Dai Xiao, my colleague and roommate in my last unit, is a southern girl. She writes well and cooks well. These cakes are all made professionally. She loves food, dresses up, treats life, and is exquisite and hot. We live together in the dormitory of the unit, each with a room. During the two years living with her, we have enjoyed many taste bud experiences, and she is also an extremely emotional person. Every time she eats, she will have a tablecloth with different colors, which is especially beautiful. The flowers on the table are always indispensable, and the ordinary life is steamed by her. Such people, with their own happiness, can not only make themselves happy, but also make people around them happy, even if our accommodation conditions are really average. After a long time, I was unconsciously infected by this happiness. In the two years with her, the words spoken from our mouths are basically positive energy, and there are few negative words such as nitpicking and hitting. Perhaps this is the charm of a very happy person. Sometimes we all think that if there is a big sofa and a big TV in the living room, we will never get married, so we will live a happy life and have no shortage of men.
On one occasion, Daidai gave full play to her sense of smell for food, starting with her favorite seasonal food. This time, she tried her favorite pumpkin juice-solid color pumpkin juice with IKEA's unique transparent glass. Two mint leaves were placed on the side of the glass, which was made by an absolute master. The concentration is just right, and the taste is particularly fresh and sweet. That is the taste of fresh fruits and vegetables, pure natural, with two words: delicious, with two words: happiness.
You must learn to play with her. Later, I tried it several times and it was really delicious. I recommended it to the captain, and my sister won five-star praise.
Until one day, a little sister came to my house, and I made pumpkin juice, which I thought was delicious. When I served it, I was very excited and wanted to share with her what I thought was delicious. I didn't expect her to say: What's delicious here? I ..... I was speechless, and I was thrown a pot of cold water in an instant, so I was embarrassed to answer the phone. In my opinion, because pumpkins are too common and soy milk is too common, pumpkin juice should be a new idea and a manifestation of loving life. However, this time, I found that this is not the case. After she left, I thought repeatedly, is my skill too bad, or? The captain affirmed that the technology was very good, but her happiness was too high to feel this kind of care and small happiness.
Yes, think about her. She is very different from Dai Xiao. She loves life: she can't mention it. Life: can do; Exquisite: it's far away ... it's almost inevitable that such people will output negative language. There are many people in life who have different ignition points and different life frequencies with you. She doesn't understand your love of life.
Why do some people feel very happy and satisfied with the same cup of pumpkin juice, while others think it is just plain?
In fact, happiness is our own ability. A happy person, with a low ignition point, can explode himself in anything, while an unfortunate person, no matter how high the ignition point, can hardly let her have this experience.
Happiness has nothing to do with anything else. This is an ability. May each of us have this ability to make ourselves happy and others happy.