my own strengths are: first, I am good at planning and summarizing; Second, strong action and strong purpose; The third is good at structured thinking and problem solving. Therefore, I can't wait to answer this kind of questions about personal growth and development.

first of all, the key points to be established are that the popular answers mentioned above are almost all correct, that is, read more books and travel more, and exercise your own experiences and feelings more.

That is what I often say, if you want to broaden your horizons in your life, you must go through the storm and see the world.

Books are the ladder of human progress, and many people may think that reading books is useless for personal growth or thinking expansion.

or he may think it's better to play games and watch movies to relax.

But we should know that reading is a process of increasing our knowledge and a slow process of broadening our horizons.

Only by reading constantly can we increase our knowledge and broaden our horizons.

Of course, you can't increase your knowledge and enrich your knowledge no matter what books you read.

The so-called classic books are books that have eternal themes, stand the test of time, and are ideological and artistic.

So if you read story books or interesting fashion magazines, it is impossible to improve your horizons.

As the ancients said, it is better to read thousands of books than to take Wan Li Road. Many things you read in books can only be transformed into your own knowledge through your own personal experience and experience.

The knowledge in books will always be in books. If it is not translated into action, it will never leave you with any memory.

Of course, traveling is not what we usually call popular tourism. Go to a scenic spot to take photos, see the mountains and rivers and have a big meal. But such a trip won't broaden your horizons.

Or we can travel to a completely strange place and gain many once-in-a-lifetime experiences:

For example, in Sinai Peninsula, we climbed wild mountains all day and finally reached the top of St. Catherine at sunset. Lying on the boulder, looking up at the sky, watching the sky gradually fade away and replaced by the deep and vast Milky Way, a meteor flashed across in the blink of an eye. This is the magnificent starry sky I have never seen before, as if I can see eternity here;

In the middle of the Red Sea, I was snorkeling in the crystal blue sea, watching the fish passing by, watching the huge eels on the seabed disappear between the rocks, the sea water was cool, and the sunshine on my back was blazing;

In the Sahara desert, the Egyptian guide set up a camp for our group at dusk and made a fire to cook. That meal was the most delicious meal I have ever eaten in Egypt. Lying by a campfire for the first time, enjoying the galaxy overhead. The next morning, I saw small footprints outside the tent, which were the curious footprints left by Little Sand Fox.

Feel people's beliefs and life in this land, and personally feel the civilization that has been baptized by history and the modern urban customs that have come step by step;

1. First of all, we should learn more from the outstanding people in the industry and the big bosses.

learn to think like them and start a business like them by referring to their successful experiences and their lifestyles.

2. realize your own shortcomings by comparing with the cattle bosses. So as to learn from them to improve their cognition and change their shortcomings.

3. Ask others more humbly. If you want to deal with people who are better than yourself, you must be open-minded, concentrate on learning from them, and you must not be proud.

4. Don't be jealous of excellent people. If you want to deal with your excellent people easily, you must keep awe and respect for these people, and don't be jealous.

This is very simple. Nowadays, the network technology is more and more developed. We can see things that we can't see at ordinary times with our mobile phones or computers to increase our knowledge. We can maintain a strong curiosity. No matter what we encounter, we can ask more questions and search more with our friends in Zhihu to seek answers.

I usually watch more news broadcasts and hot events to learn about some major events at home and abroad.

Or watch more TV documentaries to learn about the little-known knowledge of human civilization today.

No matter where you are, as long as you read more and ask more questions, search more on the Internet, and learn about things you don't know, your knowledge and vision will gradually become richer and richer.

Take myself as an example. Now I increase my knowledge and broaden my horizons, usually by watching online documentaries.

Quietly tell you what documentaries I watch online now:

I have a collection of 1, and I recommend six for you:

The reasons are as follows: First, I have a collection of 1 documentaries, all kinds; Second, starting from this year, I plan to watch 1 episodes of documentaries every year and love documentaries; Third, watch carefully, with analysis notes and index catalogue.

I'd like to share my six favorite movies here. They all have different styles and are fascinating.

first, the national chapter, "Looking at America". The new series of documentary "A Perspective of America Revealed" released by PBS, the American public television station, tells you how the world's number one superpower operates daily through four aspects: food, transportation, electricity and manufacturing.

second, the gourmet article, The God of Sushi. A documentary about sushi. Jiro Ono, 86, is the oldest Samsung chef in the world and is known as the "God of Sushi". His sushi restaurant, "Jijiro Jizukiya", is well-known far and near, and every step has been carefully calculated from ingredients, production to instant entrance. His sushi is known as a delicious food worth waiting in line for a lifetime.

third, growth, Seven Years of Life. A documentary produced by ITV began to record the lives of 14 seven-year-old children in Britain in 1964. So far, the documentary has spanned 56 years (one episode every seven years) and has been broadcast on ITV and BBC. In 25, British Channel 4 included this series in the list of the 5 greatest documentaries.

Fourth, customs, China New Year. BBC reporters interviewed Spring Festival travel rush, went north to Harbin to watch ice lanterns, and went south to Yunnan to watch golden monkeys in Da Shu Hua Show, Yuxian County, Hebei Province. The biggest feature of this film is that it is close to life, full of daily life, and the jubilation brought by festivals.

v. Tourism, Travel Around the World. Also known as "Brave Journey to the End of the World", an adventure tour guide TV program. At present, the broadcasting area has exceeded 4 countries. The host of each episode travels to a certain country to experience the local characteristic landscape and customs. In addition, there are also in-depth introductions to cities, beaches, shopping, history, festivals, food, etc.

VI. Science, Crossing the Wormhole with Morgan Freeman. What is the universe? What is the origin of the universe? Is alien life really just a theory? Have you ever thought that time travel can be realized when you are in a black hole or enter a wormhole? Let's follow the Oscar winner Morgan Freeman into our mysterious universe!

