who is Tang Jing?

In the hot drama "My First Half Life", the hostess's best friend, a self-reliant, beautiful and capable goddess in the workplace, is played by Yolanda.

The play was so red and purple, but I couldn't catch it after a while. Why? Luo Zijun, the heroine played by Ma Yili alone, is stupid and works, and I can barely bear it; But when I was spoiled, Luo Zijun finally countered and rolled with Tang Jing's boyfriend's congratulatory letter. It was really a thunderbolt and decisively abandoned the drama.

Yolanda plays the role of China's best friend, who is the fire brigade in Ma Yili, and everything revolves around Luo Zijun. At the beginning of the TV series, Luo Zijun's husband was suspected of cheating. After returning from a business trip, Tang Jing decisively left her boyfriend and food, forgot her friends, and went to make suggestions for her best friend.

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Tang Jing is not only good to her girlfriends, but also asks her boyfriend to be good to her girlfriends.

Originally, Tang Jing's boyfriend, He Han, was ten million boring daughters who despised Luo Zijun's attachment to her husband and bossed her around, but she was assigned by her girlfriend to help Zijun.

Tang Jing asked her boyfriend He Han to help Zijun find a job, help her with vocational training, help her with the divorce lawsuit, and even go to the back to help take care of the children and family. All the difficulties Zijun encountered were solved with the help of He Han. Even after Tang Jing and her boyfriend faced an emotional crisis and left Hong Kong, she did not forget the true nature of her girlfriends and asked her boyfriend to take care of them.

One to two, lonely men and few women, the longer we get along and accompany each other, He Han is always a hero to save the United States, Zijun makes a gorgeous turn, and the two people "yum" unexpectedly look at each other, and they fall in love with each other unconsciously.

At this time, Tang Jing returned, willing to put down her body and live a good life with her boyfriend He Han, but at this time, she has nothing to do.

The worst thing in the play is Tang Jing, who works hard but faces the double betrayal of love and friendship.

but who is to blame?

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Tang Jing didn't grasp the boundary between her best friend and her boyfriend.

Tang Jing, who is so shrewd, is invincible in the workplace, even wary of her boyfriend, except for her innocent little white rabbit girlfriend Luo Zijun, who shares everything with each other and regards herself as her own mother, sheltering her from the wind and rain.

even if she is nice to her best friend, she forgets that her boyfriend is not her father. She shouldn't drag her boyfriend to be nice to her best friend, have a threesome every day, or even let her boyfriend accompany her for herself whenever she has something to do. That's not right, just push her boyfriend into her arms.

Men and women, dry wood and fire, Tang Jing has repeatedly provided opportunities for a single man and woman to get along alone. This is not a good girlfriend. This is simply a good matchmaker. It is even worse to pass a small note to Cui Yingying and Zhang Sheng. The matchmaker tells Zhang Sheng not to move, but Tang Jing can move He Han.

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Actually, Tang Jing in the original work is not like this. This play is just named as Yi Shu's teacher, and it has lost the soul of the original work, except that the title of the play is Yi Shu's.

Yi Shu's Tang Jing is beautiful and provocative, and Luo Zijun, a gentle and virtuous housewife, is a pair of good girlfriends who have loved and killed each other for 31 years. Tang Jing has been fighting for 15 years in the workplace, dare to love and hate, never give up on love and never flinch, and is sincere but well-balanced in friendship.

My best friend Zijun's husband cheated on me. She thought it was Zijun's family affair. She didn't have to expose the affair in a big way. She thought it was best for her best friend, but let Zijun find out and deal with it himself.

Tang Jing in the TV series is just the opposite. She didn't listen to her boyfriend's advice, so she got herself involved and dragged her boyfriend into the water.

In the original work, Tang Jing falls in love by herself, covering it up, and both of them are living together and getting married. As a best friend, Luo Zijun only knows later. Under such circumstances, he can't even swing his hoe, so how can he dig the corner?

