Introduction: The last time I wished I was "rich and powerful", or in the dead of winter, I saw a group of people bullying a handsome little brother who sold baked sweet potatoes:

If I was powerful, I would immediately show my identity and scare away those vicious people;

If you have money, you can help that little brother to open a small store with all kinds of certificates, so that his baked sweet potatoes can warm people who are catching up at night.

Sean Xiao, an artist who has been ripped upside down by cyber violence, can't get anything black. People who like him naturally wish him a happy birthday and are forced to apologize. He chose Dan Xin, so it's his self-restraint. At the moment, I just want to hope again.

In fact, our life is just like a limited cafeteria. At the beginning, we just want to stroll around, see and eat as much as possible in a limited time. When we leave, we not only eat as much as we like, but also open up new likes that we haven't eaten before. We are happy and satisfied, and have no regrets.

the great thing about the cafeteria is that everyone's preferences will be taken care of.

Everything in the world is neutral. From birth to death, fame, wealth and affection are just seeking the "happiness" behind these things. Everything in the world is neutral and meaningless. It is everyone who gives meaning to neutral existence, defines people, things and things in the world, makes judgments, has likes and dislikes, has joys and sorrows, and then takes different actions, thus forming different situations for everyone.

since what we think is not what we think, why don't we think something good? -Because the Buddha said: All phases are illusory.

In this cafeteria, the same is true. Every food is neutral, because there is no food in this cafeteria that can be labeled as "loved by seven billion people on the earth" or "hated by the existence of the whole universe" without being refuted by people.

no food can please everyone or make everyone sick. Therefore, everyone has the opportunity to take what they love.

the same food has different likes and dislikes for different people.

So

Some people will go crazy eating stinky tofu, and some people can't wait to make a detour when they see it;

Some people simply can't accept all kinds of raw fish or meat, and some people can't move their love steps when they see raw fish or top-grade raw beef.

the same food, to the same person, will also change its likes and dislikes due to changes in circumstances and emotions.

So

This man loves lobster crazily today, and suddenly announced tomorrow that he would put down his butcher's knife and feel at ease.

The man would have been disgusted by the smell of mutton soup, but he was slowly influenced by his lover's crazy love for it, and he would queue up with him in the morning just to drink that bowl of hot and delicious mutton soup with his lover.

So what we need to do in a limited cafeteria is as simple as:

If what we have eaten is sure to be delicious, just eat less first;

If you haven't eaten, give yourself a chance to try. If it's delicious, eat less. If it's not delicious, don't stop for a moment, turn around and leave. (If you don't say it's delicious, you should eat more. I suggest eating less because you have to leave room. There will always be delicious food in the future. If you eat too much at a time, there will be no room for your stomach in the future.)

The restaurant is huge, dazzling and colorful, so there may be some delicious food that you haven't tried before at the end of this buffet, but if you are here before, make sure that you have eaten your favorite food every minute.

However, while eating and walking, many people forget that they are only in a cafeteria where all tastes are allowed, and begin to spend a lot of time criticizing, criticizing and voicing about things they don't like, which not only makes them angry, but also delays eating more delicious food before the end of their buffet, which may affect others' eating mood, and may even escalate to a more extreme level, such as the theory of non-restaurant service, forcing the other party to treat themselves as just not.

As a result, people have all kinds of contradictions, all kinds of conflicts, and it's noisy. You can sing and I'll come on stage. Until the restaurant manager said, "Sorry, everyone, time is up. Please leave the restaurant." At the moment when he was ordered to leave, he obviously had time to taste whether the legendary poisonous puffer fish was really fat, but he insisted on pointing at a plate of pine mushrooms in an ugly posture and forcing the person who wanted to eat it to dump it, making mistakes by others, leaving regrets empty and leaving sadly.

There are so many artists in the entertainment circle, which is the same as the buffet just mentioned. We can never find an artist, whether Chinese or foreign, who can be labeled as "an artist hated by the whole world" or "an artist liked by the whole world".

the entertainment circle, as its name implies, is for entertainment and fun.

When we meet artists we like, we should allow ourselves to like them and others not to like them.

when we meet artists we don't like, we should allow ourselves to dislike them and others to like them.

