"I don't think it's necessary, I understand him."

When asked again if he had ever thought about divorcing his husband Chen Guoxi, who had cheated many times, Ye Tong still answered calmly like this .

Ye Tong met Chen Guoxi when he was 18 years old, and they got married 10 years after they fell in love.

During the 34 years of marriage, although Ye Tong never had children, The love for Chen Guoxi in her heart has never changed.

And Ye Tong once said, "I will only love him in my life."

Compared with Ye Tong's single-mindedness, her husband Chen Guoxi's approach is a bit excessive.

Nightclub actress Anya walked hand in hand with Anita Mui's agent, and kissed passionately with a young girl in a shopping mall. He even had an intimate disco with a hot girl.

Although he did not admit it, the photos were there and everyone knew it.

It’s not that Ye Tong didn’t know about Chen Guoxi’s sexy news,

On the contrary, he knew it clearly.

Not only did he not quarrel with Chen Guoxi, he even Stand up and help him clarify,

Without mentioning divorce at all.

As outsiders, netizens feel sorry for Ye Tong's generosity.

They even think she is too stupid. Her husband has "scored four times" like this, but she still blindly Tolerate.

In fact, Ye Tong is not stupid, her "wisdom" far exceeds our imagination.

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Being selected as the heroine by Leslie Cheung, Chow Yun-fat once said that acting with her felt like an electric shock.

The praise of the two great gods is enough to prove it. Ye Tong's acting skills are quite excellent.

From "The Legend of White Snake" to "The Legend of Heaven and Sword of the Dragon", Ye Tong's superb acting skills are even more praised, and every one of them is rated as a classic.

In fact, Ye Tong is not a professional actor, but an advertising model.

This matter started when she was a child.

In the 1960s, Ye Tong was born in Hong Kong and lived in a crowded small house.

In addition to her, there were four other people in the family, including her father, mother and , half brother and sister,

Here, Ye Tong does not feel at home, but thinks that he is the redundant one.

My parents are both clerks in department stores. They don’t get much salary but are very busy at work. When the two brothers and sisters can take care of themselves, Ye Tong can’t even speak clearly.

In order to provide Ye Tong with better care, when she was two years old, she was sent to her aunt's home where she lived alone.

The conditions in her aunt's home were not as good as those of her aunt. It's not good, but at least she has enough shelter.

In Ye Tong's impression, this is her home.

The aunt's attitude towards her was not very good, she only took care of her food and housing.

But Ye Tong agreed that this was a great care.

When Ye Tong was 5 years old, her aunt also started to go to work. She sent her to the kindergarten to take care of her every day, and picked her up after get off work in the evening.

Every day, Ye Tong is always the first child to be sent to kindergarten, and then the last one to be picked up. The teacher in the kindergarten is the only person she is most familiar with,

8 years old At that time, many children had to be sent to school accompanied by their parents.

But Ye Tong could take the bus by himself and go to school far away.

When I get home after school, I will even help my aunt cook dinner, help her with housework and clean up the house, always keeping things in order.

This kind of life made Ye Tong learn to be independent early, and she also had the idea of ????making money early and leaving this kind of dependent life as soon as possible.

There is a calendar of model Gu Jialu on the living room of my aunt’s house.

Every time he is alone, Ye Tong will always stare at that photo. Trance.

In the picture, Gu Jialu is wearing a beautiful floral skirt and exquisite makeup.

Looking into the distance with a confident smile,

Ye Tong feels beautiful Great, she also wanted to be such a person, and the seeds of becoming a model were planted at this time.

It was precisely because she embarked on the path of modeling that Ye Tong's life began to undergo earth-shaking changes, and she also met the most important person in her life.

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When she was in high school, the tall Ye Tong began to get involved in the modeling industry.

Whenever she was not in class, she would always go out to look for models. Some part-time jobs earn some pocket money to support my aunt's family.

At that time, Ye Tong didn’t know anything. Wherever there were advertisements for advertising models, she would run there.

One day in 1980, she heard that a company was recruiting models for subway advertisements.

After finding out this gossip from her friends in the same industry, Ye Tong went for the interview with a normal heart. location.

She was shocked when she arrived at the scene. This was the first time she had met so many competitors.

Normally there were only four or five interviews, but now there were more than Hundreds of people.

Everyone is more dressed up than the other, and everyone is wearing heavy makeup. Most of them are afraid that the director will not see her.

Only Ye Tong is wearing a bare face. , "naked" was squeezed into the corner.

At this time, there was a big wave, and a person in a tight skirt came towards Ye Tong,

"Why did you come here without cleaning up? I'll use my lipstick on you. , Such a complexion."

Before Ye Tong opened his mouth to answer her, she skillfully applied it on Ye Tong's mouth.

This person is a friend Ye Tong met while working part-time, named Xia Wenxi.

At this time, a rough male voice broke the chirping noise,

This person was Chen Guoxi, who was the deputy director of this advertisement at the time, and the task of selecting people was up to him. body.

After letting the entire interview venue quiet down, Chen Guoxi carefully looked at the girls present.

Each girl was posing and showing their best side in front of the assistant director.

But in Chen Guoxi's eyes, these people were all the same and had no characteristics.

Only Ye Tong, who was curled up in the corner, suddenly caught his eye.

"It's just you, the one in the white shirt in the corner, come in."

Accompanied by Chen Guoxi's voice, there were also the jealous eyes of a roomful of girls, who all looked at him. She glanced at Ye Tong who was at a loss. Only then did she realize that she had been chosen.

