Probably Gu Jia is too good, which makes Xu Huanshan feel that he is not respected and valued. The way Gu Jia and Xu Huanshan get along has always been to talk and listen.

There are actually marriages like this. Generally, the wife is stronger, while the husband is more depressed. They cannot feel the self-esteem of a man, and they always feel that their status in the family is very important. Low. Maybe at the beginning, like Xu Huanshan, they felt that listening to their wives would bring harmony to the family, and they clearly knew that their wives were doing good for themselves and the family. But over time, they always feel that their male self-esteem and status are not satisfied, so they are easily tempted by the outside world, that is, Lin Youyou. In fact, Xu Huanshan is not fond of the new and hates the old, he just wants to gain some recognition.

In fact, the person he loves is still Gu Jia, but Gu Jia is too calm and rational, and wants to succeed too much, thus ignoring the essence of a happy life. Xu Huanshan has always hit a wall with Gu Jia. His disapproving partner Gu Jia just doesn't want to give up. The blue fireworks he likes also give up because Gu Jia thinks they are dangerous. He likes food but Gu Jia doesn't want to give up because of him. He is not allowed to eat dinner because he has fatty liver disease. In fact, the thinking of boys and girls has always been different. All girls may have certain characteristics of Lin Youyou at the beginning. They can play and make trouble with Xu Huanshan, but in the end they will become Gu Jia , because they not only love Xu Huanshan, but also love this family. They will take the overall situation into consideration in many things, and they will become more rational in looking at problems. In short, Xu Huanshan may have a problem with Gu Jia, but the biggest problem is himself.

A man may have many reasons for cheating, and even these reasons may seem very powerful, but I think as long as he cheats, it is his fault. After all, conflicts between husband and wife can be discussed openly, but he does not speak out, only tolerates it, and only cares about temporary pleasure when encountering temptation without considering how much harm his behavior will cause to the family. This is Very irresponsible behavior.