Personality traits of type 9 personality: happy and flexible
Representative: Hong Qigong, who knows how to cooperate best
7 characters, namely: music, strong appeal
Dilemma:
1,7 Childhood is full of wonderful memories.
2, they bask in the sun on the beach and enjoy life.
3, they are positive and optimistic, full of curiosity about the world and hope for the future.
, 4,7 showed no anxiety. They love teenagers and hope their children will never grow up.
second, the main characteristics of the personality of people who are in the seventh place:
1, need to maintain a high degree of excitement. While participating in various activities, I am interested in many things. I want to keep my emotional peak.
2, keep a variety of choices as a tool to avoid the commitment of a single task and treat this problem.
3, have a happy mental activity, for example, planning and thinking, instead of deep contact.
4, avoid direct conflict with people.
5, according to the analysis of the interconnected information system, this concern may lead to reasons to avoid difficulties or limited tasks, and never find unusual connections and similarities that are irrelevant or seemingly contradictory.
6, in a sense, on the 7th, they didn't live in real emotional life, because their hearts were always full of all kinds of imaginary emotional relationships.
Suitable for the environment:
Who can be an editor, writer or storyteller with characters 1 and 7? They are often theorists of a new model. They are planners, organizers and creative collectors. They are looking for a natural way to make themselves emotional and positive.
2, they are always young, and they often visit fitness centers and health food stores to keep themselves healthy and energetic. Their images will appear in the health care magazine. They are idealists, futurists and world-class travelers. "I can't stay here today, I have a plane to catch." They always say that. Their food and wine lovers. In universities, they are leaders and promoters of interdisciplinary research.
4, not suitable for the environment:
Usually, we don't see the official figures in our daily work, but on the 7th, because this work is not adventurous. Lab technicians, accountants and other aspects of the work, can be expected results, will it be the choice of No.7. Besides, they don't like being a demanding boss.
The fifth and seventh beneficial practices are as follows:
1 to praise them for always attracting youth and vitality. Make your age and maturity value.
2, learn to make a painful face until you find the problem. Don't always think, "If I need help, I am defective."
3, find his spiritual escape: too many plans, some activities, and choose the future vision. When your thoughts and vitality are running at high speed, you are actually escaping from reality.
4, admit that they like to imagine the painful feeling, rather than accept the real experience.
5, pay attention to illusory happiness and lack of deep commitment, which will make people long for more fun and entertainment.
6, don't blindly pursue superficial fun, but ignore deep experience.
7, don't use false or immature emotional venting instead of deep emotional reaction. Notice that he is always afraid of the depth of commitment.
8, don't always feel that you deserve special treatment.
9, found the real scope of responsibility, which is often better than the seventh hope.
1, when the internal paranoia, adhere to the simple.
11, find others' criticism and self-evaluation, and learn how to correctly evaluate your own differences. It is pointed out that his self-worth has also been questioned, and he will be afraid and eager to get back on his feet and regain his outstanding hand.
12. Good self-feeling has been questioned. Although we are very angry, we must learn to control our emotions and continue to finish the work. Emotional problems, not polarized views on love, or that the other side is completely wrong, or that the other side is all rights. If things look bad, and learn to accept reality instead of thinking.
13. Admit what you like to beautify, like to make things more interesting, and always imagine something better than it.
14. Admit that you like his fictional story, so as to avoid painful injury. The relationship between this delightful story and the fact is minimal. On the 7th, the emotional distress of the spirit is compared, so pay attention to the spirit on the screen, thus preventing a real painful experience.
15, hide in your own fantasies and false emotions, and realize your favorite escapism. Learn to live in the real world instead of running away.
16, give up the choice of implementation. Don't be afraid of losing your realistic choice.
No.6, No.7, practices to be avoided:
1, tired psychotherapy, telling doctors to be attentive, giving small gifts, and bringing his attention and interesting spiritual pursuit.
2, feel superior. It is absurd to despise a gentle psychiatrist on the other hand. Look down on the lives of ordinary people.
3 In my mind, I associate with many other situations, and in the face of difficulties, I lost my power.
4, I hope to speed up my activities when I solve the commitment problem. Feel anxious about the loss of other options.
5, tired of commitment. "I want to go back to my other options."
6, care about your position. "Where am I standing? Where is my position? What do other people think of me? "
7, don't want to lead, and don't want to be led. I want equal rights to avoid their orders.
8, the existing problems are better, you should leave the psychotherapy. Anxious to return to a healthy state.
9, like change, like existing problems to give higher meaning.
1, false memory, negative experience in the past.
11, teasing questions, expressing their anger. It's ridiculous to think that the problems encountered. Attention to others is ordinary and ridiculous.