In recent years, with the continuous improvement of living standards, various cuisines have emerged one after another. Haidilao is one of them. This is a hot pot restaurant model which is famous for its rich dishes and thoughtful service. But can you imagine that you can enjoy all these just by spending 27 yuan?

A treasure mom once showed off this skill of "living" on social platforms.

When she was waiting in line at Haidilao, she asked the waiter to make a manicure for herself. After that, she only needed one hot pot bottom of clear soup and two small ingredients. The two of them only ate some free ingredients, and even Bao Ma took the children to eat all the beef in the seasoning with free rice.

Surprisingly, netizens almost overwhelmingly expressed their opposition-how can such a person who takes "picking" and "rubbing" to the extreme teach the future of the motherland and the hope of the nation?

Saving is not equal to picking, let alone rubbing. How can we carry forward the traditional virtues of thrift of the Chinese nation without spoiling it?

The incident of "27 yuan eating sea fishing" is definitely not what we want to see. What we need is a child with a big pattern and a big heart.

how to make a perfect child?

According to my many years of parenting experience, parents need to do the following:

The famous Soviet scientist Suhomlinski once emphasized that "parents are the first teachers of children" on the role of parents in family education, which means the same thing as the China proverb "A dragon makes a dragon, a phoenix makes a phoenix, and a mouse's son can make a hole".

Children in childhood always follow their parents' example, which requires parents to be strict with themselves and set a correct example.

It is worth noting that parents should set an example not only by words, but also by practice.

Imagine that when someone takes their children to eat "Haidilao in 27 yuan" and shouts "You must establish a correct outlook on wealth", the children are likely to be misled-the correct outlook on wealth is to spend the least money and do what is most beneficial to them.

after a long time, children will develop the habit of being stingy, which will lead to the loss of many opportunities in their future life and make it difficult for them to make great achievements.

Therefore, for the sake of their children's future, parents must set an example, and never be complacent about eating "Haidilao in 27 yuan". This "Haidilao in 27 yuan" is full, but it is their children's future that is beaten.

In fact, today's society can also be described as such. In the face of complicated social phenomena, children will inevitably be confused.

When parents set an example and told their children not to lose big because of small things, they would go to school the next day, but the children might meet their classmates showing off that "27 yuan had enough to eat in Haidilao".

When only one classmate shows off like this, children may stick to their own position. When more and more children show off like this, even their friends or some students who are always praised by their teachers, children will inevitably waver. Is it because mom and dad are behind?

As a result, the children who came home from school had an argument with their parents for the first time. The children who had been obedient were so "rebellious", and some parents were very angry, ranging from yelling to swearing.

As everyone knows, this is an excellent educational opportunity. When children have doubts, they first think of asking their parents, which is a sign of trust.

Therefore, parents should listen patiently, otherwise, the next time they encounter questions, their children will try to solve them by themselves or blindly listen to their peers' suggestions. How can the judgments made by these children with incomplete mental maturity be compared with those made by mature adults?

After patiently listening to children's questions, parents can guide them from both positive and negative aspects.

You know, achieving a perfect child is by no means achieved overnight, which requires the concerted efforts of all sectors of society, among which family atmosphere is particularly important.

Apart from the above two points, parents can also tell their children about the thrifty deeds of ancient celebrities in their daily lives.

many parents often have this question-why did I do this, but it aroused children's disgust and even was considered as an "antique"?

how to help children establish a correct view of wealth with these cases is a problem that we have to consider.

Based on my years of parenting experience, I would like to give you some tips:

1. The frequency of education should not be too high

As the saying goes, "The leftovers are fried for three times, even the dogs don't eat them", and children can feel the same at first. When parents nag, children will get bored and even have rebellious psychology.

Therefore, parents must grasp the frequency of education. As for what this frequency is, it should depend on children's different ages and personality characteristics.

For example, for older children, the frequency of parents' education can be appropriately lower than that of younger children; Parents should not adopt too high frequency of education for children who know everything at all.

2. Choose the right time

Imagine the following scenario: A father took his son to the playground to play the merry-go-round in order to reward him for getting high marks in the exam. The son had a good time and wanted to share his happiness with his father, but his father interrupted him, "Son, we must treat wealth correctly, and we can't treat digging as thrift ..."

In this way, the child will not only lose the idea of sharing happiness with his father, but even resist his father's next reward.

It's also to reward children: A mother took her daughter to the newly-opened Haidilao, and met someone who was talking about her "strategy for saving money in Haidilao". The mother and daughter didn't pay much attention to it. It was not until after the consumption ended that the daughter came home that she asked her mother, "Mom, didn't you say you couldn't take advantage?" Why did that uncle say that today? "

instead of avoiding her daughter's problems, the mother praised her child's habit of being good at observation and thinking. Because the daughter took care of other people's faces, she didn't ask the question in public, and with the nature of reward, she told the child a story about thrift.

After that, I told my children that picking is not equal to thrift. We need to be frugal, but we can't be proud of picking. The children taught by such mothers must be honest and sunny.

To sum up, parents and friends must distinguish between thrift and thrift, pass on the correct concept of wealth to their children, and create perfect children with a big pattern!