Love is beautiful, but it can't be carried away by love, so that you get caught up in it. Many times, the details of getting along determine the long-term relationship. Even if you can wear a mask at first and pretend to be perfect, when you get along for a long time, the mask will be torn off and you will inadvertently reveal your truest appearance.
Some people say that if you want to know a man's character, you can understand it by having dinner with him. As long as you pay close attention to his little details, you can know whether he can entrust him for life, and the feelings with good character can continue to develop, not to mention whether he has you in his heart.
Xiao Ai recently made a boyfriend. Although he keeps talking sweet words, his friends around him don't think highly of him. He always feels that his love for Xiao Ai only stays in his mouth, but in fact he has paid little. At first, Xiao Ai, who is deeply in love, didn't think so. In her eyes, her boyfriend is humorous, knows how to make himself happy, and sometimes tolerates his waywardness. Xiao Ai always thinks that her boyfriend is perfect, so all her suggestions to her friends are not taken seriously.
However, after getting along with each other for a long time, Xiao Ai began to feel that something was wrong. In addition to saying sweet words to himself and making himself happy, her boyfriend seemed to have never done anything for himself, that is, when he was in trouble, he stayed away, and recently he wanted to borrow money from himself. Xiao Ai began to take his friends' words to heart, and at the same time listened to many suggestions, such as observing the details of getting along more.
Maybe we have been together for a long time, and our feelings are not as deep as before. My boyfriend's performance has become more and more dull. Until that time, after Xiao Ai invited him to dinner, he changed completely. At that time, when he heard that Xiao Ai wanted to invite him to dinner, his boyfriend's sweet words were obviously much more. But when he arrived at the restaurant, he just picked up the menu and ordered, without asking Xiao Ai a word.
Then I played the mobile phone by myself, and responded to Xiao Ai's question in a perfunctory way. All this was noticed by Xiao Ai. It was the weekend, and there were a lot more customers than usual. The speed of serving food was slow, perhaps because I was impatient. My boyfriend shouted at the waiter, and she was very disgusted with his condescending appearance.
After finally serving the food, Xiao Ai was even more disappointed. Her boyfriend not only picked out the expensive dishes, but also liked them all, some of which Xiao Ai didn't like. In the process of eating, her boyfriend was very considerate, giving Xiao Ai food and sweet words, but Xiao Ai was very disgusted, because the food that her boyfriend picked up was something he had clearly told him he didn't like, so he didn't want to eat them at all.
After a meal, Xiao Ai broke up with her boyfriend without giving him any chance to explain. Love or not actually depends on the details. Looking back on this relationship, Xiao Ai suddenly felt ridiculous. A few sweet words can make herself his long-term meal ticket. This wishful thinking is really good. Fortunately, she didn't fall into it in the end, otherwise she would be hurt even more.
Love is both sweet and beautiful, which often makes people fall into it, but a girl in love must not be carried away by the so-called love. It is necessary to love someone sincerely, rather than just relying on a few sweet words to be happy to the end. Without practical action, sweet words are unrealistic after all.
However, a person can disguise himself with a mask, but he can't wear it on his face for a long time. After all, after getting along for a long time, he will be more casual and unconsciously reveal his shortcomings and habits. If you want to know whether the other person is sincere to you, it is clear to accompany him to dinner. People who love you will worry about your feelings, ask your opinion when ordering, and automatically filter out what you don't like, instead of focusing on yourself.
A man who cares about you loves you in detail, but a man who loves you with a mask will only make superficial efforts. He will choose to escape when you need help, and will not pay attention to your feelings. He will only coax you into being happy for profit. When you lose the value he claimed, he will leave you at any time. Love is beautiful, but you should be careful when you get along, so as to prevent getting lost.