say yes for sure. People are emotional animals and rational animals. They will fall in love with many people in their life, and they will also have love and worldly desires in middle age. It is normal to meet love.

It's not easy for people to reach middle age. They have too many responsibilities to pay, and they are too tired. Every day, they are busy with their families, and it's okay to be understood by their families. If they don't understand, they are helpless.

When people reach middle age, I think they should have their own life. In the first half, they are exhausted for work, family, parents and children. In the second half, I don't think they need to care what others think. Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, and we can't take care of them for life. Some things should be let go. Just do your best. Life is limited, don't dwell on it.

Middle-aged people have the right to love, which is only a matter of degree. We should handle the problem in a mature and rational way. In daily life, when you meet people who appreciate it, it is inevitable that people who hit it off will have love after a long time, but this kind of love is appreciation, respect and commitment. This kind of love is not impulsive and passionate, nor is it promiscuous. In fact, as long as you keep this appreciation and heart in your heart, it is also a beautiful friendship to be affectionate, courteous and maintain normal interpersonal relationships.

If a middle-aged uncle is single, he can love boldly.

When people reach middle age, although love is no longer a necessity of life, it's really hard to say for sure. When you meet it, you meet it.

Lin Huiyin has a saying: Falling in love with a city may be because of a vivid scenery in the city, a childhood memory, and a familiar old house. Maybe it is just for the city, just like falling in love with someone. In fact, it doesn't need any reason. Love is love. There is no antecedent, it has nothing to do with romance, but love.

Middle-aged people have the right to love, but they can't base their love on other people's suffering. The love of middle-aged people can't be promiscuous, promiscuous, and can't love people who shouldn't love. The love of middle-aged people can't eat what's in the bowl and look at what's in the pot. It can't be the view that flowers at home have no wild flowers, and wild flowers are not yours.

The love of middle-aged people must be rational and rational. Some feelings can't hold hands, and some people can't depend on each other.

But if you meet true love, please invite brave enough to love! ! !

Yes, when people reach middle age, they go through many vicissitudes of life and see through the changes in the world. By contrast, they already have a very deep feeling. When people reach middle age, they often can't extricate themselves from falling in love with someone.

In middle age, few people are still single, so they will still fall in love with someone, either cheating or divorcing and widowed. However, this kind of love is not as immature as when I was young, or it is understated or deep into the bone marrow.

When you fall in love with someone because of cheating, most of the time you need to comfort your mind and supplement your spiritual world because of your inner emptiness. Falling in love with someone is often a kind of dependence, a reluctant and helpless attachment.

Divorced and widowed middle-aged people will deeply lament the vagaries of life, and fall in love with someone, from being cautious at first to being unable to help themselves, and finally becoming hopeless spiritual pillars for each other. Love is not deep, but love is deep.

Middle-aged people are not as worldly and indifferent as people think. On the contrary, they know how to cherish and care in the emotional world. They are also heartbroken and tender.

definitely, it will!

Love can be met but not sought, and it is the most beautiful feeling of human beings. Some people may never meet love in their whole lives. What a pity it would be.

Love is not limited by age. If you reach middle age, you will be lucky to meet love.

Middle-aged people have more reliable emotions and know what true love is.

however, the love of middle-aged people is based on affection and ends with ceremony.

when you can't have both love and possession at the same time, middle-aged people are wise and rational.

otherwise, it's really an old house on fire.

The hostess Francesca has a husband, a son and a daughter. The accidental encounter between the two middle-aged people produced a romantic love.

Francesca is in a trivial marriage life for many years when her children have grown up and don't need her time to take care of them. There is no initial passion and romance between husband and wife, and she is in a period of aesthetic fatigue.

Life is as light as water. This kind of life not only buried her original ideal, but also made her feel empty and depressed.

she needs to find an emotional outlet.

Her pursuit of romantic life and longing for love have not been extinguished, and she is looking forward to an unknown fresh stimulus to enrich her empty spiritual world and rekindle her enthusiasm for life.

Just at this time, she met Robert, a man who aroused her girlhood dreams and inspired a middle-aged man to suppress his innermost desires, and when the two reached a perfect unity.

so, she has nothing to do? I spent four days with Robert as a happy couple. And these four days have become her thoughts for the rest of her life.

In the film, for Robert, he is single. When it comes to love, he is free and unconstrained.

