In 1985, 25-year-old Cheng Fangyuan had a beautiful scenery. In this year, she first won the "Top Ten Golden Songs" award for the song "Childhood", and was also selected as a national first-class actress in the same year, becoming the youngest national first-class actress! Besides the song "Childhood", she has developed very well in her career, and has also brought us classic songs one after another, such as "Ode to a Wanderer", "Sea, Hometown" and "Rivers Flowing Through the Ages".
She thought that after a failed marriage experience, she could meet the right person this time, only to find out after marriage that Wang Gang was completely different from before marriage. At that time, Wang Gang liked to drink and often got drunk. For this reason, Cheng Fangyuan not only refused to sleep in a room with him after marriage, but also decisively refused Wang Gang's request that she have children!
her first marriage came and ended quickly. When Cheng Fangyuan wanted to learn English systematically, she found an English teacher. However, in the process of learning from the teacher, they fell in love with each other. Later, they got married, but when they got married, they found that there was not much * * * in common with each other.
After their divorce, Cheng Fangyuan met Wang Gang again while hosting the program. Two people who speak the same language very much got married after spending some time together. However, after marriage, both of them are busy with their careers, and neither of them has much time to take care of their families. Wang Gang still has great opinions about Cheng Fangyuan's disregard for his family, but Cheng Fangyuan is also quite dissatisfied with Wang Gang's alcoholism.
In fact, we can see from the reasons for Cheng Fangyuan's divorce from Wang Gang that Cheng Fangyuan is really a self-centered person. She may have been influenced by foreign culture since she was a child. She thinks that children are not necessary in her life, and she is more concerned about whether her life is happy or not.
instead of letting a child take charge of his own life. Some people may think that the idea of Cheng Fangyuan is selfish and only considers themselves, but I think everyone has their own attitude and choices about life. Some people like children, while others don't think that having children will bring happiness to themselves, so we should respect everyone's choices.
It may be that she has had two failed marriage experiences before, and she no longer has an urgent desire for marriage. Focusing on her career, she has been working hard to develop her career since her divorce, not only on the stage of CCTV Spring Festival Evening, but also holding her own personal concerts and concerts many times.
Compared with emotional regret, Cheng Fangyuan is more sorry that she didn't give birth to a son when she was young. Since her mother was ill and hospitalized a few years ago, she has been busy in front of her, and she began to feel: "If I had a child, I wouldn't have to work so hard." There is no such thing as children nowadays.
Because she married her first two husbands for the sake of her career, or because she felt that the other husband was not responsible enough, Cheng Fangyuan insisted on not having children, so she had no children in her life. Originally, she didn't care about it. It wasn't until 2121, when her old father was ill and hospitalized, at the age of 61, she took care of him alone and didn't have any helpers to help her. She realized that having no children had become her regret.
Not only has it become an annoyance to Cheng Fangyuan, but it seems to be her heart disease. However, after a long struggle, Cheng Fangyuan gradually became more relaxed. Now that there is no way to change it, let it be. Besides, she is living a good life alone now, and what will happen in the future will be discussed later. As for whether she regrets having no children or daughters, only she knows.