Every parent should have no existing experience before upgrading to "dad/mom".

In fact, every child is a unique individual, so there is no manual that every parent can copy when educating their children.

Looking back on the growth path of my family's "caring little cotton-padded jacket", it can be said that my father and I have a path of "fighting monsters and upgrading".

On the day my baby was born, my father and I, both of whom have Ph.D. degrees from the top two universities in China, were stumped by how to wrap her in the little quilt.

Seeing the family across from the delivery room "picking up the baby", my father and I's self-confidence was really "shattered".

Looking at the plump lump of meat, I didn’t know what to do. I was even more afraid that if I didn’t do it right, there would be serious consequences. I felt too stressed.

After humbly asking for advice and constant practice, I finally mastered the skill of wrapping quilts.

In the next N days, experts said that "whether the baby's stool is normal is a barometer of the baby's health." My father and I carefully observed the baby's stool every day, including but not limited to color, smell, shape, consistency, etc.

Under our careful care, the baby spent its infancy healthily and smoothly.

“All hard work pays off”, and my father’s and my observation skills have also risen to a new level.

The baby has entered early childhood, and experts say that "the age of 3 to 6 is the golden period for children to develop good habits."

First of all, in order to help the child develop a good habit of reading, the father and I researched in advance which books are suitable for each stage. After deciding on the book list, we not only took turns reading with the child, but also exchanged thoughts with the child after reading.

With our hard work, a family of three reading together has become a wonderful family time for our family.

Secondly, in order to let my baby develop a good habit of not being picky about food, I took on the role of "chef" without hesitation. From studying recipes to hands-on practice, with the unswerving appreciation of my baby's father, every meal I produced was quickly available on the disk.

, my baby has indeed developed a good habit of healthy eating, and I have also transformed from a "novice" in the kitchen to the "god of chef" in the family.

After the child entered elementary school, he deeply felt the so-called "Haidian Juan child".

When we were young, only those who were poor in studies participated in extracurricular tutoring!

And now, why are all the cool kids attending cram schools?

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Our original "Buddhist" approach to raising children became outdated.

After several struggles, I obtained my baby’s consent and enrolled her in the famous XES, and my baby became a member of Haidian’s tutoring army.

Almost every weekend after that, my baby’s dad and I started taking turns tutoring my baby after school.

At first, we actively helped our baby with his homework, and we were able to handle it completely. We even got angry because the baby couldn't keep up with our own pace. Gradually, it became more and more difficult, and the baby's father and I could no longer keep up with the baby's rhythm.

, quite a feeling of being “photographed on the beach”.

Nowadays, the baby often tests me and the baby's father on the difficult problems she encounters, and we always answer them with a serious attitude.

If you get the answer right, discuss your thoughts and experiences with your child; if you get the answer wrong, analyze the reason for the error with your child.

This can be regarded as the two of us making progress together with our baby.

It is worth mentioning that in addition to “reading thousands of books”, my baby’s father and I also “traveled thousands of miles” with my baby.

Let your child directly experience a different world, experience more, and gain wider knowledge.

We have never joined a tour group. In order to travel, we have to make detailed plans in advance, including accommodation, transportation, beautiful scenery, food, etc.

It was also the first time for my father and I to go to many places, which was also a big challenge for us.

Start with Singapore, Malaysia, and Thailand around our country, and then go to Australia, Maldives, the United States, etc. further away.

Since the COVID-19 epidemic, traveling abroad has been impossible, so we wandered around Beijing, first visiting several 5A scenic spots (Forbidden City, Temple of Heaven, Great Wall, Summer Palace, Old Summer Palace, etc.), and then visited parks and venues near home.

In the process of traveling together, we left many beautiful memories with our children.

Accompanying the baby to grow up little by little, watching her grow taller day by day, I am delighted with her little progress.

As the parents of our children, we would like to thank our children for all the affirmations they have given us during our growth (for example, chefs, chefs, beautiful mothers, handsome fathers, etc.). We will continue to maintain the learning spirit of "live and learn".

, keep pace with the times, and strive not to be "photographed on the beach"! Thank you for having you along the way, a beautiful life is just like this, go ahead and cherish it.