Before children enter kindergarten, many parents will teach their children to fight back if they are bullied, regardless of the effect. Have you found that there is a kind of children who seem to be particularly vulnerable to bullying?

Sophia Kao is a "Xiong Haizi" who is particularly naughty at home, so Sophia Kao's mother never thought that her son would be bullied.

One day, Sophia Kao's mother took her son to the recreation area of the community to play with slides. Several children of the same age have a good time together. At this time, a slightly older child suddenly came over and wanted to cut in line. He cut in line in front of other children one by one, but they were all rejected. Until he cut in line before Sophia Kao, Sophia Kao uncharacteristically did not stop him, but silently acquiesced in the other party's cut in line.

The older children found Sophia Kao "easy to bully". Every time he goes to Sophia Kao to jump the queue, sometimes he deliberately pushes Sophia Kao. Although Sophia Kao's mother saw it, she wanted her children to solve the problem by themselves, so she didn't intervene.

However, the big boy went too far, and finally he tripped over Sophia Kao. Sophia Kao didn't dare to question the big boy after tripping, but just sat on the ground and began to cry. On the contrary, Jiao Jiao, a little girl who plays together, can't stand it. She grabbed the big boy and wouldn't let him go, asking him to apologize to Qiqi.

Of course, the older children don't want to apologize to Qiqi. Jiao Jiao is adamant. Before the parents gathered around, Jiao Jiao kept saying, "He has been bullying Sophia Kao. We all saw it. He must apologize to Qiqi! "

Later, the older child's mother taught him a lesson, told him to apologize to Qiqi and left. Sophia Kao's mother comforted her son, but she also felt that his son was a bully at home at ordinary times. How could he be so "timid" after he came out?

Sophia Kao's mother was very envious when she saw Tingting, who was one year younger than her son, so she asked Tingting's mother how to educate her children and wanted to study by herself.

Tingting's mother said: "We parents are most afraid of children being bullied, so I have always attached great importance to children's anti-bullying education. You can try these two methods. Although they are a bit stupid, they are really effective. "

Two "stupid methods" make children change from "good bullying" to "bad bullying" and will not be bullied anywhere. The method is simple and effective, which is worth learning.

(1) Keep exercising and let children have a good physique.

Children who don't like sports look weak, and they are more likely to be bullied. Parents say children should fight back when they are bullied. Without a good constitution, children have no confidence at all, so they must keep exercising.

It is very important for boys and girls to have a healthy body. Children who exercise regularly are strong and energetic, and they are very "annoying" from the outside. Even if they can't beat bullying, they can run away quickly and ask adults for help.

(2) Let the children have an aura that can't be provoked.

There is a kind of children who are easily bullied. Most of them are introverted, talkative and look like bullies.

When a bully chooses a bully, he often tries again and again. If the other party doesn't resist or say "no" at the first time, he will be regarded as a "soft persimmon".

In order to prevent children from being bullied, parents should not only cultivate their children's good physique, but also let them have a strong heart. In the face of bullying, they should bravely say "no" and learn how to solve problems and deal with conflicts, thus forming an atmosphere of "not being angered".

Professor Li Meijin, a child-rearing expert, pointed out: "When educating children, parents should not only let their children have a harmless growth environment, but also have a harmless atmosphere. If you don't want your children to be bullies, you should let them know how to deal with being bullied. "

Many parents don't know how to cultivate children's "unruly" atmosphere, and they don't know where to start. Then, I recommend you to take a look at this set of children's self-protection picture books series "Say No to Bullying" to strengthen children's anti-bullying awareness and conflict resolution ability.

Parents can take their children to read picture books, and at the same time, they can simulate the situation with their children according to the stories told in the book, so that even if the children are really bullied, they can remain calm and have the ability to solve problems.

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