When I first entered this company, I was working for my old house. When I first met him, I was in awe of him within ten minutes.
I don't need a mobile phone, so don't call me after work In a very simple sentence, I smiled at the old room and I was surprised to see him again. The old house is over 50 years old, of medium height, slightly fat, with a man's head cut, dressed simply and neatly, and always calm and calm. I am not a silent person, but I don't talk much. Whatever it is, I can get to the point in a few words.
"No, Lao Zhao installed the mobile phone for me, so I put it in the office." The old house took out the mobile phone that the boss gave him and said simply. In fact, I am one of these people myself, of course, the level is much lower, but I also called him "Oh-Oh" twice to show that I knew.
In my later work, I have to admire him: he can communicate directly with others, whether Italian customers, Japanese customers or even Indian and Bangladeshi customers, without translation.
All machine tools can be operated, and they all have the ability to process workpieces. Anyone who wants to leave temporarily and has something urgent can do it by himself. His tools are well drilled and sharpened, and many old masters have already asked him to help sharpen them. The standard of welding is the first in the company, and no one can compare with him.
The most exaggerated thing is his memory. Although our company's products are few, with only five or six main products, each product has two or three hundred missing parts and more than 500 parts, which add up to thousands of parts. He can know how many parts there are and how many parts have not been found at any time just by memory. This is amazing. We are computers, special software and tables, and we often make mistakes. He never misses them.
Sometimes it's on the form, but I can't find the role. Ask him, and he can tell you where the parts are right away.
This comprehensive quality is simply a god-like existence. No one refused to accept him. Even the boss is three points shorter than him, regardless that he never answers the phone. The old house still doesn't smoke, drink, play games, socialize, gamble and ignore lesbians coming home from work.
I have a distant cousin who is also in our company and came three years earlier than me. Although my old house didn't say a word to her except business, my cousin was still very happy and told me the legendary life of my old house many times:
This old house comes from Hong Kong. After liberation, my father returned to China to participate in construction and was placed in Shenzhen. Later, the old house was the year when the college entrance examination was resumed. A top college entrance examination in Shenzhen majored in Latin and took English and Japanese as elective courses. After graduation, I worked as a Japanese translator. Later, I contracted a factory under the Geological Bureau, and then I came to our company.
The old house has ancestral home in Hong Kong, real estate in Shenzhen and dividends every year. This proper super local tyrant, the combined property of other people in the company may not be as much as his. The old house is very particular about food, only eating farm dishes and drinking mountain spring water.
Every Sunday, he will take his eight-year-old son to Guanyin Mountain early in the morning and go back and forth for more than 30 kilometers, carrying a big pitcher and filling it with mountain spring water to go home. Many people saw it with their own eyes.
I have heard the above not only from my cousin, but also from countless people. In fact, I know two loopholes: one is that it took 78 years to resume the college entrance examination, and his age does not match, and he is still five or six years old. Secondly, although his Japanese is good, it is worse than mine. I studied in Kagoshima for half a year, and the Japanese in my old room obviously failed to meet the translation standards. But I didn't say anything to anyone. It's good to know in your heart, but it's not good to say others.
Such a perfect person was found embezzling public funds two or three years ago, but it was not much, only about 30 thousand yuan. Neither my boss nor I can understand why people like Lao Fang are greedy for such small money.
I talked to him once and asked him to get his money back, and then I resigned. Otherwise, I may call the police. I didn't expect the old house to say: I will resign, but I have no money. Then I left, and then I didn't go to work for two or three days.
I'm afraid the company will sue him? We were speechless, but he didn't have a phone, so he had to go to his house to find him. After I went, I was shocked. My boss and I looked at each other and opened our mouths wide. We couldn't shut them down for a long time.
His home is an old two-story building, which belongs to the Geological Bureau. It's very old and worn out. His family lives on the first floor, and the surrounding area is relatively empty. His family has opened several small dishes. The mother of the old house is seventy or eighty years old and in poor health. She still grows vegetables and picks some herbs for sale every day. The daughter-in-law in the old house is also in poor health. She needs long rest and medicine, doing housework and taking care of children every day. The eldest daughter of the old house belongs to her daughter-in-law's ex-husband and is now in high school. It is estimated that her tuition is relatively high, and the old house is greedy for money. He also has a young son who is in primary school.
