How to chat with girls without being awkward

How to chat with girls without being awkward. Many boys become awkward when chatting with girls because they lack experience in chatting with girls. I am extremely nervous and don’t know what to talk about, which will make the whole atmosphere awkward. So how can I chat with girls without making it awkward? How to chat with girls without being awkward 1

1. Become a girl’s friend first

Since you want to become a girl’s friend, you need to win the other person’s favor in the process. But you can't expose too much neediness (too much neediness for girls can easily bring social pressure to girls), so the chatting skills here can use detailed praise and push-pull teasing.

1. Praise girls with details

The so-called praise with details is to be specific, differentiated, rare, and implicit when praising girls. Specifically, it means to praise girls specifically for one point, and Distinguish other people who praise a girl's beauty, and rare is appropriate. Too much praise will only become flattery. In addition to appearance, praise the girl's value points (cuteness, kindness, independence, etc.) more. For example:

Boys: You are quite special today

Girls: Really?

Boys: Seeing the styles and colors of clothes worn by your circle of friends makes people excited Refreshing (praise for details)

Girls: Thank you

Boys: Especially your hairstyle, you look more gentle and lovely (praise for details)

2. Push and pull Teasing girls

The purpose of teasing girls by pushing and pulling is to enliven the atmosphere and create a relaxed and happy chatting atmosphere. Therefore, when "pushing" girls, don't feel rude or fear that the other party will be angry. You also need to pay attention. The point of "pushing" a girl is not to talk about the other person's shortcomings. Here you can push and pull a girl like this, for example:

Boy: You look very tired today

Girl: Really?

Boys: The photos in your circle of friends make people think you are tired and not as good-looking as you

Girls: Not very photogenic

Boys: Although you look silly (Push)

Girls: Hum

Boys: But I feel like he is a considerate and worthy person to associate with (Pull)

2. Establish mutual attraction with girls

The so-called mutual attraction is the process of making a girl feel that you understand her and develop mutual affection. The chatting skills here can be used to discuss in-depth topics and rationalize flaws.

1. In-depth topics***ming

In-depth topics are topics that can bring you closer to girls during chats. These are generally the views on love, relationship history, world view, etc. Values ??and the ups and downs of growing up, the focus is to guide girls to tell their own stories. If we want to resonate with girls here, we need guidance, such as "Me too" "I think...what about you?" "Second The first time I met someone like you... all the girls in my impression were..."

Instill your own concepts and thoughts during the chat, and provide certain leadership to the girls.

2. Rationalization of flaws

During the process of chatting with girls, we will gradually understand each other and discover some of the advantages and disadvantages of the other party. At this time, we can turn some of the shortcomings of girls into Rationalize and let the girl understand that you understand her, for example:

It’s not that you have a bad temper, but that these people don’t understand what you want.

It’s not that you are willful, but that They have no patience

3. Accept the test of girls

Girls always lack a sense of security, so they will test boys in various ways. Sincerely, judge whether it is worth dating. Generally, when you encounter a girl's test, it means that the girl is really considering your future and cares about you, so you must deal with it properly.

For example, when you are on a date with a girl and the other party is late, this may be a test. If you ask a girl why she came late, you will easily ignore the girl's emotions and blame the mistake on the girl, which will only make the girl think that you have low emotional intelligence.

The correct approach is to tease the girl for being late because she only puts on makeup, so as to ease the embarrassing atmosphere of the girl being late, and then praise the girl for her beauty and change the subject while praising the girl. How to chat with girls without being awkward 2

What to talk about with girls?

A woman chases a man with a veil, and a man chases a woman with a mountain of space. Why is it so difficult for boys to chase girls? Many boys will think this is unfair. In fact, I want to say that there is nothing unfair, but girls are more sensitive, more sensitive to feelings, and more concerned about details. Therefore, they often get to know a boy carefully, think that she meets their own mate selection standards, and then shape themselves into the other person's mate selection standards, so that they can hit the target with one hit.

But boys are careless, I believe everyone knows this, and don’t know what girls are thinking, just want to chase someone else? Then, let’s take a look at what girls like to talk about.

How can you chat with girls and make them like you? (Take your time, the key is later)

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What is abnormal logic chat? In daily life, I don’t know if you have noticed that some witty and unexpected answers always bring excellent atmosphere. The abnormal logic chat method uses this principle. If you achieve this effect in a chat, your answers will surprise the other person and make her interested in you.

