Of course it is a major event in life and a necessary thing, but it cannot be regarded as a burden. To get married or not to get married is just a way of life. Although most people choose to get married, why should I be one of the majority?

And my point of view is not that I will never get married in this life, but that if I have not met the right person, then I can accept the fact of living alone for the rest of my life. I have seen too many failed marriages. It’s not that I don’t believe in love, but I just concluded that sometimes the happiness index and quality of life of two people are not necessarily higher than those of one person.

It’s not that there is nothing without marriage. I still have friends and relatives. I can still travel, buy what I want, and eat the food I want. At the same time, I have lost a lot of money. Some frictions and trivial matters in the process of family getting along.

So, personally speaking, getting married and having children is a major event in life, but the most important thing is: whom to marry, what kind of marriage you want, whether to have children, how many children to have, and the choice of marriage and childbirth. It will have a major impact on life. Therefore, the question of marriage and childbearing is essentially a multiple-choice question in life.

Before entering marriage and having children, mature people will first solve an important proposition: "What kind of life do I want?" Simple or rich, career first or family first, or career and family? Equal emphasis? Do you pursue freedom and unrestrained enjoyment, or are you willing to give up part of your freedom and enjoyment for a happy family? The answer determines action, and action determines life satisfaction and happiness. Therefore, the vast majority of people still regard getting married, having children, and a happy family as important parts of a happy life, and they go about getting married and having children step by step. It's all understandable, after all, everyone has their own way of doing things.