proper limit's mother-in-law and her mother-in-law are the two killers of marriage.

the more people, the more right and wrong.

The couple have to face a lot of friction when they are together, and dragging the original family into it will only make the situation more complicated and difficult.

During the National Day holiday, 34-year-old Wang Jie took her 25-year-old new wife Yan Yan to Lijiang for their honeymoon.

Yan Yan and her mother-in-law don't deal with each other very well, so Wang Jie thought about taking her mother with her when traveling, so that her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can enhance their feelings.

who knows, at the beginning of the journey, the two men choked up.

In order to take beautiful photos, Yan Yan bought a new dress, a white skirt, which matches the beautiful scenery of Lijiang.

I was very happy. My mother-in-law saw this dress, but she poured cold water on her head: "What are you wearing, just like a female ghost!"

Young girls like to enjoy life, catch up with their honeymoon, and spend more.

Yan Yan wants to experience the exquisite local food, special products and scenic spots in online celebrity.

Mother-in-law got angry: "You just got married, and you spend a lot of money. What's more?" Really defeated! "

Wang Jie advised his daughter-in-law: "My mother has been there before, and she knows more than us, so she should listen more." While coaxing her mother: "Yan Yan is still young, what do you care about with her?"

no one persuaded anyone about the consequences of muddling along. Mother-in-law, daughter-in-law and husband each added a lot of anger.

Mr. Wang remembered a conversation between his son and his mother:

Mom and his wife quarreled, and the mother asked her son who he helped.

The son said, "Mom, you still have your father to support you, but your daughter-in-law is married far away, and she only has me."

Mom is angry: "You don't treat me as a family?"

The son is quick-witted and decisive: "We will always be a family. Before marriage, I was a child who grew up under the care of my parents. Now, I have my own small family, and I have to take on the responsibility of a man. Everyone and the small family really have to be separated, so that both sides can be harmonious. "

As the saying goes, "A bad husband spreads it from both sides, while a good husband keeps it from both sides."

it's normal for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to have different preferences, and it's not the worst for mother-in-law to be unreasonable, but her husband is desperate because of her poor outlook.

A husband who can't carry clearly is a person who pretends to sleep. You can never wake him up.

There is a negative case in Zhihu, and everyone brushed off the diss man. Everyone comes to taste, how wonderful a husband can be.

Before getting married, the man's wife once asked: Will he live with the elderly after marriage? Man replied: No.

As a result, after the marriage, the husband and mother wanted to move in. "They only come here once in a month for two days, but their wives are not very welcome.".

At first, my wife cooked and entertained. Later, when I heard that my mother-in-law was coming, I would eat out with my colleagues and come back very late.

So the man thinks that there is something wrong with his wife's attitude of "can't be taunted and can't afford to hide", and she can't handle interpersonal relationships and her emotional intelligence is low.

"My mother is an elder. This is her home. They have worked hard to save money to buy a house. Why do they need to be informed in advance to come?"

"I just want to live my own life, isn't it the most basic to be filial to the elderly? She will try to integrate into this family when she is married to me! "

The man said that his income was higher than his wife's, the wedding room was also the down payment from his parents, and most of the decoration was supported by his parents, and the mortgage was mainly paid by him.

at first glance, do you think your wife is willful and perverse, and your husband is full of grievances?

what is the truth?

His salary is a little more than his wife's, far from being the pillar of the family.

The down payment for the wedding room was paid by his parents, but only his name was written on the property certificate.

monopolize the house by yourself, isn't it natural to repay the mortgage by yourself? Besides, life can't cost money? Your money has paid off the mortgage. Didn't your wife pay for eating and drinking Lazar, but the wind blew it?

The wife paid tens of thousands of down payment for the car at home, so the man filled in his name because he didn't have a driver's license. You can't add your name without a driver's license? Tens of thousands of dollars is not money?

in the process of decoration, the man and wife were busy before and after, they contacted the decoration company and communicated with the designer, and also paid some money. In the end, they didn't say their names, but they didn't get a good word?

knowing that her mother has a bad temper and likes to express her opinions, she has to let her wife suffer. Elders have to get used to it? Who hasn't lost his temper yet?

the most wonderful thing is that when we got married, the man's family didn't give the bride price, not even the wedding banquet!

such a man, who takes advantage of all kinds of things, is arrogant, selfish and ignorant, and now asks in turn:

"Can my wife accept my mother's attitude that she can't afford to hide?"

hehe, it should be your kind and tolerant wife who is considering whether to divorce you.

Why do you think that when a wife is married, she should be integrated with family of origin? Treat his parents like his own parents and try to be a good daughter-in-law and a "good daughter"?

It's right to be filial to your parents, but your parents are only kind to you, not including your married daughter-in-law.

She just wants to live a good life with you, and not all of them are married to help you fulfill your filial piety.

you should have your own lives.