Practical application of the abnormal logic chat method

First of all, the prerequisite for using this chat method is that you must have enough sense of humor, otherwise where would so many witticisms come from? With the premise in place, the next step is practical application. For example: When chatting with girls, girls may say: "There are many beauties in your circle of friends."

The most common and normal answers are: "Not bad" and "No." After saying this, the situation became awkward. So, when faced with this "topic", you can say something ugly: "Are you indirectly bragging that you are a beauty, so bad?" Or worse: "It's okay, not too much, you are 100th, haha."

The essence of the fishing chat method is: conclusion first, then reasons. Everyone has curiosity, especially things related to themselves, and they are particularly interested in them. So in the chat, you can draw conclusions first, arouse the girls' curiosity, and then guide the girls to keep asking you questions, keep continuing the topic, and keep expressing themselves.

To give you an example:

Male: I think you look like a cat (make a conclusion first to arouse curiosity)

Female : Why did you say that?

Male: Haha, I said you are not allowed to hit me (to sell off and increase curiosity)

Female: I won’t hit you, but I will hit you if you don’t tell me. you.

Male: Because you look good on the outside, but you have firm ideas in your heart, you will pursue what you like, and you will not care about what you can get easily (release curiosity)

Female: Haha, that’s amazing, are you my bug?

Male: No, no, this is my sixth sense accumulated from 30 years of fortune-telling experience (humorous)

Female: Haha, suddenly so scared. You won’t bully me in the future, will you?

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You don’t need to know astronomy and geography to chat with girls. It only requires you to master one very important point, that is, no matter how small things are, chatting must be emotional. Women pay more attention to emotional communication and pay less attention to the content of the chat. Because in the eyes of girls, even if they are not interested in this matter, they will still be happy to continue chatting with you. After we have established a suitable chatting atmosphere, we must seek to extend the topic and guide the girl's emotions to your three views, your personal charm or personal story, so that she becomes interested in you and makes her willing to have sex with you in the future. More intersections.

Give an example:

(1) When you meet a girl for the first time, if the girl feels good about you, she may ask you some questions:

"I feel like you are quite young. How old are you this year?" Most boys will answer: "Not young, you are 22 this year." (There is no emotional interaction, and the result is to end the topic directly.) So you must seize the girl's interest in you. , and then do some extensions. You can say this:

Male: How old do you think I am? (Grasp girls’ emotional points to interact and guide girls to invest)

Female: I can’t say for sure. Are you 20 years old? (Girls start to output value, enter your framework, and be guided by you)

Male: Haha, it will be my 18th birthday in a few days. What gift are you going to give me?

It doesn’t matter whether girls give gifts or not, and create a relaxed atmosphere through chatting. What is important is a new topic, gifts, which is extended through the topic of age. So the chat can continue and generate more intersections.

If a girl is not interested in you, only has some simple communication with you, or even ignores and suppresses you in chat, then we can try to use emotional chat to communicate with her:

< p> For example, if your body is a little thin, a girl may say "you are so thin" (girls' emotions are focused on your body, they are a little disgusted with you, and they even start to block your reproductive value). Faced with this problem, many boys will say "Oh, no, I'm not thin." In order to prove themselves, these boys easily fall into the trap of rebuttal topics, and then go on endlessly. So, when faced with a topic that seems unfriendly to girls, you can answer like this:

Male: Girls have really good taste. You found it so profound. Now that you've discovered it, I can take you around the world if you get the chance.

Female: How do you take me around the world?

Male: It’s okay when the wind is strong. I'm so thin, the wind can blow me far, but I can't control where I travel.

When faced with such a topic, don’t try to explain it. Follow the girl’s emotions and provide a new topic - traveling around the world. For girls, travel is the best topic. When a girl is attracted by your topic, you have successfully expanded the topic. At the same time, girls will also have mood swings because of you. For closed-ended questions, the other party can only answer the question with "yes", "no" or one word. Household check is a continuous closed-ended question.

Give an example:

Closed question

When you ask a girl if she has eaten anything and she says yes, then the topic is over. You ask a girl if she likes cats, and she says it's okay, so the topic ends.

Open-ended questions

"What are your usual hobbies?" By asking each other questions like this, they have more answer choices. She can travel, dance and play games. "What do you like to do after get off work?" There will be more room for the other person's answer. She can read books, watch movies and shop. "What animal do you like?" The other person can answer cats, dogs, etc. With open-ended questions, the topic opens immediately, which is actually very simple. Try to avoid closed questions.

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As the name suggests, it means constantly opening new topics and expanding and extending a topic, so as to reach endless topics. The key point of this method is that you must have rich imagination and divergent thinking skills, master the information provided by girls' topics, and use it to expand the topic. This way you don’t have to worry about having a conversation without a topic. What is divergent thinking?

