Li Yuxiu, author of Disciples
? Dynasty and Qing dynasty
disciple rules, sage training.
first filial piety, second sincere letter.
love all people, but be kind.
if you have spare capacity, you will learn literature.
parents should not slow down when they call.
parents tell you not to be lazy.
parents should listen to what they teach.
parents are responsible and must be obedient.
it's warm in winter, but it's warm in summer.
save in the morning, and decide when you are faint.
when you go out, you have to report it, but you have to face it.
if you live a regular life, your career will remain unchanged.
although things are small, don't act rashly.
if you are good at it, you will lose your way.
though things are small, don't hide them.
if you hide something, it hurts your heart.
a close friend is good, but strength is good.
I hate my dear ones, so I want to go.
being hurt makes one's parents worry.
when virtue hurts, it makes parents feel ashamed.
dear me, it's hard to be filial.
hate me and be filial to Fang xian.
I've had it before, but advice makes it worse.
I like my color and my voice.
if you don't give advice, you will be glad to give it back.
cry with me, and there is no complaint.
if a parent is ill, the medicine should be tasted first.
stay in bed day and night.
after three years of mourning, you often grieve.
if you live in a different place, wine and meat will never be available.
the funeral is complete, and the sacrifice is sincere.
if you care about the dead, you will have a life.
brothers are friends and brothers are respectful.
brothers are harmonious, but filial piety is in the middle.
it's no use complaining about light possessions.
words endure, and anger dies.
eat or sit.
the elder comes first, and the younger comes later.
a long call is a substitute call.
if you are not here, you will arrive.
call your elders, not your first names.
don't look at your elders.
Lu Yu is long and quick.
if you are silent for a long time, you will retire.
get off the horse and get off.
it's too late to wait.
old people stand, young people don't sit.
when the elderly sit, life is to sit.
keep your voice down before you respect your elders.
it's low, but it's not appropriate.
progress is inevitable, and retreat is inevitable.
if you ask, don't move.
be a father, just like a father.
be a brother, just like a brother.
get up early and go to bed late at night.
it's easy to get old, so I cherish this moment.
wash and rinse your mouth in the morning.
when you urinate, you need to clean your hands.
the crown must be straight, and the knot must be tied.
socks and shoes should be cut tightly.
crowned clothes with positioning.
don't mess around and make it dirty.
clothes are expensive and clean, but not expensive.
going up and down is called home.
don't be choosy about your diet.
eat moderately, but don't overdo it.
don't drink alcohol when you are young.
getting drunk is the ugliest thing.
take your time and stand upright.
deep and round, please respect.
don't practice the threshold, don't limp.
don't crouch and shake your moustache.
slowly open the curtain, without sound.
turn wide and don't touch the edges.
hold a virtual device, such as holding a profit.
enter the virtual room, if there is someone.
don't be busy, it's wrong to be busy.
don't be afraid of difficulties.
never go near a noisy fight.
don't ask anything strange.
I'll get started, and I'll ask who saves it.
I will go to class, and my voice will be heard.
when people ask who they are, they are called by their names.
I and I are not clear.
when using characters, you must be clear.
if you don't ask, it's stealing.
borrow people and return them in time.
it is not difficult to borrow if you are in a hurry.
whatever you say, trust comes first.
deception and falsehood are not ridiculous.
it's better to talk less.
only, don't be clever.
clever words and dirty words.
the market atmosphere, cut it off.
don't speak lightly until you see the truth.
don't pass on what you don't know.
don't make a promise lightly unless it is appropriate.
if you promise lightly, you will make a mistake.
every word is heavy and comfortable.
don't be hasty or vague.
what he says is long, and what he says is short.
never mind your own business.
seeing people is good, that is, Si Qi.
go far vertically, so as to gradually join.
seeing others as evil means introspection.
if there is any, it will be corrected, and no police will be added.
learn only by virtue, only by talent.
not as good as people, be self-disciplined.
if you wear clothes, if you eat.
people are inferior, so don't be unhappy.
if you smell anger, you will be happy.
bad friends come, but good friends do.
I'm afraid of fame, but I'm overjoyed.
forgive others, and gradually get blind.
an unintentional mistake is called a mistake.
there is evil in the heart.
if you can change too much, you will get nothing.
if you cover it up, you will gain an advantage.
everyone must love.
the sky is the same, and the earth is the same.
those who go high have a high name.
people are important, not beautiful.
those who are talented are arrogant.
what people say is not what they say.
Vernacular Interpretation:
Disciples' Rules is a standard of life based on the teachings of Confucius, the most holy teacher.
First of all, in daily life, we should be filial to our parents and love our brothers and sisters. Secondly, we should be careful and keep our word.
When you get along with the public, you should be equal and fraternity, and get close to people with benevolence and learn from them.
If you have spare time and energy after doing it, you should study the Six Arts and other useful knowledge.
when parents call, they should answer in time, and don't take too long to answer.
parents have something to explain, so they should start at once, and they should not delay or refuse to be lazy.
We should listen respectfully when our parents teach us how to behave.
When parents reprimand and admonish them for doing something wrong, they should accept it with an open mind, and don't argue irrationally to make parents angry and sad.
I will warm my father's bed when it is cold in winter, and fan his bed before going to bed in summer.
After getting up in the morning, you should first visit your parents and say hello to them. When you get home in the afternoon, you should tell your parents what happened outside today, so as to reassure the elderly.
When you go out and leave home, you must tell your parents where you want to go. When you get home, you must tell your parents in person to reassure them.
In daily life, you should keep normal and regular, do things in a regular way, and don't change them at will, so as not to worry your parents.
even if it is a small matter, don't be willful and make decisions without telling your parents.
