How to start a chat with a girl who has just joined QQ? 1. Say some "teasing" words to open up the relationship. Using smart language can attract a girl's attention and at least make her feel that you are special. Opening with a witticism can stir up a girl's emotions and help with the rest of the conversation. Here are some examples: Boys: "I found a little cutie" Girls: "Hey" Boys: "Good evening, cutie" No girl would hate being called "cutie" or "fairy". Starting with a title like this will make it more intimate and won't make the girl think you're a bore. The above methods allow us to chat with girls in a pleasant atmosphere. She will think you are an interesting person. 2. Pictures and photos as an opening. It is also a good way to start a chat with pictures or photos. For example: Boy: "(Send a photo of a puppy) Xiaobai has something to say to you." Girl: "So cute!" Boy : "Are you talking about me, haha" The key to chatting through pictures of things girls like is what kind of information the picture reflects, and then continue to communicate along the information. 3. Talk about eating, drinking and having fun. Eating, drinking and having fun are an indispensable part of life, something you experience every moment of every day. Therefore, it is also a topic that often appears in daily chats, including food, music, movies, activities, wine, coffee, etc. The content is very rich and interesting. When you are with a girl, the topic that you must not bring up is something like: I ordered a takeaway today, but it took an hour and a half to arrive. It was expensive and tasted terrible, and now I am still hungry. Before you say this, think about it from a girl's perspective, how you will feel when you hear these words, and how you will respond. Generally, in this case, the most likely responses you receive are "Oh", "Hmm", "Then you should eat more". As a result, you finally come up with a topic, but after finishing a sentence, you can no longer continue the conversation, so you have to change the topic. Of course, the subsequent chat will be a little awkward. When we talk about eating, drinking and having fun, the most important thing is to have special memory points to support it. That is to say, no matter which topic you choose, it should be slightly different from daily chat so that others can remember it immediately. How to chat with a girl who has just joined WeChat 2 How to chat with a girl who has just joined WeChat 1. Opening with emoticons Emoticons can be said to be the most conservative way to open a chat, because let alone young people nowadays, middle-aged people and even elderly people are Emoticons are used more or less when chatting. The emoticon opening can make the other party feel less stiff, while your "Hello" and "My name is xxx, what about you" openings will make girls feel too formal and inconsistent with the chatting style of today's young people. But the most obvious disadvantage of emoticons is that if you send a distinctive emoticon and a girl gets it, she may develop a crush on you in an instant. But if the emoticon you send is a smile, or it is not the girl’s favorite style, then she may not reply to you. Therefore, when starting with emoticons, it is best to use some emoticons that are “skinny” or designed to flirt with girls. If the girl also responds to you with emoticons or shows interest, then the ice has basically been broken successfully. 2. Find topics through the girl’s avatar and circle of friends. You have just added a girl to WeChat. You are not familiar with each other. You don’t know how old she is or what her name is. She doesn’t understand your preferences and interests. At this time, you must learn to observe and avoid starting the household registration mode as soon as you get started. For example, if a girl’s profile picture is very good-looking, you can say, "I can only give you 82 points for your profile picture." Under normal circumstances, girls will usually ask "Why is it not a perfect score?" You can then say, "The remaining 18 points will be given to you in the form of three sixes." Another example is that a girl's Moments post her pet, you can give it a like, and then Chat her privately, "You are so attentive to pets, you must be a careful and considerate girl." Appropriate praise, not kneeling and licking to please, will definitely make girls unconsciously like you. 3. Talk about topics that interest her. Men don’t know what topics to talk about when chatting online. Men can talk about topics that girls are interested in, so that girls will be more likely to continue chatting with you. In fact, girls also like to chat with boys who have the same hobbies. Therefore, men should pay more attention to the tone of the girl's voice when chatting, and then judge the girl's interests and hobbies from the tone. If a girl likes you, she will like you. chat with you. And if a man has more topics that girls are interested in, it will also allow the two people to establish a common language.

It is also very easy for a man to know a girl’s interests and hobbies. Men can find out about a girl’s interests and hobbies through her best friends or her colleagues, and he can also know from the side whether a girl likes him or not, so that when pursuing a girl I will also look for a language acceptable to girls to chat with girls.