Today I want to share with you one of my insights: how to get to know a person through their WeChat avatar.

Although the information presented by the WeChat avatar is relatively simple, it is indeed one of the ways to recognize people.

1. Self-portraits & own photos. Generally speaking, people who use their own photos as avatars have a relatively strong self-awareness, relatively clear self-understanding, and are full of confidence in themselves.

Their willingness to expose their personal images on their avatars symbolizes their willingness to express themselves, their willingness to communicate, and their desire to connect with others.

However, there are some more granular insights.

They also use personal photos as avatars, but the photo styles are different and the things they want to express are also different.

People who use selfies or mug shots and don’t mind enlarging their facial features are either more narcissistic (narcissism is a neutral word), or they have a more open mind and don’t care so much about other people’s opinions.

Compared with self-portraits, people who use half-length photos, full-body photos, travel photos, etc. that include facial features but also show other information as their avatars have a gentler, more reserved personality, are less self-centered, and are less concerned about their own image.

People have a more objective understanding, but they also know how to use their strengths and avoid weaknesses, and pay more attention to showing a positive image to others.

They hope to convey information about their inner character to others through body language and other physical features other than the face.

2 Animal & Pet Pictures There are also a group of people who like to use cute pets as their avatars. It is very likely that the pets are their own children.

Most of them are not good at socializing or do not like to socialize. They are passive and likely to be withdrawn. They have a pure side in their hearts and are eager to be praised and praised. They have a low communication posture and are not easy to conflict with others, but it is also difficult to get acquainted with others quickly.

and closeness.

Using animal pictures as avatars is basically out of love for your pets or animals, so simply use pet photos as avatars. On the one hand, you look happy, but on the other hand, you also want to show it to others, hoping that your pet will be loved and recognized by others.

In fact, this is a kind of projection. The deeper idea is that I hope that I will be considered cute, docile, naughty, and cute, but I am also as vulnerable as an animal, needing to be cared for, pampered, and sometimes cannot be completely different from humans.

The loneliness of integration.

3. The cartoon character has not grown up, cannot grow up, or does not want to grow up. He is willing to immerse himself in his own world. He is a homebody. His way of thinking is close to the second dimension. He has strange jokes and jokes that most people do not understand. He makes friends based on his preferences.

You are bold in front of friends and acquaintances, but easily nervous, shy or even withdrawn in front of unfamiliar people, lack of patience, and become hot in three minutes.

Most of them lack deep recognition of their social and professional attributes, and have doubts about their ability to cope with life. They are not very confident people, but at the same time they are fascinated by their cowardice and weakness.

4 The emoji avatars are lively, cheerful, enthusiastic, active, good at communicating and follow the trend, but they have no longevity. The frequency of avatar updates mainly depends on the popularity of new emojis.

Have a good sense of humor, distinctive personality, and are willing to express themselves. They like to make friends and are often familiar with each other. They update their friend circles frequently. They know everyone in major groups. They participate in lively and frequent topic discussions. They are best at private chats.

Fight pictures and tell jokes.

Such people are often big-hearted, as the saying goes, "don't have that much to do", are easy-going and interesting.

But the fly in the ointment is that you may be used to joking, and if you want to talk about serious things, you may not get into the rhythm that quickly, or you may get off track while talking.

After all, the life creed of emoji avatar lovers is probably "If you take it seriously, you will lose." If you don't admit it, you are not objective.

If you are in a bad mood, I suggest you click on a girl or a boy who uses an emoji as their avatar. Maybe it will broaden your mind and create a relationship.

5 Celebrity & Idol Photos In recent years, with the popularity of various imported and domestic husbands, many boys and girls’ WeChat avatars have become their idols.

I remember that day, I counted the WeChat address books of thousands of people. There were about twenty Kong Yoo, a dozen Yang Yang, and a dozen Wang Kai. Forgive my ignorance, and there were some celebrities I didn’t know.

Generally speaking, girls who choose idols and husbands as their avatars are mostly dreamy players, with a weak sense of reality, girlish focus, addictive traits, love of beauty, love of dressing up, and have their own unique interests.

However, generally speaking, they are persistent or even stubborn in character, have a pure straight male physique, have hobbies that they regard as higher than life, and are willing to devote themselves to them. This hobby may also be their own career.

6. Take a photo with your partner, with your children, with your parents, with your best friends, with your buddies, with your pets... No matter who you take the photo with, as long as there are other creatures other than yourself in the avatar, it can be classified as a group photo.

Most of these people lack a sense of security, have average or poor independence (not absolute), value relationships, and rely on others.