But for Francesca, she has a family. She can't just think for herself. She should think for her husband and children.

In the end, she gave up this unforgettable love painfully for family responsibilities.

fortunately, she chose responsibility.

In real life, there are many stories like movies, but the endings are quite different.

many middle-aged people can't resist the temptation of love, leaving home and children and going to love, which can be regarded as the power of love.

But, middle-aged friends, love is like water. It can sink or overturn a boat.

there is an encounter that is doomed to be forgotten.

love is like this, fate is like this, and it suddenly stops at an unpredictable time.

It makes your heart beat, makes you crazy, and makes you burst into tears again in your life, suffering from emotional torture, and suffering from the pain of love. I deeply regret meeting you. How can grass grow without spring breeze?

it's not easy for people to reach middle age, and it's really beyond redemption if they meet love again and don't handle it properly.

After all, life is realistic and love is romantic. Life is where rice, oil and salt fall on the ground, and love is invisible and invisible in the clouds. It is the wisest choice for middle-aged people to treat their feelings rationally.

You should understand that when people reach middle age, some love can only be blessed from a distance, not hand in hand. I miss the desolation and become a fallen flower in the fleeting time. Just accumulate in the bottom of my heart a true purity, a deep feeling is enough.

but, no matter what, believe that love is always beautiful. This is the love, pain and happiness of middle-aged people.

I think that when people reach middle age, no matter men or women, they will not easily fall in love with someone!

first, when people reach middle age, most of them have successful careers, from the top to the bottom. If marriage is not really bad, many people are still willing to live in peace, and will not and will not break the existing lifestyle!

Second, even in marriage, when the relationship between husband and wife is in trouble, just one opposite sex walks into her (his) life, he will not fall in love with each other easily. It may be just affection, liking, or emotional transfer caused by loneliness and emptiness!

Third, when people reach middle age, both men and women are relatively mature. Don't get emotional easily, even if the opposite sex he (she) meets is particularly excellent, he (she) is only trying to regain his youth and prove that he (she) is not old. It's just a short-lived extramarital relationship, and it's a bit reluctant to say true love.

There are many colleagues around me who are over forty. I once asked my male colleagues the same question. Is it because of true love that men cheat in middle age?

He said with a smile, "No, there is so much true love. At this age, I can no longer love someone as much as I did when I was young, and give everything for her." This sentence makes me feel that there is no such store after crossing this village. At the same time, I also understand that every age group has a mission of every age group. Maybe I will meet the so-called second spring because of the dull life, but I really believe that there will never be unconditional love when I was young.

At the same time, I also consulted my female colleague. She told me that at this age, we don't want to love anyone deeply, but just want to be loved and spoiled, because we need to be cared for more at this age.

In a word, I can like someone in my opinion, but I can't afford to love someone. People don't have the time and energy to fall in love again in middle age.

Let's start with a joke, and then make sense slowly: some friends advised a middle-aged man. That fox doesn't love you at all. She likes your money. The middle-aged man retorted: nonsense, why doesn't she like other people's money, but she likes mine? It is obvious that she is in love with me.

therefore, when people reach middle age, there are many people who are unwilling to die. True love is not the majority at all, but the majority is to find a companion and live together. True love, too, is difficult to test. Is there anyone who doesn't want bread but love? There may be boys and girls, but middle-aged people are rare. If people meet true love in middle age, they should put their family, responsibilities and children in a proper position and grasp a scale.

Qian Zhongshu, a famous writer, wrote a sentence, which was very sharp and interesting. He said that middle-aged people engaged in extramarital affairs, like an old house on fire, is hopeless. What do you mean? When people reach middle age, apart from love, there are also family ties, responsibilities, children, property, career, relatives and friends, colleagues and friends, which are inherent things, just like old houses. Once there is a fire, it will burn in pieces, and the fire truck will not be able to save it. Even if the fire is put out, the old house will burn almost.

when people reach middle age, marriage is just like boiled water, which is boring. Men, in particular, touch their wives' hands, just like their left hands touch their right hands. A woman always likes the man who loves her. As a man, I always like an 18-year-old girl. Since ancient times, heroes have been sad about beauty. In fact, men also know that it is not necessarily true love, but men can't help themselves. As long as they don't confiscate the tools for committing crimes, men rarely have the determination to escape the temptation of women. Even men defend themselves. It's romantic to be a ghost when they die under the pomegranate skirt. In fact, it is to find an excuse for being irresponsible.

