1. Respect your body and learn to cherish your body. If your parents did not teach you how to cherish your body, then from now on, you must learn to cherish your body. The body is a part of you, and the body and mind are the same.
Yes, when you don’t know how to cherish your body, just as your soul agrees that you don’t need to cherish yourself, the negative energy you release every moment and the expression of disregard for yourself will also make others think that you have learned to disrespect you.
The body thinks that it can be treated casually without any responsibility. This is an extremely dangerous signal. To be the master of your own body, you must cut off all behaviors that harm your body and prohibit the release of negative energy.
2. Everyone has a love for beauty, but the method must be appropriate. Girls are born with a love for beauty, but blindly pursuing external evaluation standards will only make them more and more tired. It will not only make the body tired, but also the heart.
Tired, and how can a tired heart temporarily let go of the most beautiful smile?
People care too much about the evaluation of the outside world, and when they let the evaluation of the outside world control them, they have actually lost themselves. It is like a beautiful painting that has lost its most important charm. Although it seems to be comprehensive, it has actually lost its originality.
Mind, put the cart before the horse.
Therefore, caring about your figure and taking good care of your body are not contradictory. They need to be taken into consideration at the same time. If you cannot take care of both at the same time, you must take care of your body first. Without health, what is the use of being beautiful?
3. Cultivate an independent personality and improve your self-esteem. The subject of the question mentioned that he is worried that all the people he associates with have impure purposes and do not truly accept himself. This question is asked in reverse, which is actually the answer to the subject's question. Do not accept it.
Why should you love someone who is your true self?
Obviously it is caused by the fact that I have lost the correct view of love. Before talking about the view of love, the more important thing that the subject needs to improve is to establish his own independent personality and not to evaluate himself based on other people's behavioral standards.
, but to have one's own principles of life, one's own pursuit of life, and to be a person with a complete and independent personality.