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My mother asked me to help the family one last time because my younger brother was getting married and I was already divorced. What should I do if I couldn't help?

01 After hanging up the phone with her mother, Xiao He could no longer hold back the huge grief, water gushed out, and she burst into tears instantly.

Her mother called her and asked her for money. Listening to her embarrassed tone, her mother said a little embarrassedly, "Daughter, Mom knows you are in trouble, but she really can't think of a way. Your brother is getting married, and the bride's family must buy a house.

Just help the family one last time." After her mother finished speaking, there was a long silence on the phone's receiver, and then several uneasy coughs from her mother came from the receiver. Xiaohe finally came to her senses and hesitated for a long time.

I decided to tell my mother the truth, "Mom, I'm divorced."

Xiao He heard an exclamation from the other side, followed by a long sigh of disappointment. After confirming that Xiao He was telling the truth, her mother comforted her with a few words and hung up the phone.

Xiaohe could feel her mother's deep disappointment. She had never let her mother down since she was a child. Even in the more than a year since her marriage, all her mother's requests for her had been met. However, this time she let her mother down.

disappointed.

It was Xiao He who initiated the divorce. Although she knew that she might never find such a good husband again after the divorce, she was still determined to divorce.

02 Unlike other divorces, Xiaohe's husband treats her very well and has no affair. Moreover, Xiaohe also loves her husband very much. What used to be an enviable marriage has now been ended by Xiaohe herself. She herself does not know the current situation.

Who is to blame for this ending?

Xiaohe and her husband met while working, and they had a good relationship. The only thing that made Xiaohe feel a little uneasy was that her husband's family conditions were not very good, which was somewhat different from the standards her parents had set for her before.

Fortunately, when her husband's family went to propose marriage, they had no objection to the bride price proposed by Xiao He's family. Later, Xiao He found out that before coming to their house, her husband had already told her parents-in-law that no matter what Xiao He's family asked for,

He had to agree because he only wanted Xiao He.

Xiaohe's parents were also a little surprised by this, but they soon felt that Xiaohe had told them that her husband's family's conditions were average just to save them from asking for betrothal gifts.

In fact, Xiaohe's mother-in-law's family is still very rich.

Now that he had this idea, the responsibility of subsidizing his parents' family fell on Xiao He's shoulders.

Everything in her mother's family is not big or small. As long as there is a place to spend money, her mother will call Xiao He as soon as possible.

At first, Xiao He still had some wedding gifts that she could secretly subsidize her parents' family, but the more she subsidized her parents' family, the more they thought Xiao He's mother-in-law's family was rich. When the gifts were finally spent, she had to tell her husband the truth.

What touched her was that her husband did not blame her, but said that since we are married, your family's affairs are my business. If we don't have money, we can make more money, but if there is something at home, we must help.

In this way, Xiaohe and her husband jumped into the "bottomless pit" of subsidizing their parents' family without hesitation.

03 However, Xiao He knew that her husband did not have much money, so the reason why he willingly helped his mother's family was entirely because he loved her.

As a result, my husband worked an extra job, but the income from his part-time job was still far from enough to meet the greedy needs of his mother's family.

Gradually, the husband also felt that something was wrong. He smiled bitterly and said to Xiao He, "This is not a subsidy for your mother's family, it is a support." Xiao He was in the wrong, so what could he say?

Fortunately for her, her husband only expressed dissatisfaction, but actually supported her as before.

No matter what her parents' needs were, they would try their best to support her, so that their own life was so tight that they didn't even dare to have children.

People often say that marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families.

Xiaohe's endless subsidies to her parents' family finally aroused dissatisfaction from her parents-in-law, who scolded her husband in front of Xiaohe and said some unpleasant words.

Looking at her haggard husband, Xiao He felt particularly uncomfortable. He worked hard, loved her wholeheartedly, and helped her take care of her mother's family without any regrets, but he had to suffer on her behalf.

She finally couldn't bear it anymore and called her mother to tell her that if there was no big deal in the future, she should stop calling to ask for money, otherwise her family would be gone.

04 Maybe it was her mother’s conscience, or maybe her tone was unquestionable. In short, since then, the frequency of her family calling her to ask for money has obviously become less frequent, and every time her mother will say with some embarrassment, “This is the last time.

"However, even though the frequency is less and the tone is much more polite, the money should still be needed.

Sometimes at night, Xiao He looks at her sleeping husband and feels mixed emotions in her heart. The husband who used to make fun of her every night is now overworked and falls asleep as soon as his head hits the pillow.

And all this was because I was helping my parents' family without any bottom line.

However, as a daughter, if her mother’s family is in need, what will happen if she doesn’t help?

After a long and fierce ideological struggle, Xiao He made a decision that no one expected, she wanted a divorce.

This will not only free your husband, but also free yourself.