Wen | Hongye

Each of us has our own personal design or role in social life, which can also be said to be your mask to the world and people.

What others see is often what you want others to see. Only you know your true self.

For example, a father is the boss in the company, a brother at the wine table, a child when he makes mistakes, and a "keyboard man" when he is angry; A child is a monitor at school, a son at home, a bully who becomes weak, and a victim who gathers people to become victims.

roles and people's settings are changing with different scenes and relationships, but the inner thing of the ID, like the soul, will never change.

Many of our roles are social attributes. Everyone plays different roles on different occasions. In this social environment, we switch between different roles at will in order to deal with interpersonal relationships. After a long time, we don't know which one is our real self.

Just like we set ourselves up as writers, gourmets, novelists and parents from media people, if one day he doesn't publish anything about people, then his personal setup will collapse.

Some people always feel that they are wearing masks every day, facing their bosses, customers, family and friends, and strangers, and they are tired of dealing with all kinds of relationships every day.

In fact, many people feel that dealing with interpersonal relationships is tiring, but they just don't grasp the balance between roles.

you are a mother, a daughter, a wife, a boss or an employee ... whether your role is managed well or not depends on your target.

Your husband is dissatisfied with you, which may be because you don't care and love your partner enough, your children are dissatisfied with you, your parents are dissatisfied with you, or you ignore your parents' needs.

This is the role given to us by the society. We have to adapt to and do every role well, so that all relationships can be balanced and harmonious. This is a successful design.

We can't let people set limits on our true selves. People set things for ourselves. If you want to, you can become what you want to be and build your ideal personal settings.