In the process of family education, fathers and mothers cooperate effectively, such as finding fathers in games, finding mothers in eating, etc., so that children can pull their fathers into parent-child entertainment and get used to their fathers' company.
You can make a small task to complete with your father, so that you can play with your children through games and participate with them. This is a good suggestion. Move with your father and play games, so that the parent-child relationship will be close.
second. Mom should let go and let dad do more things to accompany the children. When dad is around, mom tries to quit and let dad spend more time with him. Mom should also encourage dad more. Mom should praise more when dad behaves well. For example, "The baby listens to you very much and likes to play with you".
In addition, mothers should say more nice things about their fathers in front of their children. For example, "This toy you like is specially bought for you by your father". "Is this cake delicious? Dad bought it. Should I thank Dad? " Encourage children to go to their fathers more often. For example, in my family, the TV is always turned on by my father. I told my children that I wouldn't turn on the TV, so that the baby would look for his father as soon as he thought of watching TV. Of course, watching TV should control the time, and I will be the villain who turns off the TV. Also, the picture books about dad are all read by dad, so I said I can't read them, and the baby only goes to dad to read them. In short, create more opportunities for the baby to find his father.
Let the father take the children out to participate in sports activities, work together, run and jump, have fun with the children, and be crazy together, so that the father and children will love each other.
This requires mothers to create a free and relaxed space for their children, so that they can get along well with their fathers. Usually, mothers need to encourage their fathers to participate in the parenting process and encourage and praise their enthusiasm. Only when mothers and fathers work together can we build a harmonious and loving parent-child atmosphere.
And encourage children to get closer to their babies, such as asking their father to read picture books to their children, asking their father to bathe their children, and asking their father to take their children out to play more. All these measures are helpful to close the parent-child relationship. When children grow up, it is a good way to deepen the relationship between father and children to ask their father to take them to and from school, to help their children with their homework, and to attend their parents' meetings.