For example: Do we always talk about eating? When it comes to eating, what can you think of?

When it comes to eating, I think of my mother’s Sichuan-style pork

2. When it comes to eating, do you often eat snacks?

I don’t dare to eat or drink, and now I’m losing weight.

I wasn’t hungry at first, but when you mentioned eating, I became hungry.

Hey, can you cook? If possible, I will become your teacher and let you teach me how to cook.

Another example:

Nowadays, fairy stalks are very popular, so in chats, the word fairy is often mentioned, so divergent thinking:

Nowadays, fairies After descending to earth, did you secretly follow them down to earth?

(2) In fact, my identity is the Jade Emperor, which is specially designed to punish you, a little fairy.

All fairies drink dew, but unlike you, you drink toilet water.

We were separated during the descent, and now fate brings us together again

I am also in the sky. There are not only little fairies in the sky, but also my little fairy boy

These are divergent thinking, centered on a keyword, and thinking about the keywords in a reverse, forward, horizontal or combined way. All questions. To put it simply, it is thinking that spreads from one point to all directions. Many topics can be derived from one topic. When you learn to chat with this kind of thinking, you will find that there are so many endless topics to talk about, and make good use of each topic to heat up the relationship with girls.

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What should you talk to girls about? Everyone must have the awareness of learning and change. If you don’t understand, ask. If you don’t ask, you will never learn.

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What to talk to girls

1. Food, cooking

Some people say: "I want to catch someone The heart first grabs a person's stomach. "I often hear girls say they want to lose weight, lose weight, lose weight, but in fact, when they see delicious food, they don't care so much about losing weight. It's business to eat all the delicious food in your stomach.

Then grasp this psychology of women and you can find the same topic by talking about food with the girl you like. "Have you ever eaten the stir-fried pork from XXX's house? The taste of the meat is really unforgettable." "The breakfast in Xijiekou is super delicious. I wonder if you have been to their store?" "XXX's spicy chicken is made This is a great way to start a conversation.

And many girls like warm men. One of the most distinctive characteristics of warm men is that they can cook. If you can show your cooking skills to girls in the circle of friends or when chatting, then Most girls are unable to resist. Being able to cook can not only increase the conversation topics with girls, but also show your quality of life. This is a very bonus topic in chatting.

If you really don’t know how to cook, or are not interested in cooking, you can also learn more about food in your free time, so that you won’t be distracted when talking about food with girls. , you can’t answer the call at all.

2. Photography and retouching

All women in the world love beauty. Whether it is makeup, photography, or even retouching, they must Make themselves beautiful to satisfy their vanity of beauty. You don’t necessarily have to talk about girls’ cosmetics, as this may make the girl think you are a sissy and that you are not her type.

But if you can take pictures and retouch pictures, it will be different. You can often display some of the photos you took in your circle of friends, and put the beautifully edited photos in your circle of friends to show your interests and hobbies. In photography, as long as any scene is created by you, the photos taken will be completely upgraded to a higher level, and your value will be increased by ten points invisibly.

When dating and chatting with girls, you can talk about photography and photo retouching with girls. You can also help girls take photos or retouch photos. You can also be a photography teacher for girls. Just talk about photography. Establish a chat topic that two people have the same topic for.

3. Travel and experience

If you travel often, you will see and hear a lot, and you will have a lot of things to talk to girls about. As for the topic drying up.

You can also chat with girls about what you saw and heard during your travels, the fun places you have been to, which city has delicious snacks, which city you like best, etc. Use the same topic to ask girls. You can ask girls: "Which city do you want to go to the most, and what makes you obsessed with it?" "Which city have you ever visited that impressed you? Why did it impress you?"

What you see and hear during these journeys can not only let girls see your rich life experience, but also establish the same topic for chatting with girls. When girls have a certain liking for you, time, you can make a vague invitation, "When we take a long vacation, we can go to XXX together."

In short, these down-to-earth and life-oriented topics are always what girls care about most, and they are also Topics that can be associated with girls can also increase their liking for you. Remember when talking about these topics, don't talk alone and don't take care of the girls' feelings. Connect the topics to girls and each other. Only these topics can play a role in making girls like you.

If you have a conflict with your significant other and you are unable to recover, don’t be discouraged. You might as well add an emotional teacher’s assistant and ask her to help you arrange a consultant teacher who is good at solving emotional problems. , first analyze the emotional problems and give you professional advice.

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