A former colleague often mentioned two awesome people in front of everyone. One is a beautiful female anchor in Tik Tok, and of course my colleague is also a girl.

She said that this awesome person's daily life is all kinds of luxury cars and luxury bags, plus the world's travel and incomparable exquisite food, which is an enviable one.

the key is that people are not only rich, but also have a good face value, and they showed me the video of this awesome person. It's really beautiful, sexy, enchanting and rich. I've only seen such a royal sister-like figure in a special petty bourgeoisie TV series.

I asked, what is her occupation? Colleagues say that Wechat business is quite profitable. The tone is full of admiration.

The other one is the person I know around my colleague, that is, the proprietress of a women's clothing store she frequents.

according to my colleagues, the boss's business mind is so fierce that she goes to Guangzhou and Shenzhen to purchase goods every month. Not only is her eye on goods quite accurate, but she also uses members' priority purchase and hunger marketing strategies, that is, she maintains the old customers in the WeChat group, and the inventory is almost zero.

people are not only the best, but the key point is that more than a month ago was the most prosperous season in the sales industry, and the proprietress willfully put up a notice that she was closed. She wanted to accompany her family and children, travel around and enjoy life during the period around the year.

It is still closed during the winter and summer vacations, and she has to take her children to see the world.

listening to the story of this proprietress, even I am envious and amazed.

I think the reason why a cow person is awesome is that she/they all know clearly what kind of life they want, and through their efforts, they have made their life look like what they want, and they have also become their own unique scenery.

what my colleague often says is, when I have money, I will do what I want.

I found that people who often say this sentence are people who have no money, and the signs of waiting for her/him to have money don't seem obvious.

Take my colleague as an example. He is in his thirties and thirties. He is still single, and he has a lot of time to chase dramas and idolize every day. For me, it is a great waste and luxury to spend so much time chasing dramas and idolize.

When a person is full, the whole family is not hungry, so her salary is used to buy clothes, various products of stars, posters and magazines of various stars. Including the workstation in the office, the computer screen saver and the small ornaments on the table are all parts related to her favorite star. By the way, these things are not cheap.

It's often that every time the salary is paid, the seconds disappear, and it's not enough to pay back the credit card in full. It is said that the credit card has owed more than 111,111 yuan, leading a life of keeping the card with the card.

Every time I see her, I always listen to her complaining about her lifeless job, listening to her longing for what to do when she gets rich, and looking forward to finding a rich husband to live a rich life. Of course, let her husband pay back the credit card he owes first.

Every time I see her, it's not the same. The biggest change is that her weight seems to be getting heavier and heavier, and her figure is getting stronger and stronger, and she is already marching forward on the road to gaining weight for middle-aged women.

Because I am really past the best age for marriage, I am suffering from the pressure from my parents and people around me. When I meet anyone, I will say rudely and introduce a man to me.

Finally, once, she said, "Sister, please ask your brother-in-law to introduce me to a boyfriend. Now I think it's ok to find a husband in an institution."

"But such a husband has no money," I reminded her.

"You can do without money, at least it's stable. You see, when the epidemic comes, you have to be a national public official." It seems that she has a little idea. It's hard to find a rich husband.

But the question is, is it easy to find boyfriends in government offices?

I can't stand her telling me several times that I want to try to introduce a man to her, and I must take practical actions.

Once, at dinner, I told Dad Qingbao about my colleague and asked Dad Qingbao to help me find a boyfriend in their company.

who knows, dad Qing Bao directly said, "Don't say that there is no suitable person in our unit, even if there is one, I can't introduce it. I don't have a grudge against others. It's not harmful to introduce such a person."

"yo, as for it? Still hurting people, what happened to others? " I retorted against Qingbao's dad, and when I heard that my colleague was said to be like this by Qingbao's dad, although I was unhappy, I obviously felt that I was lacking in confidence.

"You said, if you were a man, would you marry such a wife, and leaving it at home would be a disgrace?"

I thought about it, and it's right. If I were a man, I really wouldn't marry such a person.

I have to reply to her, too. There are no people of the right age, so I have to do it.

I guess I am the one who is not interesting enough in her eyes now.

When the epidemic was particularly serious last month, I once met a former colleague and mentioned her again. She was still single, and people around her introduced several blind dates, but nothing came of it.

Either she dislikes her partner's lack of money or formal job, or people dislike her shallowness and poor figure.

It is said that her criteria for choosing a spouse have been relaxed again, that is, divorced or widowed retired veteran cadres or divorced and widowed single middle-aged successful men.

however, these two standards are hard to achieve. First, retired veteran cadres must first be divorced or widowed. Second, such veteran cadres probably want to find a senior nanny-type wife who is at least good-looking and can take care of his daily life.

successful men, who have to be single, are in short supply, and the standards of mate selection are bound to be very high, at least they must be young and beautiful, or excellent ladies with high taste.

why should these two kinds of people marry you who have nothing?

the more anxious you are to hold on to something, the farther away you are.

My advice to her is that fate is predestined, and the day after tomorrow you have to rely on yourself. Either try to lose weight and make yourself beautiful, or try to improve, read more books to improve your taste and level, or try to learn a skill or course, improve your ability and make yourself interesting, while you have a lot of time.

instead of looking at other people's scenery and admiring it, it's better to take action and make yourself a landscape in other people's eyes.

Maybe when you are beautiful and interesting, you may become rich, and maybe it is not impossible to have a rich husband around.