As we all know, A-mei, a Miao nationality in Xiangxi, is not only affectionate, but also dare to love and hate. When I was a soft girl, I was poor and lovely; When you are fierce, the wind and fire are also fierce and tough.

Then, love, naturally, has some different flavors from Han people.

Catch up with sideline business

Compared with Han people, Miao people are more open in love and can choose their spouses freely, so this is an excellent opportunity to catch up with sideline business.

Generally speaking, traditional side events are mostly held during Miao New Year's Day, Mountaineering Festival, April 8th, Dragon Boat Festival, Chinese New Year Festival and other large festivals. Young Miao men and women are dressed in costumes, get together and find suitable people, so there are naturally many opportunities.

Since then, influenced by the customs of the Han nationality, the scenic spot has gradually resumed its market in the 1980s and 1990s, becoming a regular activity every month. In the bustling crowd, young men and women sell or buy goods with their own goods, which invisibly gives many opportunities to "strike up a conversation". Between bargaining, it is easy to see whether people are smart or not.

However, finding the right a-mei also needs eyesight, which is called perception.

Yuanyang geometry

In Xiangxi, there will be exquisite Miao Xiu on the coat chest of unmarried Miao family. A-mei is looking forward to catching up with the sideline if she has the heart. When a brother comes to strike up a conversation, she will wear beautiful Miao costumes and often has a lifelike mandarin duck on her chest. Yuanyang is a symbol of love, often in pairs, will not be separated, the meaning of a Yuanyang is obvious-A-mei is single, waiting for his brother to tease.

In addition, unmarried girls will wear a cone-shaped bun on their heads, a bottomless forehead hat, a silver comb or silver flowers, and they can't see bangs. When you look up, you will know the secret.

Miao's brother saw it, and he had his own plans in mind, so he wouldn't rashly provoke another man's cousin.

However, observation must be restrained. A girl's chest is embroidered with mandarin ducks, and a hot-blooded man can't keep staring at other people's breasts. That glance is fleeting, and you have all-knowing skills, so you must show your skills.

In other words, in the 1990s, many Han people went to Xiangxi to play. After listening to the rumors here, they are at a loss and eager to try. It's a pity that people come and go in the market, they are not good at observing, their eyes are dull, and they always aim at the Miao girl's chest. Seeing that single girls is OK, people usually turn around and walk away, ignoring it. But there are also unlucky ones. On the clothes on the Miao girl's chest, I saw two mandarin ducks and stared at them for a long time. Before he recovered, he was caught by his husband and charged with "hooliganism".

Light is sent to the public security department, but heavy is a beating, ate YaBaKui. As we all know, the woman embroidered with two mandarin ducks is married, which once caused many jokes.

Be presumptuous (to women)

The Miao area is quite large, but slightly different. Here, let's talk about the means of Miao men in Hunan and Guizhou.

A-mei is like a star in the sky, full of eyes. Camus's brother took a fancy to it and naturally put it into action.

The so-called hands-on, Miao man has his own set. If they find their favorite A-mei, and they are not married, the men of Miao family will cross the border with three or five brothers. If A-mei is a business, A-mei will directly give her things to the other party, and A-mei will take them away, which shows that this young man is very nice, belongs to A-mei's favorite type and has opportunities for communication. Here, the brothers around us are wingmen and assists, that is, the Eight Immortals cross the ocean. There are also accidents. I am most afraid that my brother has a crush on a sister at the same time. That's another story.

For someone, I prefer another way of "showing love with phenylethylamine", which is particularly romantic. Camus's brother likes A-mei. First, he went over and took out his token of love. If A-mei accepts. Brother can come closer and gently pull a-mei's colored belt with his hand. At this point, A-mei also likes her brother's words, so she stepped on his instep with her toe, which means that "if my brother goes, A-mei will go with her", which means that she is moving.

Of course, some big girls took a fancy to their brother and stepped on it directly. After a long time, they naturally expressed their feelings to each other. This will be a legend in the future. Either love begins, step by step, for example, go to the woman's house to "pick feces for three years" and then marry A-mei and go home; Or find a quiet place where lonely men meet very few women. ...

Express one's love for songs

It is essential for Miao people to be good at singing and dancing and to express their love for songs.

Crowds of Miao young men and women know each other when they are on the scene, so they make an appointment for a place, or pair up openly or individually to express their feelings for this song.

During the day, in the shade of the village, or in the place where the stream is gurgling, Miao brothers get together and play konoha, night flute or lusheng in front of Miao sister's diaojiao building, or directly sing and invite her out to sing a duet. If it is night, you can only sing in the stockade square or the open space next to stockade, so as not to cause confusion. Of course, there are also blocked love. My brother hid in the hill or stream near the girl's stockade, singing his own love songs one by one, expressing his love for the girl and declaring his determination not to give up. ...

The song sung during the day is called "Flying Song". The tune is so loud that girls far away from the stockade can hear it. The song sung at night is called "Lala Song", and the melody is euphemistic, which does not affect the rest of the stockade. When girls hear singing, they will put on beautiful clothes and invite their girlfriends or sisters to sing with the young men who invite them to sing and express their love.

At the end of the song, I naturally agreed to the location of the next tryst, so I came and went and got married. At that time, it was not necessary for the government to register and issue certificates, but only in accordance with the marriage customs of Miao families.

If you talk about an order, you can express your love for songs. Songs can be divided into meeting songs, youth songs, hymns, courtship songs, love songs, parting songs, etc ... If you talk about the rules of songs, it is also very simple. First of all, three or five men and women or even more young people sing together. You ask me and answer me, and you laugh at me. Besides, this is a private tryst. As for what song to sing, whether it is romantic or not can only be known by two parties.

Jiang Kun said to himself.

The majority of Han Chinese men are certainly envious. After the Song Dynasty, there was no connection between the three virtues and the four virtues except that Pan Jinlian left a stick to support the window.

Looking back at today's "blind date", either men and women meet in a hurry to talk about the garage gift money, or seven aunts and eight aunts are drinking and eating in the restaurant.

I never think that love in the scenic spot is our nature, naive and romantic. When someone is in Xiangxi, this situation can be encountered by accident.

I also hope that the pure land in the scenic spot can continue to be so "madly in love" until it lasts forever.