Situation is created by the heart. Whether a person's situation is painful or happy is always subjective. Some people are content with a certain kind of life, and some are not. Therefore, those who can be content with their current situation may as well continue to live like this, and those who can't must try to find another way out. You cannot tell where success will be, nor can you be sure whether you will be happy when you reach a certain point. Some people will never feel satisfied. His happiness is only based on the process of continuous pursuit and striving, so his goals continue to move far away. Such people may have less happiness, but may have greater achievements. Bitterness and happiness are all determined by one's own judgment, which does not necessarily have a direct relationship with the objective environment. Just like a woman who does not like jewelry, even if she is in an environment that attaches great importance to vanity, her self-esteem will not be hurt. A poor scholar with thousands of books does not want to exchange diamonds or stocks with a millionaire. People who are content with pastoral life do not envy any scholar's honorary title or high official position and salary. Your hobbies are your direction, your interests are your capital, and your temperament is your destiny. Everyone has his own ideal paradise and a world of flowers and flowers that he is happy to enjoy. A friend of the elder and younger talked about his relative's great-aunt who had never worn shoes that fit her in her life and often walked around in huge shoes. If her son asks her, she will say: "Big and small shoes are the same price, why not buy the big ones?" Every time I tell this story, some people always burst out laughing. In fact, we will see many such "aunts" in life. A writer without any ideas writes heavy and bitter works; a painter without any content paints huge paintings; a businessman who is often away from home has a very huge home. Many people continue to pursue greatness, but in fact they are just driven by inner greed, just like buying extra-large shoes and forgetting about their own feet. No matter what kind of shoes you buy, the most important thing is that they fit your feet. No matter what you pursue, you must always stop in moderation. Decisions A person's life is always filled with decisions, such as: Which university to study in? Which career to choose? What kind of woman should you marry? ...Wait for the nerve-wracking stuff. The presence or absence of a person's decision-making power can show whether his personality is mature or not. But those who have no independent opinions do not suffer from the pain of choice. Because when he needs to make a decision, he always asks others: "Hey, what do you think we should do?" People who can achieve great things are people who have strong decision-making ability. He knows that the success or failure of a matter all depends on no one who can do it for you, and no one can decide for you. At the moment of decision-making, success or failure is revealed. This is how people live their lives. I often warn myself and persuade my friends with the phrase "This is how people live their lives." These seven words are easy to say and simple to listen to, but they are very profound when you think about them. It makes me brave when I am weak, humble when I am proud, active when I am decadent, happy when I am in pain, and can afford to take up or let go of anything, so I call it a "wake-up call". "Seven-character motto". ——I often think that if there is anything that cannot be resolved or tolerated in the world of labor, sorrow, gratitude and resentment, wouldn’t it disappear in just a few decades? If so, what can't be solved? People spend their whole life thinking about this sentence, if I am a hero, I will create greater achievements; if I am a scholar, I will gain higher knowledge; if I love someone, I will tell her boldly. Because when today passes, it will no longer come; when this life passes, everything will disappear. If a book is not read and a sentence is not spoken, there will be no chance again. This is a precious life, I must grasp it well! Human life is just like this, you can grasp it actively; you can also face it indifferently. If you can't think about it, think about it in order to feel relieved! Think of it when you are feeling down and be grateful! Because no matter what, you are always lucky to have this life, and you can’t live this life in vain. Smiles are like flowers, true love is like flowers, hope is like flowers, and life is like flowers. Everyone has their favorite flowers, and everyone has many reasons to be kind to themselves and condense their lifetime into a lasting fragrance in the river of time. When in full bloom, it attracts all attention with its dazzling brilliance. The flowers are so weak, no matter how beautiful they are, they still cannot withstand the cold rain in the morning and the wind in the evening. Chun Hong hurriedly withered, leaving only full of sadness. Flowers are beautiful warriors. Even though they become greener, fatter, redder and thinner in the wind and rain, they never bow their heads. The same is true for life, like a delicate glass wine glass, which often cannot withstand the impact of natural disasters and man-made disasters, and is shattered into pieces of brilliance. Each piece is a transparent heart. Life is often like an epiphyllum, watered with years of tears and sweat, mixed with hard work, only then can you have a moment to look at the world with a smile. In today's world, there are fewer people who love flowers. When people are running for a living and can't even hold on to their own lives, who will listen to the flowers? However, in this irritable city, please don’t forget that the world is a mirror image. Everything is like a flower, and flowers are like everything. Therefore, Buddha picked up flowers and Kasyapa smiled; this smile is the whole world. Life, life, may be the only factor in the universe that should be worshiped. The gestation, birth and manifestation of life's essence is an extremely exciting process. Life, like music and pictures, secretly carries a destined tone or color. When it encounters the tide, when it hears the urging of the trumpet, it will suddenly perk up, revealing its essential splendor and excitement. Of course, this essence is more likely to be mean, cowardly, and boring; its owner has no choice. It should be admitted that life is hope.