The income from the old house is ok. In third-tier cities, the monthly salary is 8,000 yuan, which is almost equivalent to the income of ordinary dual employees. But there are five people in his family, two of whom have to see a doctor for a long time, and the other two are studying. It's really hard to rely on him completely.
Conclusion:
Finally, the old house resigned and the money thing went away. The boss said: Forget it, if you really go to court, don't say that you may not win. Even if he wins, he will be arrested. What about the remaining four people in his family? Forget it. No big deal. Don't see him again.
I said: Yes, if he is really greedy, he is definitely more than greedy. For so many years, I have worked hard and have no credit, so I won't care about him for 30 thousand yuan.
I just find him incomprehensible. With his ability and quality, it is very simple to get more income if he keeps a correct attitude. For example, work overtime for three hours every day until 9 pm-the boss has asked him several times and is willing to pay half the salary, but he doesn't want to.
There are also several times when people need to go abroad on business trips, to Italy, India, Bangladesh, Myanmar and so on. People with high comprehensive quality need to go. No one really wants to, and finally the boss has to go by himself. If he is willing to go, so many subsidies add up to hundreds of thousands.
Speaking of which, his life is quite miserable. Good Hong Kong people will not do this and return to Shenzhen. Shenzhen was fine, too, but he left by himself. Less than three years after he left Shenzhen, Shenzhen began to build in an all-round way. Actually, it's okay here. He contracted a factory and managed to build it, but suddenly he was fired after the reorganization. Well, this is life. Man proposes, God disposes.
Laos has hardly boasted about itself. His words were few, but they were all to the point, and he made things clear in a few words, so everyone listened carefully and was particularly impressed. He didn't deliberately brag about himself. Others said two sentences of their own when they were playing, which were short and without analysis, but countless people helped him complete his brain supplement.
The highest level of lying is: nine truths plus a lie, so that even if others verify that a few words are true, they will believe them all.
If you don't fully explain yourself, let others think for themselves. As long as you think of yourself, it's easy to believe. Even if someone corrects it later, and there is enough evidence, many people only believe what they think, and others will not believe whatever they say.
These human weaknesses have been fully utilized by the old house, but unfortunately he can't break through his own human weaknesses. His family life is so difficult that he should be more active, but he chose to lie flat.
Speaking of "a person who is particularly poor but pretends to be richer than anyone else", Xiao Gan who wears a mink coat in summer is definitely well deserved.
Xiao Gan is my former colleague.
She looks average, her head is average, her figure is average, and her business ability is average, except for one thing:
Pretend.
I don't know if it's because of my inferiority complex when I was a child. When he grows up, Xiao Gan wants to pretend in all aspects.
Let's simply analyze it from four aspects: "basic necessities of life".
In terms of clothes and grooming, Xiao Gan is unambiguous.
What famous brands, fashion brands and luxury brands are on the body.
You can't see clothes with no logo all over them.
International brands LV, Prada, Gucci and Chanel, the bigger the brand structure, the better.
If there is no obvious sign and logo on this dress, it is basically a waste for Xiao Gan.
To tell the truth, working-class me, I don't know the value geometry of these international brands.
But I learned from her that a pair of Valentino's high heels costs four or five thousand.
A few days ago, she wore a strange dress, just like an inflatable bag stuffed in a courier box to prevent the goods from being damaged.
Colleagues joked: part-time delivery?
She scoffed at it and condescended to popularize science: this is a new air vest of a luxury brand, 26 thousand.
I was shocked to hear that.
I walked around her and observed her carefully, which was amazing.
Besides, she wore a mink coat in the office on dog days.
That mink is worth tens of thousands of dollars, I don't know yet;
All I know is that if the air conditioner doesn't work well, she will definitely suffer from heatstroke in situ.
The food company serves a meal at noon.
Aunt is a superb cook-her delicious shredded fish can make me cook two bowls of rice without hesitation.
But Xiao Gan never eats in the company.
She once insinuated that her aunt's cooking was unhealthy, her oil and salt exceeded the standard, and her practice was vulgar, which did not meet her taste at all.
