat in the canteen every day.

This is a double standard. These questions are often asked by men or women who still live in the Qing Dynasty.

The fundamental reason for the increasing number of leftover women is the cognitive backwardness of men.

Nowadays, more and more girls choose not to get married and become leftover women in the eyes of others. Many people see such girls wearing colored glasses and think that such girls are too picky and have problems in their hearts. But in fact, it is often these girls who are more awake. They realized the nature of marriage. Men just want to find someone to take care of themselves, but they don't want to serve others. Therefore, after divorce, men usually remarry. What they think is "I want someone to take care of me". If women can support themselves and their children independently, many of them will not consider remarriage. They thought, "I'm finally free. I don't want to serve anyone anymore."

To put it bluntly, the cruel truth of marriage between men and women in today's society is the contradiction between women's growing economic and social ability and men's backward self-cognition. If this contradiction is not resolved, the marriage and love market can only remain cruel.