I think the wedding should still be held. After all, if there are no accidents in my life, I will get married once. Even if they are not well off now, they can ask their parents for help. The next best thing, after the economy is well off, you should also make up a wedding.
if you don't have a wedding, you may not be generally recognized by both families. Wedding is a ceremony handed down from ancient times to the present, and it is also a kind of etiquette. After completing this ceremony, you are really married. In our rural areas, people are not married when they get a license, and they are not married when they get married. In these two cases, the former will make most people think that they are not married, while almost all of them will think that they are married. Perhaps it is because adults have a sense of participation with the ceremony, and children are full, and they are obsessed with the food at the wedding banquet. When my big cousin got married, he didn't go back to the countryside to hold a wedding banquet, but only in Shanghai where they lived. Because I was still at school at that time, only my parents went to the wedding reception. It may be because I don't have much contact with them at ordinary times, but it is more likely that I feel strange to my wife because I haven't eaten their banquet. If you have a wedding and don't invite all your relatives, you may not get the approval of your relatives. If you don't have a wedding, it is even harder to get the approval. If your partner doesn't have a wedding with you, even if he takes you to the family dinner every year, his younger brother, sister or cousin may not necessarily approve of you.
This ceremony can be less dreamy, but it can't be held without
a wedding, which is not a willful and wasteful act, but a necessary consumption. He doesn't want to have a wedding. It's his business. If his family doesn't want to give you a wedding, it's probably because they didn't recognize you. Here is going to talk about what happened to me, a menstruation. Unfortunately, her marital status is not very good, and she has been married three times. When I got married for the second time, there was no wedding. My husband's family won't let me do it. Of course, I may think it's a second marriage, so I won't do it. Then after getting married, her husband's family disdained all kinds of things and always made things difficult for her, so she divorced and had a third marriage. Although there may be other reasons, it may be better to have a wedding ceremony.
If marriage is destined to go to the grave of love, then this wedding is all the more important. After having the experience of preparing a wedding together, two people may know each other better. During this period, the families of both sides will also participate, which is an opportunity for the two families to get in touch and run in. These are the benefits of a wedding. Although a pragmatic person like me can't appreciate the fleeting romance of matches, the wedding is more like the opening ceremony of a new store. No matter how the future love will run, the wedding can inject more hope into the future.
I don't want to just envy others (having a wedding)
If the money is gone, I can earn it again. If the wedding is gone, what will he make up for you in the future? It may not be that romantic to reissue a wedding. Although our income level will increase as we get older, the household expenditure will rise even more. If you want to raise your children well, you may be reluctant to spend money on yourself. Romantic wedding, will also become a distant future. I have seen my grandson make up his grandmother's wedding and take wedding photos online. After reading it, I was a little touched and more sad.
personally, the wedding is still very important. Of course, getting married is mainly between you two, so we can't tell you what to do. Whether you and your boyfriend have the same idea or not, you should fight for your own idea at the beginning. Compromise and injustice are easy to become a thorn. They lie quietly at ordinary times, but when your mood fluctuates greatly in the future, they are easy to scratch your heart.