Being broken up by a scumbag man is so uncomfortable. Girls feel tormented and uncomfortable every minute. I understand very well how girls feel about this situation. But it has to be said that girls have to pay for the pain caused by their naivety. When you are living with a boy during a relationship, you should understand that it is one thing to love a boy, but it is another thing to live together. You need to bear the risks of living together. Have girls ever thought about it?

Love is about the integration of three views, finding your interests and hobbies, and your aspirations in life. In this love process, there will be sweetness and distress. But there is no need to live together to get used to it. If you are not completely familiar with each other, no matter how open your outlook on love is, it is not recommended to live together. Whether it's the temptation of boys or the fact that you think you can grasp your feelings and experience the life of living together. The price paid is heavy.

Living together just exposes all shortcomings to each other. All living habits are integrated. When they first fall in love, girls will feel that they can go anywhere. They enjoy the current love period and choose to live together. In the end, all the expectations in their hearts are shattered. No matter how developed or stable the relationship is, it is not recommended to live together. You must understand each other, and don't be carried away by a wave of love. You will feel that the other person is the person you are destined to be, and you can't wait. Anyone who wants to experience the other person's life earlier should consider it comprehensively and think twice before making a move.

I think too simply and casually, thinking that living together can deepen the relationship between the two, face each other every day, be with each other, and be happy. This idea is beautiful, but the reality is cruel.

Benefits of living together

Consolidating relationships and harmonizing emotional worldviews can make two people closer and lay the foundation for marriage.

The so-called trial marriage can expose all the conflicts and shortcomings between the two people before marriage and fully integrate them.

It can make two people more mature and quickly lead to happiness.

Disadvantages of cohabitation

Cohabitation is supposed to lay the foundation for future relationship development, but if you are not prepared, you often think it is just a joke when you realize this.

It will no longer be full of mystery, it will also lose its information power, and gradually lose its desire for the other party.

The impact of eating forbidden fruit is obvious, causing girls to have unwanted pregnancies and abortions, creating a vicious cycle. Cause physical and psychological harm to the body.

Girls cannot get out of this painful experience. Only by explaining yourself, figuring it out, and conquering yourself can you get out of this painful experience. No matter how deep the wound is, it will always heal, no matter how painful the pain will be, it will always pass. As long as you have the courage to face it, there is no obstacle that cannot be overcome.

The past is past, put it aside and let it go with the wind. Only in this way can you feel relaxed and happy, and accept new feelings with a relaxed mood.