Yes, I am an example.
When the mother-in-law said that she wanted to treat her daughter-in-law like her own daughter, some people did it out of sincerity and sincerely hoped that the relationship between the two would be closer in the future, and some people just said a high-sounding word without actual actions.
And I am very lucky. My mother-in-law treats me sincerely and even my status is higher than that of my husband, ha.
I can tell that my mother-in-law treats me really well from the following three points: 1. Companionship during pregnancy.
My mother-in-law took care of my food, clothing, housing and transportation throughout my pregnancy. She didn’t let me do any housework since I was pregnant, not even sweeping the floor or washing dishes, haha.
He insists on cooking nutritious food for me every day (books specially bought by my mother-in-law), takes me for a walk after meals, and asks about my current physical condition every day.
In short, too many details make me feel very warm, and it has been proven that having a good mother-in-law will make you feel like you have married the right person.
2. Give birth to a child.
When I gave birth to my first child, I was really scared. My mother-in-law was with me throughout the whole process, constantly comforting and encouraging me, and constantly imparting experience to me.
I remember the night before I gave birth, my contractions were frequent and regular, and then I went to the hospital. Only then did I realize that the internal examination before delivery was so terrifying and painful. It was an unforgettable feeling. But after the internal examination was completed, there was no
When it reaches three fingers, I can't go to the delivery room to give birth, so I can only continue to rest in the delivery area. The nurse said that I will do another internal examination in three hours.
Oh my God, I was about to burst into tears when I heard these words. That night, my mother-in-law kept comforting me, telling me to relax, telling me the benefits of natural delivery, and even walked with me up the stairs for a long time. The purpose was
In order to help me open my fingers quickly, she also talked to me about her experience, which made me feel less scared.
With the encouragement of my mother-in-law, I plucked up the courage to go for an internal examination. Everything went well. I had three finger openings and could go to the delivery room.
One small detail that I particularly remember is: when I came out with my baby, my mother-in-law and husband were the first to see me and ask me how I was feeling. Thank you for your hard work.
With this sentence, I feel that my mother-in-law really treats me as a daughter.
3. No favoritism towards her son.
It is inevitable that couples will quarrel, and the reasons for these quarrels are often trivial matters.
My mother-in-law is always partial to me. She said: She has been a daughter-in-law before, and she knows that if she helps her son scold or accuse her daughter-in-law indiscriminately, there will be no hatred between the young couple.
Because of the mother-in-law's favoritism, the daughter-in-law will feel like a stranger in the family, and she will have a lot of resentment and grievances in her heart.
Because she understands that only when her daughter-in-law gets better, will the family get better.
"First there is a good mother-in-law, and then there will be a good daughter-in-law." I think this sentence is really good.
The mother-in-law truly treats her daughter-in-law as a daughter, and the daughter-in-law must also cherish and be content with her, and better respect her mother-in-law. Harmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the happiest foundation of a family.
?Actually, every mother-in-law is an ordinary woman, but she grew up in a different era and has a different background than we did.
If you are lucky enough to be a family, you must cherish it.
My mother often tells me: After getting married, you must be filial, diligent, and sweet-tongued.
It's important to be a good match, and distance can also produce beauty. In the final analysis, it's communication and understanding.
Finally, I hope that everyone can cherish people who are not related by blood but treat you well, and live in peace and love each other at the best distance.