Don't be partial to your son and leave "face" for your daughter-in-law. Marriage is doomed to be bumpy. If my mother-in-law happens to bump into her at this time, who will she favor? In fact, 99% of mother-in-law will be biased towards her son, which is human nature and understandable. However, the clever mother-in-law knows in her heart that she must not be partial to her son, but should support her daughter-in-law and give her face to avoid escalating family conflicts.

3. Don't urge your son and daughter-in-law to have children, and don't interfere with having boys and girls. For many parents, it is normal to get married and have children. It's no big deal to use this trick on a son, but it's easy to produce contradictions when used on a daughter-in-law. Therefore, a clever mother-in-law never urges her son and daughter-in-law to have children, and even if she has such an idea, she will express it euphemistically. As for boys and girls, they will not interfere, which is also a reflection of a mother-in-law's understanding and respect. ?

4. Respect the parenting concept of sons and daughters-in-law. After having grandchildren, mother-in-law often becomes the main force to take care of children. Getting along with children every day, there is still room for the mother-in-law's concept of parenting, but problems also follow. It is inevitable that there are differences in parenting concepts between the older generation and the new generation. At this time, the clever mother-in-law will definitely respect the parenting concept of her son and daughter-in-law. If there are differences, she will take the initiative to discuss with her son and daughter-in-law and find a parenting plan that everyone is satisfied with.

5. Don't compare with your daughter-in-law, and don't have pressure. After the son gets married, the living conditions of the son and daughter-in-law are the most talked about topics by mothers. Some mother-in-law who loves to compare with others not only likes to show off what her daughter-in-law bought for herself, but also likes to talk about other children's lives in front of her daughter-in-law and put pressure on her daughter-in-law. A clever mother-in-law will not only talk about these boring topics with her daughter-in-law, but also will not judge her daughter-in-law by things when chatting with outsiders.