in the long life, love slowly faded. Now life is a class, and there is no feeling of love. Just in the stage of desalination, I know that there are greeting calls every day. There is no attachment to love, it is the concern of family.

We must change the feeling of love in our life. What I want to change most is that our life should be nourished by love. I'm trying to make my life better. It is also to find your own happy life. Renmiao 1 Thank you for your support.

what I want to change most is myself.

nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory, so everything can't be satisfactory. Take myself for example, I just changed my job last year, and I was sent to the frontier before I reported to my new unit. I said that I would train new people, and then I stayed in the frontier for more than a year, but no one cared. Even my salary and other basic guarantees for last year were not implemented. This "exercise" is cruel enough!

what should I do if Fang Jin is a knife and I am a fish? Several times, I impulsively wanted to go directly to the leader, but I refrained from going, because going might not solve the problem. Since the leadership has arranged this, it must have been pondered several times, and the situation will only get worse. Therefore, now we can only try our best to change ourselves, try our best to adapt ourselves to the environment, and at the same time take the opportunity to constantly improve and improve ourselves. I believe that a person whose heart and ability are strong enough to overcome himself will definitely not be bad in the end!

What I want to do most at this stage is to lighten my life. Subtraction of life does not mean that you don't work hard or you are decadent. This subtraction is to sort out what you really want. What is what you can want? What is necessary? What is not necessary? If you want it, you will increase your burden. This may be the idea of breaking up and minimalism that I have often heard recently. I don't think because of fashion, but when I am forty years old, I begin to think unconsciously.

when I was at school, I took the university exam, took the postgraduate exam, and even wanted to take the doctoral exam. I didn't know if it was suitable for me, but I felt that my doctoral degree had reached its peak. After graduation, looking for a job, all kinds of written interviews. After going to work, I am not satisfied with the written interview again and change jobs. Struggle until you are 3, 45 years old. Mixed with buying a house, buying a car and changing houses. In a blink of an eye, children have also entered the critical period of learning. Various interest classes and remedial classes have been busy again, and they have been busy for a long time. I found that children also have such hobbies, which are not developing according to my expectations.

Looking back on the road ahead, if you give up earlier, maybe the good life will come more naturally.

Finally, we found that what we need so many clothes and shoes for is enough to wear. The utilization rate of many things is not high, and even many of them have been bought and hardly used, but we have paid a heavy price for it. Constant overtime and part-time jobs have made us lose a lot of happiness.

When I have friends around me, I like to buy from buy buy, and I don't even use a third of them. She will say that we will come too, and when I have no money, I can feel anxious and depressed. Why bother?

The reason why we are stressed is that we ask for too many things that are beyond our ability. These things may bring temporary pleasure, but they are also our own burdens. Those unnecessary burdens will really make people exhausted and lose more happiness.

So, let's not just go all the way, but also stop and think from time to time, pack our bags and make ourselves go into battle lightly.

First of all, everyone should constantly recharge their batteries and live to learn. If I am my age, I think I will choose to learn what I like.

Pay attention to thrift in life, do not pursue famous brands and fashions, but only require simplicity, propriety and generosity; Do not pursue high-priced food, just ask for health and appropriateness.

As for children, I don't force the child to be what I want her to be, but only ask her to have ideals, work hard and gain something.

Don't care about the gains and losses in your work, just try to do your own job, look down on your status and honor, and don't be bound by foreign things.

Be good to your parents and don't let yourself regret it one day.

In short, in the second half of my life, it is my greatest pursuit to make myself happy and relaxed every day, regardless of poverty or wealth.

What I want to change most about my current life state and stage is my current circle.

The cross-flow of materialistic desires has led many people to look only at money and blindly pursue it. In the previous years, my industry had a good time. Many people earned a lot of money that I personally thought was "dirty". With more money, they felt powerful and began to form their own influence circles. They tried their best to make friends with rich and powerful people. Such circles only flatter each other and make use of each other. Ordinary people in such circles will only be mean to themselves and disgust others.

I hope my circle is not too big, just clean. Everyone in the circle is equal, there is no high or low, no grievances, no comparison, no jealousy, learning from each other together, and making progress together.