If you act willfully and make mistakes easily, it will be detrimental to your duties as a child.
although the public property is small, you can't keep it for yourself.
If you keep it, you will lose your moral character, and your parents will be very sad when they know it.
parents should try their best to prepare what they like.
What parents hate should be carefully removed.
Take good care of your health, and don't make your body easily hurt and worry your parents.
We should pay attention to our own moral cultivation, and we should not do anything immoral to humiliate our parents.
when parents love us, filial piety is easy.
when our parents don't like us, or the discipline is too strict, we are just as filial, and we can also reflect on ourselves.
when parents are at fault, they should be careful to persuade them to change their ways.
when persuading, you should be sincere and pleasant, and your voice must be soft.
If parents don't listen to persuasion, wait patiently, and then continue to persuade when there is an appropriate opportunity, such as when parents are in a better mood or happy.
If our parents still don't accept it, or even get angry, at this time, although we are so sad that we cry bitterly, we should beg our parents to mend their ways, and even if we are beaten, we will have no regrets, so as not to trap our parents in injustice and make them make mistakes again and again, making a big mistake.
When parents are sick, all children should taste the decoction first.
To take care of sick parents, you should stay in front of the bed day and night, and you should not leave at will.
after the death of parents, during the period of filial piety (three years of ancient ceremony), we should always remember and feel the kindness of parents' education.
You must adjust and change your daily life, and you should abstain from wine and meat.
It's only true filial piety to handle parents' funerals in a mourning manner, not in a hasty manner, nor in a extravagance for the sake of face.
mourning for parents should be done in full accordance with the etiquette, and great sincerity should be expressed when offering sacrifices. Parents who have passed away should be treated with the same filial piety as when they were alive.
brothers and sisters should love their siblings, and sisters should know how to respect them.
Brothers and sisters can live in harmony, and the family is harmonious and happy. Parents are naturally happy, and filial piety is among them.
If we treat property lightly, there will be no resentment between brothers.
Be patient when you speak, and the resentment will disappear naturally.
while eating, while sitting.
the elderly should be allowed to use it first, and the young should follow.
If you hear an elderly person calling, you should help him to call immediately.
If the person who wants to shout is not here, go to the elder immediately and see what's going on.
address elders by their first names.
Be humble and respectful in front of your elders, and don't show your talents.
If you meet an elder on the road, you should greet him quickly and salute him.
If your elders don't talk, stand aside respectfully.
if you meet an elder while riding a horse, you should get off the horse, and if you meet an elder while sitting on the driveway, you should get off.
after the elder leaves, you have to stay in the same place for a while, and you can get on the horse or get on the bus only after the elder has gone a hundred paces.
if the elder is standing, the younger generation can't sit down.
after the elders sit down, you are ordered to sit down, and then you can sit down.
speak in a lower voice in front of your elders.
But it should not be too low. If it is too low to hear clearly, it is also inappropriate.
When you meet your elders, you should walk faster, and when you meet your elders, you must move slowly.
When the elders ask questions, they should stand up and answer them. They should look at the elders with their eyes fixed, not glance left and right.
serve your uncles and other fathers with the same respect as your own father.
Treat cousins with the same respect as your own brother.
get up early in the morning and go to bed late at night. Extended information
Writing background:
The so-called "disciple" is not a general meaning, but a disciple of sages, while "rule" is a combination of "husband" and "see", which means a man's knowledge. "Disciple rules" means to learn from the classics of sages, be disciples of sages and become men of courage. Disciples Rules is its introductory reader.
The book is divided into five parts, specifically listing the rules and regulations that disciples should abide by at home, going out, treating others, receiving things and studying. Later, Jia Cunren adapted it and renamed it Disciples Rules. This book is a necessary reading for enlightening and cultivating integrity, educating children to be far from evil, taking the right path and cultivating a loyal family style.
Li Yuxiu (1647-1729), whose name was Ziqian, took three. A native of Zhouzhuang Village, Longxing Town, Xinjiang County, Shanxi Province, was born in Shunzhi period of Qing Dynasty and died in Yongzheng period at the age of 83. Famous scholar and educator in the early Qing Dynasty. Li Yuxiu's life experience is plain, his temperament is gentle and open-minded, so he lacks legendary stories. According to historical records, when he was young, Li Yuxiu studied under Dang Binghe, a fellow scholar, and studied abroad for nearly twenty years. After failing in the imperial examination, he gave up the road of official advancement, became a scholar all his life, and devoted himself to scholarship.
intensively study The Great Learning and The Doctrine of the Mean, and set up Dunfuzhai to give lectures. There are many people coming to the class, and the door is full of footprints. Wang Huan, the suggestion history of Taiping County, asked him for advice many times, admired his talent and was honored as Master Li.
according to historical records, after Li Yuxiu failed in the imperial examination, he gave up the road of pursuing official career, became a scholar all his life, and devoted himself to studying.
While teaching, Li Yuxiu began to write "Family Instructions for Li Family" and gave the copied books to the students who came to study for free. One day, he received an imperial decree from sourdrang queen, the capital city, only to know that when his second brother left, he told him to be ready to serve the court at any time.
the contents of the imperial decree can only be known to him, and can't be revealed to any family. He had to say goodbye to his parents and take his wife and two very young sons to Shanxi to die.
He studied The Great Learning and The Doctrine of the Mean, and founded Dunfuzhai to give lectures. There are many people coming to the class, and the door is full of footprints. Wang Huan, the suggestion history of Taiping County, asked him for advice many times, admired his talent and was honored as Master Li. I have only been a scholar in my life, and my main activity is teaching.