It should be said that despicability and vulgarity should not be prematurely complacent, and should not mistakenly believe that they have successfully eliminated nobility and purity. Pretense cannot last either, because time is rushing like a long river, and despicable people, profiteers and vulgar sticks cannot always wear the crown of educators, poets and warriors. At the end of their unhindered career, their descendants will be left with a lasting sense of humiliation. I worship life. I worship the secret of noble life. I worship the steel fireworks that burst out when this life is born, grows, fights, becomes disabled, and sacrifices. I admire the freedom of a living life floating in mountains, rivers, oceans and continents. Yes, life is hope. It floats freely and freely, which makes human beings always have a bloodline that is not willing to fail and pursues its own golden pasture with no regrets. Every pond has the breath of the ocean. Every stone has the breath of the ocean. , all have the shadow of the desert. That's why the poet said: A clover, plus my imagination, is a vast grassland. Walking on the fields in the autumn moon, I remembered a poet's question to the old Tolstoy: Do all / mature / must / bow their heads? That’s right, every step we take will become a thing of the past, whether they are happy encounters or painful partings, but please believe that whether they are eager expectations or affectionate remembrances, every song we have ever sung will become a thing of the past. A song will never disappear in an instant, as Rosa Luxemburg said: "No matter where I go, as long as I live, the beauty of the sky, clouds and life will be with me!" A narrow and selfish mind , can become one's own hell, but a broad and cheerful heart can become the paradise of others. There is only one layer between hell and heaven. And all the flames of jealousy always start by burning yourself. An old writer told me: "How long have your feet been crushed? But don't regret it. As long as you step true, everyone's steps will have depth." When you finally win the flowers of success , don’t you miss the intersection of the past? In the luxurious house you rebuilt successfully, don't you miss the wood of the past? Trust It sometimes takes many years to trust someone. Therefore, some people have never really trusted anyone throughout their lives. If you only trust those who can please you, it is meaningless; if you trust everyone you see, then you Just a fool; if you trust someone without hesitation and in a hurry, you may be betrayed by the person you trust so quickly; if you only trust someone out of some superficial need People, then annoying suspicions and betrayals may follow; but if you dare not trust someone who is worthy of your trust, you will never be able to obtain the sweetness of love and the warmth of the world, and your life will be affected by this. And bleak. Trust is a living feeling, trust is also a noble emotion, and trust is a bond that connects people. You have an obligation to trust another person unless you can prove that person is unworthy of your trust; you also have a right to be trusted by another person unless you have been proven unworthy of that person's trust. There are countless beautiful things in this world. We always hope to get too much and have as many things as possible for ourselves. Life is as short as a fleeting moment, and life is drained away inadvertently between possession and loss. If you lose the sun, you still have the shining of stars; if you lose money, you still get friendship; when life leaves you, you still have the kiss of the earth. When you have it, cherish it more; when you lose it, treat it as a test of your true knowledge of life, and as a commitment to the promise of struggle in life. If you have honesty, you give up hypocrisy; if you have fulfillment, you give up boredom; if you have steadiness, you give up impetuousness. Whether it is intentional abandonment or accidental loss, as long as it has been truly owned, at some point, isn't it also a state of generous abandonment? What you lose inadvertently can be gained again. If you lose your love, you can find it in the spring; if you lose your will, you have to sharpen it again in the winter. But you can't pick up laziness after you've thrown it away.

Having too many desires turns into a burden. What can be more fulfilling and satisfying than having an indifferent mind? Choose indifference, and then prepare to walk a mountain road

I really don’t have time for appreciation, buddy, I’m sorry