Downstairs of the company, there are coffee shops, Lamian Noodles shops and dessert shops.
A cup of coffee costs tens of dollars, a bowl of Lamian Noodles costs tens of dollars, and an ice cream ball costs tens of dollars.
Xiao Gan ate with relish.
But it also can't stand scrutiny:
Are those coffees, Lamian Noodles and ice cream necessarily healthy and upscale?
I haven't been to Xiao Gan's house, but I know all the brands of toilets in her mansion.
Because she said it countless times when chatting in the office, and it was almost sparking.
What smart toilets, smart homes, luxurious decoration and superior location? ...
Everything is available. It's all here.
It is said that she has two sets of large flat floors in the old city and the development zone, both exceeding 180 square meters.
When other colleagues questioned her bragging, she immediately sat back and said with good reason how strong her family background was and how strong her boyfriend's assets and financial resources were.
Convince everyone, or pretend to be convinced.
Well, although she goes to work by public transport (subway, bus), she has a deep prejudice against cars under 300 thousand.
When you buy an entry-level Mercedes-Benz, BMW and Audi, you are embarrassed to park your car downstairs.
If she finds out, you must accept her ridicule.
You should ask her what car she drives or what car she has at home. She never answers directly, but her high-spirited tone and tone will make you feel that if you don't drive Bentley or Rolls-Royce, you are sorry for her worth.
Once, the company was established. Xiao Gan, who has always been dignified and elegant, somehow released himself uncharacteristically and drank a square dance on the KTV table.
After the league building, she was lying on the KTV sofa, fast asleep and drooling.
I think everyone doesn't want to take care of her, so I can't stand it, so I sent her to the door and called a taxi.
Not too worried, I also sat in the back row and planned to take her home.
In the car, a message came from her mobile phone.
I didn't mean to peek into other people's privacy. I only glanced at it and saw the words "high imitation", "replica" and "1: 1".
Soon, her cell phone rang.
It's her boyfriend She babbled that she would go home soon and asked her boyfriend to pick her up.
Later, I met her boyfriend, who was "rich and rich"—
A middle-aged man with disheveled and greasy hair, less than1.7m in height, failed in body management, with a big belly (somewhat like Simon, an online celebrity), wearing a work uniform with "XX Construction Team" printed on it and a pair of flip-flops, grinned at me and scratched his hair and said, "You have to pay a lot of fares." Then he helped Xiao Gan home with an expression of disgust.
Being poor in the end is not terrible.
No one is born rich and expensive, and everyone has stepped onto the peak of his career step by step through hard work from a poor and white situation.
Therefore, it's no big deal to admit that you are poor and face up to your poverty situation-you can even realize your position more clearly and motivate yourself to move forward bravely.
The terrible thing is that you are poor and vain. Wrapping your poor heart with things that are expensive outside (not sure whether it is true or not) will not only make your life progress at all, but also make you lose yourself in a materialistic society.
Are there any extremely poor people around you who pretend to be richer than anyone else?
I used to know a Bangladeshi who hit the "Great Northern Wilderness" with one punch! Ha!
Bangladesh is very poor and backward, and of course there are rich people, but this one I know is definitely not a "rich second generation"!
But he must say that he is a rich second generation. He said that his father was a doctor in Bangladesh, and his family opened several pharmacies and several large supermarkets.
Every year, his father changes cars for him. During their Ramadan, his father will buy many cows for poor families.
Later, one of his fellow villagers told me that this man's father is indeed a doctor, but he belongs to a "traveling doctor". To put it bluntly, there is no "quack" with a doctor qualification certificate!
There is no drugstore in his home, let alone several! Even if it is medicine, it is also a mountain herb!
There are no large supermarkets in Bangladesh. His family just has a "supermarket" smaller than a small shop!
In short, this man has no truth at all, it's all "bragging" lies!
In fact, he rented a house for more than a dozen people, eating and drinking were very economical, and he was rich in front of outsiders. He got a cut-price fashion and "pretended" to be a rich second generation with sunglasses!
I think such people live very tired and ridiculous, living in a world of lies every day and constantly pretending to be themselves. Most people in Bangladesh are poor. They come to a new world and are afraid of being looked down upon by others, so they try their best to "whitewash" themselves!
