The choice of story background and theme can arouse many audiences' attention to the social topic of "family of origin". Once "In the Name of Family" was broadcast, the popularity kept rising. After suffering the pain brought by family of origin, three half-children became new families with their two fathers, not defined by blood. The story takes place in the small noodle restaurant of dad Li Haichao. In addition to raising his daughter Li Jianjian by himself, dad Li, a "nice guy", has to take care of his son He Ziqiu abandoned by his blind date. Ling Xiao, who lives on the top floor of Li Jianjian in the name of his family, spent many days and nights in the quarrel between his parents because of the loss of his little daughter by his parents. In the end, mom Chen Ting chose to divorce and leave home alone. In this way, Li Dad and Ling Dad raised their three children together. In this new family, there are trivial daily necessities, as well as the warmth of mutual companionship. They are hurt by family ties, but they are also happy by family ties. This drama is a group image of life after 9, and we can find countless shadows of our own families.
friends say that their deep powerlessness during their quarrel is a feeling they will never forget, and to say anything more to either side is to add fuel to the fire. Parents quarreling is a contradiction that will appear in most families, even trivial things can be used to stir up a few words. But sometimes, such an environment or improper handling of problems will bring deep harm to children.
The way of dealing with family relations in the play has aroused the audience's * * * *
As we grow up, we can learn some ways to deal with family relations. If we can't interfere, we can give our parents some space to solve their own problems. Face up to the problem, learn to reconcile with yourself when you feel weak, and maybe the shadow will be illuminated by the sun. For thousands of years, China's parents' earnest expectation is that their children will be successful and their daughters will be successful. "I don't want to go to cram school this weekend." "You should study hard and work hard. We can't live up to our painstaking efforts. Parents put all their efforts into their children's education in the form of self-sacrifice. In the Chinese-style education environment, such a situation is not uncommon. Qi Mingyue, Li Jianjian's classmate in the play, grew up in strict education, and her mother's control is extremely strong. She is afraid of choosing and being accused, but her grades are excellent and her manners are decent, and she has also become a "child of other people's families". Sometimes, parents' "painstaking efforts" may be the biggest driving force for their children to move forward, or they may become heavy mental shackles, and the rights and wrongs may need specific analysis.
Let us understand the truth of life
When we are not understood, we often make habitual choices, not revealing our emotions to our parents and not communicating with them about the current situation. But in fact, no one can be missing from a healthy family relationship. We can try to communicate with our parents by telling stories; You can talk to friends first, relieve stress, and then calmly tell your parents about difficulties; You can also seek the help of others, so that parents can get to know you and understand you from another angle. There are many ways. No matter what the problem is, having relatives is a kind of luck in itself, and we should try our best to maintain this feeling that we can't give up. More transposition, more understanding and mutual tolerance may make family relations more harmonious. There are still many family problems that have happened and may be happening. How to correctly handle family relations has long puzzled countless family members.
limited by our past experience, when we deal with some family problems, we may be constantly cut and confused. At this time, asking for help from others may lead you to find a way to break the situation. No matter which fork in the road you are standing at now, Youmeng will always be behind you to help you. In addition, we have prepared special topics related to family relations for you in the video course, and there are growth coaches to be your strong backup! No matter how to define "family" and what problems have occurred, love is the constant fetter of family, and affection is the most sincere emotion in the world. May we all reconcile with the problems of the past, heal each other with our families and embrace the future.