Because creation is "without good or evil" and there is no binary opposition, all laws can be created. (when is self-nature, this is self-purification; When you are self-nature, you can give birth to all kinds of laws. -Sixth ancestor Huineng)

For people who like Sean Xiao, on his birthday, send a Weibo and say "Happy Birthday". It's as usual as if Zhang San likes Li Si and Wang Wu doesn't like Li Si in the company.

Li Si's birthday

Zhang San has the absolute freedom to "send a circle of friends and say: Happy birthday, Li Si";

Wang Wu, on the other hand, has the supreme right to dislike Li Si.

So, Zhang San continues to like Li Si, and Wang Wu continues to dislike Li Si, so it's good to get along with each other.

and

the world has a beautiful intersection because of the similarity of each individual, which leads to bosom friends; So there are superstars, fan groups and so on, and everyone gets together to have fun.

The world is bright, ever-changing, colorful and gorgeous because of the great difference of each individual, so there are so many other different and beautiful artists that the entertainment circle can entertain more people with different preferences.

We just need to continue to like ourselves, and at the same time be grateful for the colorful world brought by those differences.

If the world is full of light, light will cease to exist;

If the whole world likes the same person, wears the same clothes, sings the same song and eats the same food ..... how can we be so infatuated with

people, time, value and gain?

In the hearts of people who like Sean Xiao, Sean Xiao is good in everything, beautiful in Zhou Zheng, handsome and tall, with a beautiful smile that can melt the world, bursting with acting skills, singing well, dancing well now, and being decent, clean and pure, cultured and polite. There is no star shelf ...

An inexplicable event that has nothing to do with him (many people become his fans and actually find all his beauty in the so-called negative events) pushes him to the forefront of the entertainment circle, but in any case, people who like him always like him, and they will not go to have it both ways because of these things.

Is it wrong to like Sean Xiao? Of course not.

If you like Sean Xiao, will you dislike it because there are so-called negative news? Of course not.

Don't say that Sean Xiao, an artist who can't get rid of the black stuff like that. Even artists with real black stuff, if they are professional and dedicated enough in their own fields, there must still be people who like it as always.

It's as if Shen Shaohua would firmly say, "I don't care if he is a man with a whip, I only know that he is me, my wife, my husband and my wife." So simple.

It seems that Tai Sen fans say, "Tai Sen made a mistake, but we still like to watch him fight." Then it's natural.

love is as simple as that, and it doesn't accept refutation. Love is just a very personal thing, and I love it wholeheartedly.

love until you don't. Others are not reasons not to love.

Even if he is merciful and compassionate like the Buddha, there is still a King Goliath who wants to dismember him step by step.

Even if the Bodhisattva has a heart like Mother Teresa, some people insult her by spitting.

On the other hand,

Even war maniacs like Hitler and his followers are fanatical and loyal, and no one can change them;

Even if he is as crazy as Trump, people who love him still love him no matter what the world says.

In fact, everyone can ask themselves, aren't we willing to make all our changes? Those mothers say, teachers say, experts say ... don't we have to become our "self-talk" before we accept it?

No one can be our teacher and forcibly change our beliefs, likes and dislikes. Only our own conscience can change us. -Wang Yangming said this, not me. Commander Wang's original words are: all saints are shadows, and conscience is my teacher.

There are so many interesting things in the world waiting for us to explore and experience. Why should we spend time and energy on an impossible task: "changing others"?

Don't listen, don't look, don't say, don't pay attention to those we don't love, and every minute will not be left to those who don't like it. Not for anything else, just for, every minute of your life, happiness and joy. This is the unity of knowledge and action.

I wish everyone in the world can love what they love wholeheartedly, and the pace of love is a little faster than that of death, thus creating the illusion of

eternity,

seas run dry and rocks crumble.

I say we should stick to beauty, because there is no standard for beauty. People who love Xi Shi can't understand what love without salt, and those who love without salt can't see the beauty of Xi Shi. So I simply want to say what I think is beautiful.

Who knows, maybe I won't like Sean Xiao tomorrow, but at this moment, I like him and think he is particularly beautiful, so I will definitely like him until I don't like him.

actually, whether you think he is beautiful or ugly, that feeling is generally the same, and there is no difference.

I didn't speak out. However, liking a person based on personal preference has nothing to do with morality; It has nothing to do with morality.

Finally, I still hope that I can be such a "big red and purple, rich and powerful" existence, and then say:

Sean Xiao

Happy birthday!