line 21: (episode 2? 42 minutes and 19 seconds)
"In the depths of a man's heart, it is hoped that his wife will always be his wife and his lover will always be his lover. Like two planets, they will always stay at a distance of 31,111 light years, running in parallel and never intersecting. Unfortunately, I fell in love with the sun, shining brightly. "-He Han
Xiao Ye said that the only one who dared to tell his wife such a big truth was so beautiful. Judging from the second half of the sentence, this product has a strong desire for survival.
A man who is invincible in both business and knowledge ...
Line 22: (Episode 3? 4 minutes and 34 seconds)
"If you like it, you will have time." -He Han
Xiao Ye said yes, everything is like this. If you like it, you will have time and try your best to squeeze in time.
this is true for hobbies, and it is also true for lovers.
line 23: (episode 3? 7 minutes and 45 seconds)
"Now there is one last thing for you to decide: Is the cod fried or roasted?" -He Han
Xiao Ye said that life is not only a house and a car, but also daily necessities.
this sentence is full of life-he wants to give you not only a house, but also a home and a real happy life.
He Han, an all-powerful legend in the workplace, will only use such eyes in front of his lover!
line 24: (episode 3? 8 minutes and 21 seconds)
"In order that we can still sit together and enjoy life and food healthily and peacefully." -He Han
Xiao Ye said love, life, candlelight, food, home.
health, peace and companionship.
happiness is nothing more than these.
line 25: (episode 3? 8 minutes and 42 seconds)
He Han: "We agreed not to talk about the future together."
Tang Jing: "Let's not talk about marriage."
he Han: "don't fall in love."
Xiao Ye says it's ridiculous, and he doesn't talk about future marriage and love, so what should he talk about? Talking about work? Talk about zijun?
A time bomb has been planted here. This rogue mentality doomed you to have no marriage, no future, and even love is not like love.
line 26: (episode 3? 11: 13)
"Everyone has his own homework to do, both children and adults. If you can't finish your homework today, you are likely to fail tomorrow. If you want to live a good life tomorrow, you must work hard today. " -Ling Ling
Comparing Luo Zijun's attitude towards children's education:
Xiao Ye said that we can see that the two mothers have different backgrounds, different personalities, different experiences and different educational methods.
At that time, Luo Zijun, a rich lady, only knew "husband and children fight for mistresses and have crow's feet for breakfast, lunch and dinner", and her understanding of life pursuit and children's education was quite shallow. This idea is also one of the reasons why the family broke up and was exploited by Ling Ling, who worked hard.
Lingling works hard to educate her children, and she also works hard. Her "homework" is to work hard and please married people.
"If you want to break up a couple successfully tomorrow, you must be a hard mistress today."
Uh-huh ~~
Line 27: (Episode 3? 16: 14)
"Sometimes, the woman who looks the most harmless is the most dangerous." -Tang Jing
Xiao Ye said that some women are slovenly after marriage, and concentrate on their families, husbands and children, thinking that virtue can fix everything and ignore the temptation of flowers and plants from outside.
Some women try their best to keep their young and beautiful appearance after marriage, thinking that men will only be tempted by the beauty of the outside world, and they will be scared when they meet younger and more beautiful women, ignoring the importance of managing marriage.
neither of these two extremes is desirable.
the problem is not that they are beautiful or virtuous, but that they only pay attention to appearance and virtue.
line 28: (episode 3? 17: 11)
"In recent years, friends around me have been trapped by love and hurt by love. Now there is probably no such thing as eternity, right? Everyone likes to trade in the old for the new. Do you like iPhone? Then change it. Always changing is always new, which is what everyone admires and respects. This is not a strategic issue of commodities, but the will of the people. " -Tang Jing
Xiao Ye said that
Tang Jing's every word reflects his distrust of his lover and his strong sense of insecurity about his marriage and feelings.
If you really care about Vivian, just break up.
the terrible thing is that you have bad feelings but don't want to let go, which will only drag your feelings to death and make the other person feel tired.
Tang Jing, how many years do you have to spend?
line 29: (episode 3? 17: 41)
"After so many years, although many things have changed, it is still you by my side." -He Han
Xiao Ye said that he cared for Tang Jing's anxiety for 11 years. After meeting someone who really relaxed him and was needed, he finally changed this person around him like "many things".
line 31: (episode 3? 21 minutes and 21 seconds)
"I ask myself why I am so afraid of being abandoned by him, of losing my family, and of Pinger becoming a child of a single-parent family. Are there any other reasons? Also, I don't know how to describe it. For example, if you throw a fish into the desert, do you think the fish is afraid? This home is my arena, or the winner will be king, or blood will be spilled on the spot. " -Luo Zijun? Narrator
Xiao Ye said that this narration is too in line with Luo Zijun's personal design, and also speaks the voice of the majority of married women.