What I want to change most are big talk, empty talk, lies, lies, ... these irresponsible and boastful empty guns that are verbally angry. The reasons for being annoying are: virtual words that are not in line with reality, have no practical significance and value, are not only untrue but also deceptive, can deceive people who don't know the truth, and have some public opinion positions. In the drum, people follow suit, confuse the false with the true, and form a certain public opinion market? ; Its deception, put on a legal coat, is full of words and hype. Without enough experience, it is difficult for people who don't know the truth to see through and expose its details. Listen to what he says, observe what he does, and examine him in practice. Practice is the only criterion for testing truth. Discuss. Thank you.

The most terrible thing is that many people show a greasy state of no sense of responsibility, ignorance and complacency, and stubborn disregard for the interests of others.

I remember talking to my cousin once. He talked about the current air pollution, and his tone was anxious. When his acquaintances standing by heard it, they immediately sneered and said, "You should be the director of environmental protection". There is no * * * sound on the topic of environmental protection in the tone, so I rode a motorcycle and left with a deep sneer at my cousin.

It's unusual

A girl is on the east-west road, but she stops in the north-south direction. The long car blocked a third of the road, and she was in the car, as cool as a cucumber, riding a torrent around this stubborn reef for a long time, forming an even a bit evil urban landscape.

In the evening, at the intersection, the red light was on, and several migrant workers rode by at a high speed, raising sweat and clothes high into the sky. The most disgusting thing was that one of the men, Liao Liang, shouted "Go, Go, Go" like a leader. Instead of passing by, they cut the dusk of the city with sharp speed, posture and sound.

on the way, I helped lift the electric car full of vegetables. The woman on the bike told me that her home was in a village, and the ethnic rape in the village supplied almost the whole market. Then she kept her voice to a minimum and told me quietly, secretly, but clearly: Don't buy it, take medicine every day. I immediately remembered the solemn voice of a woman selling vegetables when I bought rapeseed a few days ago: We will never use pesticides when the harvest is near.

The incessant occurrence of fatal diseases makes people anxious, but it is often the emergence of a large number of counterfeit drugs or toxic foods that can be discovered and stopped after causing harm. Although there are reasonable explanations, such as insufficient manpower and backward technology, the mentality and posture of the reef girl and those migrant workers who ride bicycles will definitely not be their own unique mentality and posture.

The harm is already great, the posture is already stubborn, and the efforts to change can no longer be delayed.

we hope that the relevant institutions will work harder, and we hope that the technology will be more advanced.

we also know that the goal will not be achieved instantly.

But we also have firm confidence. After all, sunshine and wind can disperse the smog. After all, the woman who fell down clearly told me their secret of fighting drugs.

We are anxious, and the anxiety of millions of people is the soil for the birth of a new state.

Let's accept the sincere voice of the fallen woman and raise our understanding and confidence in the sky.

What I want to change most about my current life is my thinking. I often get stuck in my head because of something unnecessary and meaningless, and then I can't jump out and torture myself. I especially hope to change this.

For example, when I see some bad guys and things, some campus bullying, or cyber violence, I always substitute myself into the hearts of these abusers, imagining their dark psychology at that moment and their psychological logic that they are not sorry. At this time, I find that they cannot be changed, because after substituting into their inner world, I find that no matter how accused they are, they can find reasons to excuse themselves and cannot repent.

in such repeated substitution, I always suffer from those people I substitute in my heart. I always try to refute them after substitution, and finally find it impossible. The more impossible it is, the more tortured I am in my heart and fall into it again and again. I don't know if this is a little depressed, and I really want to get rid of it.

Not long ago, I read a book called Fang Siqi's First Love Paradise, and I tried to put myself into the inner world of that abnormal teacher, imagining how he had no pity for the children he hurt, and how shameless he was to lay hands on other girls while he had a daughter, imagining his logical thinking and falling into this pain again.

I still haven't found a particularly good way to get rid of this mode of thinking. I really hope that a wise man can solve the puzzle for me in one sentence and kill these demons who broke into my mind.