If I believe you, I am really a "fool"!
There are really people around me who have no money to buy big things.
He is a friend of her husband's surnamed Zhuang, who hangs out in the circle of friends all day. Today, he had dinner with this man, and tomorrow, he invited that man to drink. We have been friends for 20 or 20 years. Everyone knows each other, but we just can't see through it. We hit the fat man in the face every day, and later we nicknamed him "Zhuang Fat Man".
He likes to play with rich friends, but he has no money to play with poor families, so he tries to get a credit card, overdraws his spending and has no fixed income, which also brings him a lot of trouble. Later, when the credit card could not be used, he continued to apply for another card, so the amount to be repaid was not enough for him. As long as I don't stop, major banks have applied for cards almost once. Every time I go out, I spend money with my number. The date of repayment is recorded on the card, and there will be interest if it is overdue. So I live a life of repayment day every day, seeing more than a dozen people. Every day, I rob Peter to pay Paul. If I don't care at all, I will fill this hole.
If the money on the credit card cannot be exchanged, he will try to lend it to his relatives and friends. It's easy to say it for the first time. There is no time to pay back the money and no chance to talk again. Finally, his friends won't lend him this bottomless pit. If you have no money, you can spend it leisurely. He also pursues a high quality of life. He drinks three or four hundred cups of tea every day, and every time he sees the cup in his hand, the tip of his hair is soaked. This tea must not be cheap. When we meet, we should smoke "Hanako" first, wear sports brands, children should learn all kinds of extra-long classes, and go out to the toilet to drive. The last time I saw him, he told her husband to change cars and replace the Audi Q5L with the current Volkswagen Tiguan. Who is driving a new car again? Who will make up the difference of hundreds of thousands? Didn't your credit card burst?
My husband is very uncomfortable, and he wants to borrow 1 Wan Yuanyou from me for two years, and you still don't have the courage to say that you want to change cars! Every time I ask him to pay back the money, I say it quickly. I stand him up again and again, but I have nothing to say. With this 1 10,000, I haven't asked for money in the past two years.
I can't wait for my friend's money, and I can't wait for the money owed outside. I haven't seen him for some time during the Spring Festival. Later, I learned from another friend that he was beaten by a debt collector. I heard it's still serious. I didn't go to see him to save face, and I didn't want to find fault with him. It's hard to cry when it comes to money. You still have to fill the hole yourself. Others can't help you. It is estimated that you owe the bank1200,000 yuan in recent years. Such people are even more pitiful.
Now he often hangs out in the "aristocratic circle" and cannot extricate himself. I really hope a heavy rain will wake him up.
Thank you for your invitation.
That's what I am. Of the five brothers and sisters, I am the poorest and the most generous.
This is a matter of personal character. I spend money lavishly. You must buy better things, perhaps because hoarders are more generous. I wonder if you are as generous as I am.
Although the stock market lost some money, it is impolite to spend money.
In recent years, I am old and have less contact with my friends, so I seldom meet such friends.
Especially with the development of the times, it is not easy for such people to pretend to be rich. The luxury cars of the really rich are so glamorous. You don't always blow money with your mouth when riding a big electric donkey. Pretending is not easy.
But it seems that the further history goes, the more such friends there are. I have known several such people in my life.
When I was a child, I had a child about ten years old. In the early 1980s, we were all children in villages and towns, with little knowledge and almost no two dollars. At first, the child said that he had a TV set at home, which was enviable enough.
Children climb trees, climb walls, play with glass balls, throw bricks and tiles, and there is almost no language communication, but such people just love to exchange ideas and have rich imagination. But at that time, the media was underdeveloped and there were not many ways to accept ideas and knowledge, so the child first said that he had a TV and a tape recorder, and then he described all kinds of delicious food he had eaten. Finally, he told me that he really had nothing to brag about. Of course, this is the home of a distant relative of his. He doesn't live nearby.
I am willing to play with him, even if he takes half my popsicle in summer and half my whip in winter. It seems that Brother Xun loves the earth, and he always tells all kinds of great legends without foreshadowing, which brings me into a thrilling and bizarre situation. I forgot to question, in fact, I still think it is worthwhile to spend time with him. I have always thought that people are just a big piece of carbohydrate. Truth is not important, talent is important.