Luo Zijun has no job, and all her chips are on her family. She has nothing but her appearance, husband and children, and she can only cling to her husband as the "pillar" of this family.
So when the husband and wife are in strange bedfellows, she will be more scared and anxious than other independent women.
woman, you should be independent, enrich yourself with a richer and more diversified life, and give yourself more support, instead of letting your family support your life like the only lifeline.
line 31: (episode 3? 23 minutes and 43 seconds)
"Home is a burden." -Tang Jing
Xiao Ye said that he still didn't love enough. If he loved enough, you would like him to give you a home as soon as possible.
line 32: (episode 3? 23 minutes and 48 seconds)
Tang Jing: "Give me another glass of orange juice and I'll tell you."
zijun: "my hands are tired."
Tang Jing: "Switch hands."
Xiao Ye said that the little affectation between girlfriends sounded really warm.
you never complain when you take care of me, and you are never welcome when I instruct you.
line 33: (episode 3? 24 minutes and 41 seconds)
"Every day, you wait for me to go home and I will wait for you to go home; Then you wait for me to eat, and I'll wait for you to eat, and then you will live more and more like each other every day. Is that how couples get their looks? In the end, the two people live like one person. The key is to complain at last: I feel too familiar, just like touching my right hand with my left hand. " -Tang Jing
Xiao Ye said, Do you talk to me about work every day and I talk to you about work, and then you argue with me and I argue with you, and then every day you suspect that the other party is digging up its own customers and fighting with the other party for IQ and EQ, and finally the two of them live like competitors, and finally they complain: untrue and not relaxed. Is this feeling happy?
line 34: (episode 3? 25 minutes and 16 seconds)
"Waiting for Junsheng to come home every day is a necessary part of my life; It is the happiest moment of my day for my family to have a happy meal together every day. "-Luo Zijun
Xiao Ye said seriously. From this sentence alone, I think this is what a normal woman said ...
No matter how strong a woman is, she should have such a small expectation in her heart. It's just that it's too late for Tang Jing to think of washing my hands to make the bridal soup for He Han.
line 35: (episode 3? 26 minutes and 18 seconds)
"Aunt's market is bullish recently." -Tang Jing
Xiao Ye said that the man riding a white horse is not necessarily a prince, but also a Tang priest.
A mistress is not necessarily a demon, but also a monster.
the donkey kicked people to death. zijun, do you understand?
line 36: (episode 3? 28 minutes and 49 seconds)
He Han: "If I were you, I would talk less about other people's gossip. It's like 711. It's brightly lit 24 hours a day. Keep an eye on your husband."
zijun: "you are only 711, and your whole family is 711."
line 37: (episode 3? 29 minutes and 51 seconds)
"For a woman who is not motivated and boring, you should let her suffer, bump into the south wall, and maybe activate some of her brain cells to have a rebirth after the robbery! Otherwise, there will be no difference between what she talks to you today and what she talks to you next year. It is nothing more than a husband and children fighting for a mistress, crow's feet for breakfast, lunch and dinner. " -He Han
Xiao Ye said that Miss Kong, who is full of firepower today ... A few words tell the real life of some housewives who are not motivated.
line 38: (episode 3? 34 minutes and 19 seconds)
"We are here to make money, not to be loyal. Isn't everything under the sun a deal?" -He Han
Xiao Ye said that it is obvious that there are differences in their values and their understanding of the word "transaction". In He Han's eyes, the word transaction is not derogatory, just like eating and sleeping.
line 39: (episode 3? 34 minutes and 32 seconds)
"Transaction is not a derogatory term. Isn't the so-called perfect match for a perfect match for a perfect match?" -He Han
Xiao Ye said that he hated to see Tang Jing often show a self-righteous sneer when he faced He Han, and there were all kinds of questions, including several questions about "transaction" alone. Since you don't trust others so much, why are you dragging your feet? I really feel tired to see He Han go to great lengths to explain to her every time, and explain for a long time in exchange for a sneer at shaking his head.
line 41: (episode 3? 41 minutes and 51 seconds)
"Little girl, one day when you reach my age and my situation, you will know that education is nothing compared with your marriage and your family." -Luo Zijun
Xiao Ye said that this performance burst, and her voice trembled with tears. A woman struggling in a precarious marriage tried to maintain her self-esteem in the eyes of people complaining, mocking and gossiping all over the room, and her words were full of sadness and strong insecurity.
To be continued, and watch the next time ~
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