Psychological test: Will you meet a better person?
Many people have been pursuing better things all their lives, but they don't know that the present happiness is what life should cherish. What about love? Do you want a better love? Follow me to do a psychological test: Will you meet someone better? Welcome everyone to read.
psychological test: will you meet someone better? 1
the test begins:
1. have you ever suffered a serious emotional injury?
Yes-2
No-3
2. Did you go to a bar when you were lovelorn?
Yes-3
No-4
3. Do you often pretend to be innocent in relationships?
Yes-5
No-4
4. Do you think love is like fireworks, which disappears in the air after a while?
Yes-6
No-5
5. Do you like people of the opposite sex around you who are very popular?
I like it-6
I don't like it-7
6. Have you ever said "I'm so tired, I don't feel like loving anymore"?
Yes-7
No-8
7. Has anyone ever commented on your kindness?
Yes-8
No-9
8. Do you still believe in true love on the Internet?
Yes-9
No-1
9. Do you think that in most cases, friends are actually more reliable than lovers?
Yes-1
No-11
1. Do you like watching some family life soap operas?
Yes-11
No-12
11. Has anyone ever said that the more you look, the better you look?
Yes-12
No-13
12. Do you mind living with your in-laws after marriage?
quite mind-13
no mind-15
generally mind-14
13. Do you think you are not calm enough?
Yes-15
No-14
14. Have you ever been trapped in several relationships?
Yes-16
No-17
15. If you go on a blind date, will you be silent to someone you hate at first sight?
Yes-16
No-17
I don't know-18
16. If you travel, do you expect to have a beautiful encounter?
Yes-18
Occasionally-19
Not expecting-2
17. If you want to meet someone you admire, which of the following colors would you choose to wear?
blue and purple-a
red and orange-19
black, white and gray-b
18. If a newspaper of the day and a book you have read were placed in front of you, which would you choose?
a newspaper of the day-c
a book I have read-2
I don't know how to choose-b
19. If you can't have love, what would you like to have directly?
Beauty-C
Fame-D
Money-E
2. Nowadays, the divorce rate is getting higher and higher. Which of the following is your opinion?
normal phenomenon is none of my business-a
irresponsible performance of marriage-d
if you can't go on, you will leave. Who can't live without it these days-e
answer analysis
A My result: encounter probability: 55%
Even if you have encountered some unbearable things in the past, you will still be. Even if the sky is gloomy at present, at least you believe that the light will come soon. Optimistic, you still believe in love, and you want to make your life more exciting and you want to be happy. In this way, you may still meet better people. After all, if you don't want to believe in love, how can there be better love ahead? It is possible to meet someone better, if not 1%, but it is always possible. But if you don't even believe in love, true love, and a bright future, it's probably impossible.
bMy result: Probability of meeting: 65%
Generally speaking, the probability of meeting a better person is still very high. Because you used to be confused in your feelings, you didn't know what was right for you, and you didn't know what kind of person you wanted. As a result, as long as you have the opportunity, you will still try everything. But it is precisely because there are more kinds of attempts and more emotions that the people you meet are good, bad and blind, and cats and dogs will have them. Fortunately, you don't want to waste time on these people now, and decide to be sensible in your feelings. But when feelings come, you can't be rational. This is really a headache for you, and therefore, for you like this, you often meet it without knowing it.
C my result: encounter probability: 45%
After calculation, you are not a blank sheet of paper. In the short journey of life, you have met some poor people and read good people worth cherishing, but you still have no fate to make a positive result. No one knows what the future will be like, and you don't want to give yourself a rule. You must meet better people before you can do it. After all, whether it is bitter or happy, it is a trial of life. If there is, then you are happier. If you don't meet someone better than you have experienced before, it's nothing, because you have met someone good anyway. It seems that there is no regret, and the rest is the part of living.
D My result: the probability of meeting: 85%
For some singles, words such as "I may meet better people in the future, so I must treat myself well for better people" can bring some positive energy to others. But for yourself, you are not likely to meet, you must find such a better person. You have been playing soy sauce in your feelings. Even if you have been loved or loved, your feelings are generally playing soy sauce. But now you don't want to go on like this, you want to have your own beautiful love. Therefore, you must find this better person in the future. When you are determined to find him, God will be on your side.
E my result: encounter probability: 75%
What is love? Is it a necessity? Maybe you thought so before, but now you don't think so anymore. Maybe the next person will be better, maybe not. There are so many possibilities in life that no one can guarantee his own life, let alone others. Therefore, you are more willing to focus on yourself. It doesn't matter whether the next one will be better or worse. The only thing you need to firmly believe is that as long as you cherish time and growth, you will meet a better yourself. The better you are, the better you can meet. This kind of you is actually more likely to meet.
Further reading:
We all deserve to meet better people
Love should never be a necessity in our life. What we should do when we lose someone is not to die, but to calm down and settle down what we really want. If the other person gives you what you want, then love together; If the other party can't give you what you want, it's better to have long-term pain than short-term pain.
the first time I figured this out was after I ended a relationship that lasted almost two years, and it was also a long love experience in my adolescence.
The boyfriend I talked about at that time was just like a line in the movie "Beijing meets Seattle": "He is the best man in the world. He may not take you to a French meal on a yacht, but he can run a few streets for you every morning to buy your favorite soybean milk fritters."