What to see is not to see the world. Documentary is a good choice.

what is a hobby? It means doing something you like even if you don't eat or sleep.

first, make clear why you have a hobby.

My roommate often goes running in the wild, not because he likes it, but to keep fit, and also for health.

Another roommate often works part-time, perhaps for money, perhaps to exercise his ability, but more often because of his poor family.

Some time ago, I studied painting. Many people thought that I really liked it, and I thought so at that time. Later, when a gust of wind passed, I found that I was just free to pass the time.

Now the only hobby that I can persist in is writing, which is the only hobby that I have left since the end of the epidemic. I often think that maybe this is the habit that I like to share and communicate with others.

You can use it as a habit to record your thoughts through your own writing. Although you are lazy at ordinary times, if you have something you want to say, your desire to be vividly portrayed will prompt you to write it down. My writing includes but is not limited to these four categories:

I don't know whether this habit can be called liking or whether these miscellaneous things I write can be called writing.

So you must first understand why you have a hobby, or what kind of hobby is above 1234. You must like him to a certain extent, otherwise it is difficult to stick to it simply by relying on self-discipline or following the trend. Even if you stick to it, you will certainly not be able to gain anything.

To find your hobbies, you must first discover and pay attention to it, try and make more mistakes, explore more, feel more and experience more, and then constantly choose and discover what you like and are really interested in, and stick to it.

Since May last year, I began to challenge myself and made a new attempt in life planning. I started my own online training camp. Yes, it's my own training camp. During this period, I am really afraid that I can't recruit students, and I am also afraid that the courses I created are not popular. I am afraid that I have spent so much effort and energy, but I can't get results. But until today, I find that what I am afraid of is just my own imagination.

Without action, you may really get into trouble or enter an infinite loop, but if you start to take action, this is your most useful and important weapon.

If someone asks me what is the habit that has the greatest influence on my growth in recent years, I think it must be persistence. Many people will say that I have no interests, hobbies and dreams, and I can't find my own possibilities. In fact, hobbies and dreams are not born, but we need to constantly discover and try.

In fact, at first I didn't know where painting started, how to draw lead, and how to draw Chinese painting. Later, I slowly discovered that there was such an opportunity to spread these skills of my own painting and meet others, so that more people could explore the beauty of Chinese painting like me, fall in love with painting and heal themselves.

I will tell you how to find your own resources, abilities and directions through my own introduction.

1. Learning

Now is an era of knowledge payment. Many people have learned a lot that they can't learn for free online through paid questions and answers, knowledge planet and other paid channels.

There is an aunt next door. He said that he has been studying at home by paying. Over the years, he has learned a lot about financial management and psychology. As soon as he chatted with me, he talked to me about Buffett and Graham's investment ideas, which really convinced me.

Having said that, in fact, what I want to say most is the way to improve myself quickly introduced by the teacher I met before: learning, acting and sharing!

how to study effectively? The teacher gave us four folders:

reading notes folder: the new knowledge we come into contact with when studying or reading books. We must extract these important knowledge, and then record it in the form of reading notes or handbooks, so that they can play a role.

For example, one of our students abstracted a key word in the process of reading the book "Meeting Unknown Oneself": surrender. Only when we have an ups and downs attitude towards something that has happened can we accept what has happened, and let it go better. I think this process is a typical case bombing.

Reading and attending classes are all about applying what you have learned, and case bombing is a good way!

lecture notes folder: we have participated in many online and offline courses, and the teachers will sort out the content and process, and go over the course from their own point of view, which is our best learning method, Feynman learning method.

Sharing folders: A lot of what we have learned in our work and life is only to accumulate or support some action methods. We can all do courses by doing pictures and texts, do live broadcasts, share it, and tell the public in a better or PPT form.

Social observation folder: If you only absorb, but don't practice and don't act, you won't have much memory. If we observe the surrounding markets, we can see where they succeed, where they make mistakes, and connect what we have learned in the book with reality, then we can learn this knowledge more quickly.

2. Action

The key issue is action, and applying what you have learned is the most important thing. Here are six steps:

Make clear your motivation: If you want to know what you are doing this for, for example, I am trying to lose weight to look good and get a better figure, and I hope to publish a book early and become an expert on best-sellers.

clear objectives: what effect should we achieve by doing this? For example, to lose weight, my goal is to lose 2 kilograms and reach 55 kilograms. The goal must be to be as specific as possible and as practical as possible.

Establish micro-habits: For example, we run 5 kilometers every day. This plan seems a bit long. If we make a plan to do push-ups every day, it may be easy to stick to it. Of course, the actual situation is that you can't just do one push-up. The more you do, the better. But as long as you establish the micro habit of doing one push-up every day, the plan will be easy to stick to for a long time.

establish your own knowledge system and thinking system. In the process of learning through practice, we have accumulated a lot of knowledge and experience, which are fragmented. We can improve and organize it through these knowledge systems, such as financial management, fitness, writing and reading, and put it into a framework according to our own knowledge system.

Turn habits into enthusiasm: Things become real habits after a long time. For example, recording time has become an indispensable part of every day. After becoming a habit, we will gradually fall in love with doing these things, even if we don't get benefits in the short term, then we will be keen on doing it.

3. Share

When you have growth experience, you can share your growth experience and benefit more people. Now, whoever has the skills and hides it can be better than others, but now this society is an era of sharing. The more you share the gains, the more you will get. Many small partners are prone to fall into a misunderstanding when sharing. For example, when experts output, they will forget this and think that everyone may understand it. In fact, if you don't practice it carefully, it is not easy to fully understand many details like yourself.

many of our partners ask a question, and we do it in the group.