As an adult, this friend became a famous local poet, but he died around the age of 40, and I don't know what happened.
When I was young, I heard some colleagues talk about their mutual friend. He is also a teacher, but he is an idle teacher who always asks for leave. They say he is lying even when he is breathing, and he always likes to borrow money from his colleagues and friends. Because I am also a vulgar person, I found an opportunity to meet this person later.
However, his cow has always been vulgar. It is nothing more than drinking and eating roast chicken skeleton in a snack bar, telling some inspirational stories, how the floating spring fought back, how he met a rich widow, and an epic love story happened.
At that time, the media was very developed, and TV could watch more than 30 channels, so I listened to him and advised him to drink, staring at his dirty booth shirt and an eight-dollar platinum cigarette. I just think these boots are a little funny and I'm not fooled. I only had three or four contacts and never met again.
After middle-aged and elderly people, the last braggart I know. Diabetic patients in their fifties were imprisoned when they were young. Now single, renting a house. Wear a black vest and a small hat like Xu Wenqiang. Every evening when walking in the park, he often tells me loudly the legend or some interesting anecdotes of his youth. Because of his weird clothes, I always deliberately stay away from him when I walk, for fear that the hard-earned party will think I am weird, too. Later, he also had more time. Whenever I go for a walk, he can go with me. Seeing that he is really embarrassed and has no fixed income, I occasionally invite him to have a barbecue or send him some unwanted household appliances, daily necessities, rice oil and old clothes. After three years and two years of thorough familiarity, he began to ask for something and money gradually. If I refuse him occasionally, he will be angry and sarcastic, and even punish me for not taking a walk.
A boaster, or a poor man who pretends to be rich, actually just wants to prove or assume his own value, if not to cheat. Everything they do is to gain the respect of others.
Sometimes I think this is a mild mental illness. Putting yourself in a hypothetical situation is not only an escape from the reality of suffering, but also an escape from a short life. If you can really get happiness, it is very cost-effective.
It is obvious that a child is playing with my son, and her mother only picks him up occasionally. Usually, she just asks our parents to send their children back.
He is from the next yard, and he has only seen his mother a few times. She always talks about millions of businesses on her mobile phone, just like a big boss.
In this way, after a while, she began to put her son in our house to play and said that she would pick him up at night, but he still didn't come when the child should go to bed. I want to send my child back to her home. The child said there was no one at home and I couldn't get in without a key.
So the child lived in my house for two days before she picked him up.
Later, I talked with the treasure moms around me. A mother said it was still good. Once she stayed at her home for five days. It is said that her mother went abroad for a meeting. When her mother came back, she gave a pizza as a reward.
Obviously, the clothes my mother wears are all ethnic, and I can't see how much they are worth.
When asked what her mother does, the child always points to the tallest building next to her and says that her mother is there, but everyone is different.
Slowly, some people understand that things are not simple. Once they met Mingming's grandmother and asked Mingming's mother what she was busy with. Her grandmother said angrily that she was busy watching her mobile phone at home. It turns out that Mingming's mother used to be a pyramid scheme.
With the country's attack, pyramid schemes can't go on. She is penniless and lives on a minimum living allowance of several hundred yuan per month from her grandmother.
However, I have to admire her for educating children to eat and drink in every family. What a thick skin. Eat enough. Speaking of a set of lies, today in America, tomorrow in Japan.
Yes, and a lot.
This kind of person belongs to those who would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle. It is hypocritical and hateful. Pretend to be rich, dress like a dog, dress beautifully, and can't talk without eating cowhide. In fact, it's just a piece of skin, empty shelf, with no stuffing in it, and always can't pay at the critical moment.
I am surrounded by extremely rich people. They are not only low-key and simple, but also cry when they have nothing to do.
No, I didn't see it. On the contrary, everyone is rich and miserable. No one bragged about how to get rich. Maybe there is no such person in the work environment. It's just that some people dress well, some eat well and some eat badly, so it's easy to buy a car, and everyone has their own hobbies. Everyone who doesn't brag lives in a place where they don't know anyone.