But when my best friend needed help, she appeared at the first time, looking for a job for her best friend. She suggested that her best friend go to a ceramic class and give her thirty-four roses as a birthday present. When Zijun was almost "mistress", she directly slapped the bitch who slandered her best friend, which was so cool.

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Tang Jing helped zijun, but she was not used to zijun.

When Zijun wants to pour out her grievances, Tang Jing tells her girlfriend coldly that she only has ten minutes to listen to her complaints every day, so as to prevent Zijun from starting Xianglinsao mode and encourage her to move on and start a new life.

when zijun was angry that he only had a monthly salary of 4,511 yuan, he came to inquire about Tang Jing's income, and was scolded by Tang Jing: "Shit, are you comparing with me?" Who are you and who am I? " And bluntly sneered and attacked: "People like you are not worth helping at all, and they are so old-fashioned."

When Zijun became close to his colleague's married man, he was greedy for that little warmth and thought it was just pure friendship. Tang Jing told her to see the truth without mercy. "Just watch it, he will tell you sooner or later that his wife doesn't know him yet."

zijun shared his thoughts with Tang Jing, and was teased by Tang Jing's vicious tongue. "It's the most rare thing that you don't feel hopeless. I thought you would dig a hole and bury your head in it, and you will be sad every day."

This may seem like ridicule, but it's actually a wake-up call. Tang Jing has been personally reminding her best friend Zijun to strive for a new life and be an independent woman.

Tang Jing and Luo Zijun in the original work finally found their own excellent lovers, and their friendship went from intimacy to friendship between gentlemen, and they were all happy and happy.

Between girlfriends, they help each other, but they are never completely dependent. No matter how good two people are, they have to have their own independent space and never impose interference. Some things, such as men, must never be enjoyed. This is the correct way to open girlfriends' feelings.

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In fact, in our daily life, most of our girlfriends are not as different in personality as Tang Jing and Luo Zijun.

"Birds of a feather flock together." On the contrary, it is precisely because we have the same hobbies and tastes that we will come together to become girlfriends. It is not surprising that we have a crush on the same man or even the same man.

For a man, if he likes you, he is likely to like a girlfriend similar to you. Besides, your best friend has another advantage over you that makes your boyfriend more tempted: freshness. If you keep creating opportunities for them to get along with each other, if one day you are dug up, you really deserve it and deserve it.

When I was in college, I heard that all three girls in the dormitory next door had been in love with the same boy, and the roommate relationship was a mess.

There are only four girls in a dormitory, and the boy's winning rate is too high. What is the reason?

According to the only girl who survived, the first girl always dragged her boyfriend to the roommate's party, and this boy is quite good at interacting with girls. This is not familiar to everyone. It is not a convenient thing to help occasionally. Over time, this will naturally happen.

The feelings between men and their girlfriends are real, and so are their feelings with their girlfriends. We just care about each other. There is no need for our men and girlfriends to love each other. You have to think about it. If they really love each other, there is nothing for us.

It's best for girlfriends and boyfriends to be as light as water, so don't be too close. If you are alone, something will happen if you are close. It's best that they don't intersect.

this is not to tell us that we must "prevent fire, theft and girlfriends", but there are some things that we must nip in the bud.

In order to avoid the double loss of love and friendship, we should make sure that there is a clear line between our best friends and our men, and never get into a mess.

We can be girlfriends as warm as Tang Jing, but we must never lose our sense of proportion and boundaries to love and friendship. Anyway, remember to leave an acre of land for ourselves and pay attention to our independent space. That is hello, I am good, and everyone is good.

~ the end ~

No matter what kind of heroine aura the screenwriter gave Luo Zijun, no matter how inappropriate Tang Jing and He Han turned out to be, no matter how reasonable and reasonable Luo Zijun and He Han got together, I still think Luo Zijun is not brave. There are many good men in the world. Why not be tempted by the man who is your best friend and not mix with the man who is your best friend? This is the most important rule for girlfriends.

Obviously, Luo Zijun gave up friendship for love, and all kinds of difficulties were just pulling a fig leaf for her heart. In the end, she made the best choice for herself. The truth is ugly, maybe this is human nature!