extramarital affairs in middle age are very common in reality. When people reach middle age, they have a little money, a little power, a little leisure and a little freedom. If we pay attention to the profile and the clothes, it will still be a little lethal to some little girls. Nowadays, girls, strangely enough, just don't like boys of the same age. They always feel that those boys are immature. Just like Ma Bao, they often have a good impression on middle-aged men, of course, mainly on middle-aged men with money and jobs. Boys send roses to make girls scream; The middle-aged man sent a bunch of roses and a designer bag. Besides screaming, the girl felt dizzy and confused.

do middle-aged men and women have true love? There may be women, but there are fewer men. When women reach middle age, they are different from men. Men can philander and release depressed emotions, but women often can't. If her husband can't care for her, she is like a pot of sun grass on the balcony. Without sunshine and rain, she will soon wither. Men are all weeds on the roadside, and they will stand up at the sight of dew. Therefore, once a woman meets a man's care, like withered sun grass, when she meets the sunshine and rain, she will often devote herself to following. But as long as a man's husband gives her sunshine and rain, no one can take this pot of sun grass away.

men are different. No matter how close his wife is to him, she can't stop his heart that wants to cheat. This is determined by men's nature, because men naturally feel that they are the teapot, and they should be equipped with several tea bowls in their lives. If several tea bowls are not matched, the life of this teapot will be imperfect, that is, a broken life. Any man has this idea, which is a gene handed down for more than five thousand years. Therefore, it is easy for men to ignore the temptation of women outside. Although they feel guilty about their wives at home, it is already great that they do not abandon their wives. Why should my wife still care about me flying flags outside?

So, the conclusion is that it is very difficult for men and women to meet true love when they reach middle age, due to family responsibilities and kinship. Especially in the real society, how can you ignore it without a hukou, a house and a work unit? Even if middle-aged men and women want to wander around the world, the question is where to stay? Old parents, young children, fixed assets, unit salary cards, think about these, the head is big, and even the most beautiful true love will be defeated. Even if there is true love, it is a flash in the pan.

I have heard a joke that goes like this: Q: Do you want to eat? A: No. Q: Do you want to drink? A: No. Q: Find you a woman? Answer: Help me up slowly! This joke is about a classic dialogue when a friend went to see a man when he was lying in bed and dying. I don't know if you understand when you laugh. People are still eager for the companionship of the opposite sex from the age of three to the old age. They are all curious and full of exploration desire for friends of the opposite sex. Therefore, when people reach middle age, they will still fall in love with someone. Love has no age limit. Although there is a marriage law, everyone has worldly desires, and it is inevitable that they will love others outside marriage. People who are in love don't have to get married, but those who are married must be bound, otherwise they will get divorced! When you reach middle age, even if you love someone again, you should keep this love in your heart and discipline yourself, because you are restricted. If you go your own way and don't repent, you can turn back, or your family will be ruined, your reputation will be ruined and you will be jailed! In the end, I ended up alone!

no matter what age, people will have a need for love, and they will also fall in love with a person. Under normal circumstances, when people reach middle age, there are only two ways to treat love:

First, they want to love but dare not love

Some people reach middle age and become the elders in the eyes of young people who should be steady and live quietly. At their age, what children want most is that they can get sick less, take care of their children at home and lighten their burden. But in their eyes, they not only need children and grandchildren, but also need a bosom friend who can accompany them and someone who can talk from the heart. However, if they fall in love with someone at this time, it will make their children daydream.

A generous child may understand his parents and think that they have worked hard all their lives and have the right to pursue and enjoy happiness. But those children who are more narrow-minded will think that they are all middle-aged, and they still talk about love. What do people of this age love or not? Most of them are for the sake of each other's money. In the end, my parents met love and dared not love it easily.

Second, find a soul mate

Some people may be forced by their parents to rush to blind date and get married when they are young. Although they don't have any opinions about their other half, they don't have much affection. It's just a matter of living together, as long as you have a companion. After getting along for a long time, you regard each other as relatives, not lovers.

But when they reach middle age, as their children get older, their time begins to slow down and their social circle becomes wider, so it is easy for them to meet people that they really like and fit in. For people who have lost their wives, it is very happy to find a soul mate.

and for those who are still with their wives, it will come true.