Son: I don't know why I am crying. I just can't help crying (sitting up while crying)
Me: Do you remember anything sad?
Son: No, I didn't think of anything sad.
Me: Are you sad because your mother criticized you today (I seriously pointed out many mistakes when I was studying musical instruments and writing during the day, which I think is the reason)
Son: No (I can't stop crying)
Me: Then think of something happy and stop crying, or your eyes will be swollen tomorrow.
Son: I can't think of anything happy (keep crying)
Me: Then mom will hug you and stop crying, okay?
I hugged him, lay down and told him some jokes, and my son calmed down a little. My son rubbed his eyes, as if remembering something, and said to me sadly, Mom, I know why I cried.
Me: Why?
Son: I think of those happy times before. I feel very sad. I want to cry! (crying again)
At this moment, it suddenly dawned on me. The night before yesterday, my son browsed the photos in my mobile phone, which are all good records of our going out to play. He always said he wanted to experience it again. I said I would go again when I was free. Before going to bed, he also asked me about it. When have we been to the grassland before? I was reading a book, so I casually replied, I don't remember, so he stopped talking. I had no idea how delicate his feelings were. All I thought was that these beautiful memories could not be repeated, so I burst into tears sadly.
I comforted him that the past was wonderful, but the future was more worth looking forward to. We can go to the ski resort again. In this vast world, we have never experienced so many beautiful scenery and delicious food. My mother is looking forward to seeing beautiful scenery and eating delicious food with you in the future.
At this time, the child's father also heard the voice and asked. I explained that the child was a little sad in spring and would get hurt in autumn.
At this time, my son said something that made my father and I laugh: I think my childhood is really beautiful, and I miss my childhood so much! ! !
I smiled and said: Oh, your childhood is still very long, and there are more beautiful things happening!
Son: But when I think of those wonderful memories, I feel very sad.
Me: Are you sad because you think it's over and it won't happen again?
The son thought for a moment: Well, yes.
Me: When my mother was at school, she once went to Sichuan to play with some good friends. After the trip, we parted. After coming back, my mother was also very sad and sad for a long time. At that time, my mother thought everyone was so happy to play together. Parting makes people uncomfortable. That's a feeling of reluctance, just like you are now.
Son: Do you want to go back in time?
Speaking of going back in time, I remember that my son has been telling me recently that he wants a time hourglass. Asked why, he said he wanted to go back to the past and live forever. It turns out that he has been thinking so many things in his little brain.
I immediately said I didn't want to go back to the past, and my son asked why?
Me: I like everything now. For example, I like my son very much. He can talk, walk, write, read and help his mother with housework. I don't want to go back to when my son was one year old. At that time, you couldn't walk or talk, and you needed your mother's help. Although you were cute when you were one year old, my mother likes you now, and I am looking forward to your future. Looking forward to your growth, are you more handsome? I expect you to be admitted to a good university, work to make money (his favorite project) ... many, many things, and we should look forward hopefully to those things that have not happened yet. The past remains in photos, and we can take it out from time to time as a memory.
After listening, my son slowly calmed down, but he still said that he missed the good old days. I talked with him a lot of interesting things about my past, and I also talked about my regrets, especially when I thought of my dead father. But I said that it is more important for people to live in the present and look forward to the future. I'm afraid I'm too deep for him to understand. After all, the hero who cries and remembers his childhood is only a 6-year-old child. I said that when my mother finished the exam next week, there would be more time. Let's go out to play together and create more childhood memories. Looking forward to it!
At this time, the child may also be sleepy. Just say, mom, go and read. I fell asleep. Good night Then two minutes later, he really fell asleep. I hope he had a good dream last night. ...