The method is as follows:

1. Treat everyone equally

The elderly should learn to divert their attention and not dwell on the reasons, but should learn to understand and get along with each other and not treat their daughter-in-law and Son-in-law treats everyone equally. If you like this, alienate it, and do unfair things, you will not be able to gain the respect and love of children. Therefore, we should pay attention to keeping a bowl of water level in front of the child.

2. Don’t gossip

Mind your own business and be tolerant and considerate of your children. Even if you find that your child is dissatisfied in some aspects, don't always criticize and blame them. If something goes wrong, you can give good guidance and patient education. Don't make sarcastic remarks or nag endlessly. This will only add fuel to the fire, so you should learn to control your mouth.

3. Don’t have too high demands on children

If the elderly do not understand the difficulties of taking care of children and always give them some problems and put them under a lot of pressure, I believe they will not will truly accept you. Therefore, if you want to get along well with your children, try not to ask too much of them on weekdays. If you really want your children to be filial to you, you should pay attention to more emotional communication with them. You should know how to give way to money and not put too much financial pressure on your children.

4. Learn to play dumb

Old people should be more tolerant of children. If there is a dispute or dispute between children, let them fully express their opinions and then try to find common ground while reserving differences. Don't always fight with your kids and then you have to fight for a high or low level. Really boring. we are Family. As an older person, you need to learn to be silly and humble to avoid hurting the other person's feelings and leaving a rift.

5. Share household chores reasonably and relieve the pressure on children

Modern social life is very stressful, and work pressure is not small. Every day, the children drag their tired bodies home and just want a warm meal and a comfortable place to rest quietly. At this time, if parents can share some housework, help their children with cooking, mopping the floor, etc., their children will naturally appreciate your efforts and be more willing to be filial to you in the future. Naturally, this family can live in harmony for a long time.