How to find topics when chatting with a girl: Understand her interests and hobbies, use similar experiences as topics, talk about travel experiences, and talk about food.

1. Understand her interests and hobbies: Before starting the chat, you can understand her interests and hobbies by observing her clothes, accessories, mobile phone wallpaper, etc. Or directly ask her what she likes to do, what music, movies, books, etc. she likes, and then start chatting based on these topics.

2. Use the same experience as the topic: If you work, study in the same place or have experienced an activity together, this is also a good topic. You can talk about your shared experiences, share feelings and thoughts, and make her feel connected.

3. Talk about travel experiences: Travel is one of people’s favorite topics. You could ask her where she's been, what her favorite travel experience has been, or where she'd like to travel in the future. These topics can spark interesting conversations and let you learn about each other's interests and hobbies.

4. Talk about food: Food is a pleasant topic. You can ask her what kind of food she likes, what good things she's eaten recently, or her favorite restaurant. These topics can lead you to talk about various cuisines and share each other's tastes and preferences.

Things to note when chatting with girls

1. Stay confident: When chatting with girls, stay confident and don’t be shy or nervous. Try to relax and approach the conversation with a light-hearted attitude. Showing confidence can make girls appreciate you more.

2. Listening and responding: During the chat, you should not only express your own thoughts, but also listen carefully to the girls’ opinions and ideas. When she expresses her opinion, respond positively so she feels you are listening.

3. Respect her point of view: Regardless of whether you have the same view on a certain topic, respect her point of view. Avoid arguments and arguments and instead try to understand the issue from her perspective. This avoids awkward situations and demonstrates your tolerance and respect.