?When I saw your question, it was very similar to me half a year ago.
I have just started working for more than a year.
Indeed, the happiest days in life are when I just graduate from high school. There are no boring studies and overwhelming test papers. I feel like I have been liberated from human nature.
Similarly, now that I have graduated from college and entered the society, I still feel that my friends in high school are the kindest, most loyal, and most reliable.
I am also an introvert myself. Apart from being able to open up to a group of close friends, I usually don’t like to talk much.
This friendship continues to this day.
Although the friendship will always be there, people will change, especially after four years of college, and after coming out of campus, people's thoughts will rise to a new level.
I personally feel that it was the hardest and most anxious year for me when I first stepped out of school and entered society.
In addition to the difficulty of finding a job, the direction of life is also very confusing.
When we grow up, our youth gradually fades away, and we no longer brag and tease as passionately as before, and talk about everything.
Nowadays, many people gather at gatherings, and most of them have a mobile phone. They have become what is now called people with their heads down. When they raise their heads, they just stare at each other.
This is also a relatively common phenomenon.
Most boys have a common problem, that is, they love to play games.
Sometimes we prefer to vent our stress into the battle of the game.
Nowadays, games can not only be the sustenance of our emotions, but also one of the links between friends.
But when friendships gradually come into question, games cannot relieve stress, and all we have to do is sleep and work. We gradually become tired of this kind of life and become more and more confused about the future.
What we need, then, is an immediate change.
Maybe we can't change the current environment, but we can change our mentality.
In fact, in addition to working hours, we also have a lot of time, and we should not waste all of this time on games.
If you feel that you are gradually unable to keep up with your friends, then take time to travel and explore together.
When you feel "abandoned" and left out, you are also gradually closing the door to your own heart.
If you are tired of yourself being full of negative energy, then go for a run or exercise to evaporate our bad luck with sweat.
There are two ways for people to change themselves - reading and exercise.
Both must be the same.
In order to work better and understand yourself better, you need to continuously improve your skills.
Improve your sense of responsibility and find your emotional support and destination.
This age is in the golden years of youth. It smells of hard work and hard work, and it is also the smell of roses.
In fact, this is the most beautiful time in life when you should work hard. There is obviously a lot of time to make yourself better instead of giving up on yourself.
If you are tired of yourself and your current state, change your life to a new one and embrace a better tomorrow.