After passing through the dazzling crowd, Ye Tong walked shyly to the filming site.

Because the shooting equipment at that time was not as advanced as it is today, and the finished film could only be seen the next day after shooting, so shooting was not as simple as it is now.

Ye Tong was called five times by Chen Guoxi before he could complete the filming of this advertisement hanging on the subway.

If it were anyone else, she might have been impatient a long time ago, but instead of being impatient, Ye Tong was always humble every time, which made Chen Guoxi admire her even more.

After the filming was completed, Chen Guoxi took the initiative to invite Ye Tong to have afternoon tea at a high-end venue.

Ye Tong readily agreed. This was the first time she accepted an invitation from others.

In other words, it was the first time someone else invited her.

Chen Guoxi is 9 years older than Ye Tong. He takes good care of Ye Tong in many places.

Let Ye Tong feel loved for the first time.

In this way, she fell into Chen Guoxi's gentle hometown little by little, and identified Chen Guoxi as a person.

No one expected that a decision he made when he was young would stay with Ye Tong to this day.

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Only after the two got together did Ye Tong know the true identity of Chen Guoxi.

He was just experiencing life as an assistant director.

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In fact, he is a second-generation rich man worth tens of millions, a young master.

The places where they dated were all arranged by Chen Guoxi, and they were almost all high-end places that Ye Tong had only seen on TV.

At first, Ye Tong couldn't believe that this was true, but Chen Guoxi always used actions to prove that it was true.

In 1982, the relationship between the two was still going on steadily, and Chen Guoxi still cared for Ye Tong as carefully as he did at the beginning.

One day, Chen Guoxi received a call from Director Tan Jiaming.

The general content of the call was that he was urgently looking for a heroine for a movie he was planning.

Wanted Asked him if he had a suitable candidate,

Of course Chen Guoxi, who loved Ye Tong passionately, recommended her immediately.

Therefore, Ye Tong was successfully selected as the heroine of "Youth on Fire".

Her co-star was Leslie Cheung, who was already a top celebrity at the time.

This made Ye Tong, who had just entered the entertainment industry, very nervous.

It must be said that Ye Tong is extremely talented in acting. Even without anyone to teach her,

She performed very naturally, so she was often praised by Leslie Cheung.

With this debut film, Ye Tong was nominated for the "Best Newcomer Award", and everyone noticed that a new star in the entertainment industry was rising.

With such a good start and a boyfriend like Chen Guoxi to protect him,

Ye Tong’s acting career will not be any worse at all.

Immediately afterwards, the directors of "Five Lucky Stars" and "Seven Days Sunny" offered her olive branches.

This time, Ye Tong was not only awarded the award Nominated, but directly took home the award for "Best Actress".

This is the only actor in the history of the entertainment industry who has won the title of heroine in three films.

Ye Tong’s fame has skyrocketed. In an instant, he has gone from being a newcomer to the industry to Became a well-known actress.

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In the final analysis, Ye Tong’s career success is inseparable from Chen Guoxi’s contribution.

Without him, perhaps Ye Tong would still be the one looking for someone everywhere. Part-time model.

In 1988, Ye Tong, whose career was further advanced, accepted Chen Guoxi's proposal.

The two held a romantic and grand wedding in Paris.

< p> At that moment Ye Tong was the happiest woman in the world, and she wanted to thank Chen Guoxi even more for everything he had done for her.

After getting married, Chen Guoxi did not hinder Ye Tong’s career development, but supported her to do what she wanted to do.

With her husband’s full support and her own Ye Tong's fame was at the peak of her career during that period, and she appeared in almost every classic work.

Because of filming commitments, Ye Tong could not be by Chen Guoxi's side most of the time.

Immediately afterwards, tidbits about her husband began to appear one after another.

Photos of Chen Guoxi traveling intimately with many people of the opposite sex were displayed in front of Ye Tong one by one.

Everyone thought that Ye Tong, who was now successful and famous, would choose to give up this marriage.

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Give up this Chen Guoxi who went out to eat and was half-hearted about relationships.

But who knew that she only responded to Chen Guoxi's cheating incident by saying "Thank you for accompanying my husband." A large number of melon-eating people.

Summary:

In the eyes of many people, Ye Tong’s blind tolerance is too humble and stupid.

They even think that Chen Guoxi is not worthy of the goddess’ single-mindedness. And tolerance.

But if you think about it carefully, maybe Ye Tong's pursuit of marriage is different from that of ordinary people.

She has lived under the influence of others since she was a child. All she longs for is a stable harbor. That’s all.

Chen Guoxi’s devotion and care to Ye Tong made her feel the warmth of home,

So she just wanted to stick to this marriage,

< p> Regarding Chen Guoxi's affairs outside, Ye Tong's eyes were just passing by.

As long as she waits patiently, she will definitely be able to wait for Chen Guoxi to change his mind.

Perhaps she should be thankful that she did not give up. In the end, Ye Tong waited for Chen Guoxi's prodigal son to turn around.

Ye Tong finally got what he wanted.

Perhaps, many people do not understand Ye Tong's approach, but this is her wisdom, using herself to wait silently in exchange for the happiness she wants. The process may be bumpy, but the result is ultimately what she dreams of.

Now 58 years old, Ye Tong is no longer as busy with work as before, but chooses to return to his family.

They spend time together every day, watching movies and tasting delicious food, as if they have returned to When the two first met 34 years ago.

Ye Tong is not stupid, her tolerance and patience are just to get the life she wants.

Without her generosity, the two of them would never go back to the past. < /p>