He picks me up from the studio downstairs at 1: 3 every winter night, takes me to eat hot Chongqing noodles and then sends me home. He will make sandwiches for me at home and carefully paint the sandwich sauce into a heart-shaped pattern; He will take us to the premiere of the movie, and he will skip class and accompany me to eat snacks in the food court.
Like most girls, he is the memory of my whole youth, and the clearest and most straightforward picture in my memory when I was eighteen. But like most couples, we finally failed to escape the curse of breaking up after graduation.
I went to Nanjing, my favorite city, to study my parents' favorite financial major, and he went to the United States to study. The time difference between us is 13 hours, 2, kilometers. The day before I sent him away, downstairs in my house, he asked me in a vulgar way, "If there is an extra ticket, will you come with me?" I pinched his face with tears and said, "Take care."
We didn't break up immediately after graduation because we couldn't bear to part. At that time, we still cherished the good hope that the future would be good, and we missed each other across the ocean. Even if we are separated by the time difference, we will reply as soon as we see each other's news. Even if we are far away, we will share our location with each other all the time, including the password of social software.
we stubbornly believe that the love of youth can withstand all tests, but in the end, we find that everything is just a mirage.
Then we broke up because I couldn't accept long-distance relationships.
He asked me, "Why can't I accept long-distance love?"
I said, "I'm sorry, I'm selfish. I can't afford the distant warmth.
I want love in nine words: visible, tangible and beside me. "
from then on, we parted ways and never contacted each other again.
I had countless impulses to contact him in the middle of the night, but I resisted them. Because I know very well that there is no future between us. Meaningless procrastination will only make two people work harder, so why bother?
the original meaning of love is to make the other person feel happy, not to count the pain in the middle of the night. If you feel pain, it must be against the original intention of love. We first got together just to make each other feel happy and happy, didn't we?
I couldn't help crying when I was just lovelorn. My best friend took me shopping. I cried and stained the shopkeeper's clothes with mascara and was scolded by others. My friend took me to a comedy movie, but I couldn't help crying because the boy sitting in the front row had a similar side face to him. Locked myself in the bedroom only to find a picture of us on the bedside table.
at that time, I felt as if I had lost the ability to love others, but I didn't have the courage to continue this relationship with him.
Later, my best friend told me this:
"We are not young, and we should not waste two years or more on anyone. We have no time and energy to do it again. So those who can't see the results, don't continue.
pack up and start again. We all deserve to meet better people. "
Yes, we all deserve to meet better people.
it's nothing to be lovelorn, because the people who can be missed are not the right people; Being single is nothing, because time will help you choose the best person.
Just like a Taiwan Province beauty blogger who I follow on Weibo, I like a girl for a long time. Her fans all know that the reason why this girl became popular on the Internet is because of a makeup video called "Split Up".
She just fell in love a few years ago, and she couldn't help crying during the whole process of recording the makeup tutorial. One sentence that impressed me deeply was that at the beginning of the video, I said, "Make yourself look better, dry your tears and let's start again." Later, she said in Weibo that every time she was lovelorn or unhappy, she would put on makeup, and when she saw her beautiful appearance, she would not be so sad.
Now that she has her own career, family and lover, every day in Weibo is full of the sweetness of love. She said that she would never cry and make up again, because now she has met a husband who loves her very much.
A good partner can't bear to see you cry, because he is distressed and loves you.
We have all lost some people and given up some people to some extent, but that shouldn't stop you from becoming a better person.
It is a good thing that someone loves you,
But when no one loves you, you should love yourself better.
We will meet countless people, pass by countless people, meet some people and practice love with a few people, but in the end, we can only spend the rest of our lives with one person.
I want to tell every lovelorn and single girl three things:
After ending a relationship, crying is the most meaningless thing. You can cry once to release yourself, but you can't keep crying and dragging yourself. Use the time of crying to change, and you will definitely become a better person.
the good love you yearn for is always hard to find. But don't worry, read your own books and movies first. One day, that person will pick you up. You will lie in the same bed and watch the same book and movie.
We all deserve to meet someone better, but before that person appears, you must be beautiful, because love is very powerful in this world. You can be humble to the bone for someone, but no one will love you so humble.
A relationship that you can't let go of is like catching a bad cold. No matter how sick you are, you will definitely recover one day. In fact, the person we should thank most is the one who missed it.
only by missing the right person can you meet a better person.
hi, silly girl, are you there?
if I could stand in front of you, I would definitely walk over and hug you. It doesn't matter if I tell you about your hard work, there will always be someone to protect you; It doesn't matter if you can't see the future, someone will accompany you; It doesn't matter if you can't love the person you want to love. Anyway, someone is crossing mountains to love you.
Stop crying for that person.
Remember, we all deserve to meet better people.
And the one she is destined for, you must find her quickly.
She has been waiting for you alone for too long. Psychological test: will you meet better people? 2
1. When you are young, will your personality be capricious?
Yes → Question 2
No → Question 3
2. Would you like to wash your hands and make soup for someone you love?
Willing → Question 3
Unwilling → Question 4
3. Have you been badly hurt?
yes → question 5
no → question 4
4. Do you have the ability to know other people's inner world quickly?
Yes → Question 5
No → Question 6
5. Who broke up in the last relationship? <