I know I don't have a boyfriend at the moment, but my mind suddenly turned to a point, that is, if I had a boyfriend, what would I look like and what kind of mentality I should take to fall in love. To face up to the change from one person's life to two people's life. This should be worth thinking about, right?

most of us are single and eager to get rid of our singles, but most of us are single in Buddhism and making money in Buddhism. I didn't really do my best. Because the present era is too good, we are young, our education is not high or low, and we are hungry in the internet age. It doesn't matter if we are single, so we can go out for a one-time love.

However, at that time when I was studying, if I took the exam, my parents would always say that I had worked hard and I would not regret it. But my high school class teacher told me: "Do your best" instead of doing your best. Later, I cried and told the class teacher that he was partial and only liked those with good grades. The head teacher told me, "Not everyone is the darling of God". After joining the work, in a recent study activity, when running for the first place as the host, the boy said, "You must win the championship trophy." Others just want it, but I thought, "That trophy is useless to me, and I'm too lazy to fight for it. "。

In the days after work, I also thought about falling in love, but I always felt that a boyfriend was not necessary. Talking about it would not affect my life, nor did I say that I must find a boyfriend's determination and perseverance. But most of the time, I contributed to the online chat. Others are addicted to playing games, but I am addicted to chatting.

During my four years in Shenzhen, I talked to too many people. I am really a typical chatterbox but also a typical indirect autistic person. I can talk endlessly, I will be very critical, and I love to praise others. But it will also fall into a person's laziness and autism.

I began to think from another angle. I have been chatting online and playing various social software. I want to find someone I like, so I spend a lot of time. I want to find a boy who is about 175 years old, with a bachelor's degree. His family may be from Anhui, Jiangxi, Hubei and Hunan. The most important thing is that he also works in Shenzhen, and then he has outstanding working ability, the ability to make money, and his looks are pleasing to the eye, or he can be heavy-eyed with a high nose, super manly in sports, good-looking in laughter, loving fitness, reading and filial to his parents.

well, then, if I am lucky enough to know such a person and have such a partner, how should I date him, live and balance work and life?

First of all, I don't belong to a woman who is supported by a man, and I don't want to ask a man for money. If a woman wants a man's money, most of them are kept in captivity, which means putting up with a person's bad temper or even sexual violence. I can never do this. So I can't be the kind of woman who is kept in captivity.

If you are in love, dating means spending money and time. So at this time, the problem comes. When I fell in love in college, I spent my boyfriend's money, because he would make money, but I wouldn't. Now that I have a job and he has a job, whose money will it cost to go out on every date?

In love, I really can't accept a stingy man, especially in the first week or month of love, I like a gentleman. But I will also be a kind and considerate girlfriend, buy him water and take care of him.

If my boyfriend dies, the first place to date should be in Shenzhen. It will probably be a drink together, which should be near where I live. You may also choose Lianhuashan Park, and you will go to the book mall to read books, then eat and watch a movie at night. It's probably time to get to know each other.

Then, I need to consider whether I feel happy with him, and whether my views on consumption and money are the same. I won't experience cohabitation in a short period of communication. I can't do it at all. Maybe I will visit his house and show off my cooking skills after I have made friends, met my parents and confirmed the relationship between men and women. But I will definitely not bring him to my rental house to sleep for the night. I won't have sex in his rented house either. I think the first place to have sex will still be the hotel during the trip. For example, go to Xiamen, Zhuhai or Guangzhou or Huizhou.

then, when we are in contact, I can't stick to him every day, and I don't want him to stick to me every day. A successful man with a career must work very hard, so I won't contact him frequently within 24 hours, but I need to have interactive contact every day, including voice, video or telephone. However, WeChat language and video are indispensable, and I have to contact him at least once a day for about an hour.

Then at other times, we shouldn't be together and live together, but we will date once every Sunday and go climbing together. There are so many mountains in Shenzhen, but we don't consider climbing and playing ball for the first five dates. Only parks, bookstores and cinemas.

After the relationship is stable, I will climb Wutong Mountain with him, play badminton or watch him play basketball. Go to many online celebrity bases in Shenzhen to take photos and record videos as a souvenir. I will go to the bookstore to read books, and then enjoy the delicious food in Shenzhen and the new blockbuster in the cinema. I will drive to the seaside, swim, attend a book club, go to a supermarket to cook together, stay at home to watch movies or read.

Guanlan's print base is a good place for dating. I hope I can go there hand in hand with him and cuddle in the sunset.

Happy Valley and Window of the World in Shenzhen have never been there. I hope I can take photos with him.

Zhuhai and Xiamen have always wanted to go, but they didn't. I want to punch in with him.

In addition, I hope we can walk together, listen to songs and sing in ktv.

Besides playing, I hope I can eat with him. I like pizza and pasta. I hope jiaozi likes it, too. We can try different restaurants or study different foods at home. After eating, work out at home or play ball outdoors on foot. What I like most is being able to swim, ride a bike and drive go on road trip with people I like.

If I have a boyfriend, I want to wear beautiful clothes every day. I can receive his roses and small gifts, spend my birthday with him and go shopping together. He chooses clothes for me or takes photos for me. I want to wear lovers' shoes, hats and clothes with him.

If I have a boyfriend, I hope we can study, read and eat quietly in the library every ordinary Sunday. Hugs and kisses.

I hope that through the concerted efforts of two people, I can buy a house around Shenzhen and have a car. Through my efforts, I can increase the source of income. I hope I can live positively and optimistically every day, see his smile, hear his voice, listen to his troubles and stories, and challenge all the unknown things together.

If I have a boyfriend, I will love him, take care of him, become better with him, and achieve him and myself. I will love him very much, and I hope that he will appreciate the advantages of his body and tolerate my shortcomings. Let's make progress together and create a bright future. You have me in your eyes and you in my eyes. The reality is cruel, but because of love, I am willing and happy to sleep on the street with you.

If I have a boyfriend, I will definitely love him and give him the gentlest consideration.