When we were children, students with poor grades were always criticized by teachers and ridiculed by classmates. But when such students in each class united, there was no such thing as People dare to laugh at them because they have formed a group. If anyone bullies them, this small group will attack them. So from this incident, we can see the importance of the team.
In the adult world, circles are also very important. If you don’t have a circle, you will be alone. Such people are easily bullied by others. Therefore, it is also important for adults to join a circle and seek the protection of a team.
However, there are good and bad circles. If we mistakenly fall into a bad circle, not only will we not get any benefits, but we will also get into trouble. Therefore, when we join a circle, we cannot join casually. We must join a good circle and a circle that suits us. This depends on your interests, hobbies, occupation, and personality.
So which circles should an adult join? Will it benefit you? After analyzing most people's experiences and my own experience, it is best to join these three circles.
First, the entrepreneurial circle. When a person lives now, the most important thing is to make a living and solve life's problems, and the best way to solve this problem is to start a business. Of course, it is not a bad idea to take a regular class or become a civil servant, but the real way to make big money is to start a business. Once the business is successful, it can be hundreds of thousands or millions in profit. Entrepreneurs are people with big dreams. They are different from those who are content with living a small life. They are always full of passion and hope, and they always give people the impression of being full of energy.
When you join the circle of these people, you will feel that every day is new, the feelings between them are also sincere, and they have the same ideals. You will not feel lonely among them, and you will be surrounded by them every day. They are infectious and you will become passionate. You work hard together, struggle together, and move towards your dreams together, and you will be very passionate every day. Such people are called arrogant here. Others dare not bully a person with high arrogance, because people with high arrogance often have In a hard-core team, if you bully one of them, it will affect the entire team, and the entire team will confront you tit for tat.
Second, the circle of friendship. When a person is in this world, there are more or less people with similar qualities. You are very relaxed and happy together, he agrees with your views, and he also likes your hobbies. If you meet someone, just integrate into them. This circle is also good. You can talk together, feel each other's appreciation and approval, and communicate more together when you have time. But it can relieve loneliness and give people a very powerful feeling. There are so many such friends. , that is, there is strength in numbers.
Such a circle can also protect you from being bullied by others. A good man has three gangs. If he has more friends, a kind of team power will gradually arise. In this team, if one person is bullied, both will be harmed and both will be prosperous. Others will not dare to offend such a person easily. .
Third, a circle of eating and drinking. In fact, I used to hang out in such a circle. At first, it wasn’t that I thought friends who had food and drinks were good friends. It was because I was too gluttonous and couldn’t control myself when I loved food, so I always invited three friends. The four friends ate and drank together, but later, I discovered that besides my weight gain, my overall weight also increased in the eyes of others. It turned out that those who looked down on me looked at me with great respect. I don’t know how. What happened was, later on, I heard them saying why do I have so many friends? I now know that friends who eat and drink may not necessarily help you at critical moments, but they can have the effect of scaring and pretentiousness. In this way, others will not dare to bully you casually.
The above are some of my life experiences. If a person is always bullied and stepped on, then try to integrate into these three circles and have the protection of the team to see who dares to bully you.
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