1. It is easy to have great differences in thought.

It is said that three years old is a generation gap, even among peers, it may not be possible to understand what each other is thinking. When the age gap is large, the differences between two people's outlook on life, values and world outlook will become larger and larger. In addition, women's psychological age is always more mature than that of men. If women are older, their ideas will be more stable and mature than men.

Young men are more active and bold, while older women pay attention to stability and security. A radical, a conservative, the dispute between the two factions, there will certainly be incompatible.

The contradiction is in this irreconcilable different idea, getting bigger and bigger, and will eventually move towards separation! In this case, it is difficult to bear good results in the love between brothers and sisters!

Men are not in a hurry to get married, but women are more anxious.

For a woman who is in love with her brother and sister, time is the most precious thing. A woman may be thirty years old soon, so she always wants to marry a man and start her own family. However, men are in their early twenties and have just entered the society. They are not deeply rooted, inexperienced and have a shallow economic foundation. For men, marriage always feels like a relatively distant thing. When women are eager to get married, men are still indifferent to marriage.

For men, marriage means greater responsibility and heavier pressure. Men don't want to get involved in the field of marriage at a young age and linger under the weight of marriage.

Women's time is precious, but the love between brothers and sisters is the most time-consuming, and there is a risk of drawing water with a sieve. How many women can take such a big risk?

3. The resistance will be greater.

In love, if men are older than women, people basically have no opinion. But if women are older than men, and two or three years older than men, then this sister-in-law relationship will face more severe challenges and stronger resistance!

First of all, parents generally can't accept women much older than their sons, and they must resolutely oppose the continued development of this relationship. Secondly, relatives and friends will also point at men and make suggestions!