I asked: "Stealing food" means that adults don't give their children food behind their backs, or steal other people's food?
A: Adults should not give their children so much polysaccharide, and then the children will eat what they see, instead of stealing from others.
I asked again: Don't you give candy to your children on weekdays?
I usually give her a vitamin C candy every day.
I asked again: Why do you give her candy regularly?
At this time, Ma Bao only emphasized that vitamin C is a kind of soft candy to supplement vitamins, and one can be used every day. Besides, I have told the children everything I need to say, and there is no other way.
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After understanding the overall situation, I would like to make a few points:
First of all, not stealing or robbing is a trivial matter, so don't be nervous.
Children over 5 years old have poor self-control, it is normal to love candy, and it is understandable that they can't resist the temptation of food.
Then, we can patiently tell the child the disadvantages of eating sugar, and show that we care about her and don't want her to eat too much sugar, get cavities and get sick, instead of deliberately stopping the child's behavior.
In addition, it is not recommended to give children soft candy every day. When she wants to eat candy, would it be better to give her a piece of fudge?
When communicating with children, we can minimize negative words, reduce the tone of urging and ordering, and replace them with positive and declarative words.
For example, replace "Don't read while lying down" with "Reading while sitting up is bad for your eyes", replace "Don't eat too fast" with "Eating slowly is good for digestion", and replace "Don't dawdle, don't walk" with "Time is running out, can you pack up and leave?" And so on.
Ever heard of the "white bear effect"? The less you think about the white bear, the more you will think about it.
So, sometimes don't emphasize something too deliberately, maybe it will gradually disappear.